Why did Big S and Zaizai break up?

Happy couples are all alike; Unhappy couples are unhappy in their own way. There are different speculations about the ending of the love affair: some people say that their feelings have changed from strong to weak after filming for many years. Some people say that the woman's 30-year-old big S was forced to get married, which made the naive boy feel at a loss. Others said that when filming Butterfly, Li Bingbing's accidental intervention caused Yuanyang to be beaten. In short, opinions vary. However, in various versions of the rumors of breaking up, one word has a high mention rate, that is, "the strength of big S", which has almost become the "key word" for the end of love. In fact, Dayailian was not favored from the beginning. Although the big S is charming and handsome, the combination of "strong women and weak men" has been in turmoil because of the love between brothers and sisters and the strong and jealous personality of the big S. Recently, some media broke the news: When Zaizai was recording a program in Nanjing, he met Chen Fu, a player of Master Gao, who looks particularly like his ex-girlfriend Xu Weilun, and blurted out: "You look almost exactly like my ex-girlfriend, so much like it, not only like it, but also like it. For a moment, I was confused and almost lost my mind. " Thus, Xu Weilun's weight in Zaizai's heart. However, he added cautiously, "This is not a live satellite broadcast, is it? The big S should not be seen, I hope there is no eyeliner here! " Although this is a joke, it also inadvertently exposes the "hen-pecked" character of Big S. When a woman is too strong and bossing around at home, does her other half bow down or rise up and resist? Obviously, boys with weak nature choose the former, but sometimes men are like a naughty child. The more you control him, the more he refuses. The more you make him obey, the more he wants to resist. The more you restrict him, the more he wants to escape. When a woman insists on being a queen at home everywhere, will the men around her have the fear of "accompanying the king like a tiger"? Zaizai has made a rule that he can't take part in game shows casually, so as not to be used by other girls, but handsome Zaizai can always break out many scandals, which casts a shadow over their love relationship. It is said that the boy's hair stood on end when he heard the sound of big S's high heels. For such rumors, Zaizai also responded when he was in Nanjing: "It's not so exaggerated. I like quiet, so I feel a little uncomfortable. " According to media reports, Zaizai has been living in the house of Big S, and seems to have a girlfriend around to take care of him. In fact, life is not happy He once complained to his friends that both Big S and her mother are big women, so they often ignore his feelings. They often go to Zaizai, so do his friends. I was so annoyed that I could only deal with it superficially every day, but I gritted my teeth and swallowed it. Dissatisfaction accumulated for too long, and Cai Zi, who was a little timid by nature, could not help but burst out. "He had a lot of disputes with Big S, but he didn't take advantage of it at all." China's mode of marriage and love has always been that men are strong and women are weak. Men can only conquer women with indomitable spirit. Even a handsome and gentle man like Zaizai longs for an innocent girl around him. This is a man's nature-he longs for the woman around him to care about him and love him, and also hopes that this woman around him will appreciate and worship him. These days, a man's love for "brother and sister" is caused by his deep-rooted Oedipus complex. He needs a gentle and considerate big woman like his mother and sister to love him in all aspects, but he doesn't need the other person to play the role of mother all the time. If the other person often restricts his freedom in the name of love and always hurts his self-esteem in a condescending tone, the man will have the idea of escaping from the cage and loving the other person. Which man wants to die in the jaws of death? I once said in an article that a strong woman is not afraid of being weak at the outside, and she is afraid of taking this uncompromising leadership style home and treating her seven-foot man's husband as a "shrimp soldier and crab general." Men, especially those in China, always put their faces first, not to mention idol stars like Zaizai, who go out with a crowd of fans, just like a high-ranking leader, but are willing to be a willing ox when they get home, which inevitably leads to psychological imbalance. I remember the Japanese love novelist Junichi Watanabe said that happy couples (lovers) should be good at playing various roles, that is, husband and wife, friends, brothers and sisters, and occasionally father and daughter, mother and son. It can be seen that Big S cares about Zaizai very much, but she is several years older than Zaizai, and always plays the roles of sister and mother in front of her beloved boyfriend involuntarily, instead of properly replacing the role of sister with that of daughter. She paid the pain, and Zaizai accepted the fatigue. There is a popular saying recently, asking what the world is like, everything has its vanquisher. It seems that the "high-pressure policy" implemented by Big S for a long time has not stopped the other side. Women are not afraid of being bigger than men and earning more money than men. They are afraid of tying men to their side all the time like puppies and being masters of men at home and abroad like their mothers. A woman with a strong personality should remember not to always play a strong role in front of her boyfriend or husband, but to properly show the other side of a young woman who is gentle, charming and coquettish, otherwise she will inevitably become a weak person in the arena of love.