A story about cherishing the present?

Happiness is not something to fight for or grab, it comes from cherishing it. Only by cherishing it can you not lose it. What are the stories about cherishing? The following is a story about cherishing the present that I compiled for you. I hope it will be helpful to you!

Story of cherishing the present Part 1: Cherish every opportunity to make a fool of yourself in public

I have been shy since I was a child. For 5 years in elementary school, I had a Shijiazhuang accent, a very idiom, and a stutter. Sometimes my brother would give me a slap in the face unexpectedly. They said this could cure my stutter.

I am the kind of person who has trouble expressing emotions. Maybe the more such a person is, the more relaxed he will be on stage. Sometimes before I go on stage, I feel very stupid, so I will say to the people around me: "Praise me." Lu Yu and some other people will shout around me: "You are unparalleled, you are the best and the most beautiful." Great. "Hey, it's really useful, so I feel calm and excited. If you pay attention to boxing matches in the United States, there will be press conferences before the matches. Those boxing champions will say to reporters: "I'm going to crush him like a bug." Is he uneducated and rude? No, this is a This technique of psychological adjustment is to make yourself excited.

Once when I was giving a lecture to the host, I said: "No matter how introverted or awkward a person you are, there will be a time when you are chatting with others and your spirit will be high, and everyone will be attracted. One time proves that you are eloquent. You don’t need to cultivate this ability. What you need is how to mobilize your ability and use it when necessary.”

I am. When I was in junior high school, my teacher asked me to participate in a speech contest and I wrote a speech, which I memorized by heart. I asked my family to say the first word of any natural paragraph, and I just memorized the rest. When I came on stage, it was completely dark. I memorized the first paragraph and just thought about the words at the beginning of the second paragraph. After memorizing the second paragraph, my mind went blank. I was silent for a full minute in front of all the teachers and students in the school. I was so scared that I peed my pants. , all the teachers and students in the school witnessed me running out of the school gate. Later, when I went back to school, I felt that the laughter of the girls next to me was laughing at me.

Our teacher said to me: "Although you didn't finish your speech, the two paragraphs you recited were very good. Don't be nervous. If you can memorize it, you will definitely get a ranking. I recommend you to participate in the district. Competition." This time I agreed more happily than last time, as if it didn't matter anymore, but I got a ranking by memorizing it. I have changed a bit since then. Anyway, I am no longer shameless, so what else do I have to fear? After taking off this burden, I feel that I am okay and can often show my face on various occasions.

Chinese people are traditionally introverted, and it is rare for everyone to listen to you. You should cherish every opportunity to speak and perform in public, and let yourself accumulate frustrations and experience of making a fool of yourself, so that you can Let go of your ego. If I make a fool of myself this time, just laugh at me, I will lose one point of shame. Next time I make a fool of myself, I will lose two points of shame. When I lose all shame, I will enter the kingdom of freedom and the state of selflessness.

"Self" is made up of the so-called face, vanity and other things. When these things are all destroyed, you will suddenly find that you have gained everything. If you make a small fool of yourself in front of 10 people today, tomorrow this will help you earn a big face in front of 100,000 people.

Look at my appearance, I am hunched over and can’t straighten my waist, so when I sit with the female host, I look short. The director put a phone number book under my ***. But the female host was unhappy. She was quite tall, so why should I put one on her head? I went to the toilet and came back and found, hey, she also had one on her head. Just use the cushion. Later, the director thought that you were still shorter than others after using the cushion, so he gave me another cushion. In the end, I found that I was almost standing because I had already used several cushions. The more I think about these things, the more screwed up I get, the more you think about where to put your hands, the less you know where to put them.

I summed up two crazy sayings: The happiest time is when you forget yourself.

I think my speaking style on the show has been transplanted from the speaking charm of many of my friends. I am not a person born with a sense of humor at all, but I have an extremely keen sense. People who are familiar with me will find that there are many things in me. There are traces of my friends, and even traces of my boss and station director. I have brought together too many movies, books, and life to form my current hosting style.

When I came to Phoenix Satellite TV, I first hosted "Phoenix TV" and became an entertainer. It was "Qiang Qiang Threesome", I became the host of a chat show, and then I filmed "Old Dou's Family" and "Old Dou's Bar". I felt that I was moving closer to an actor, so my style is always changing. Some people stay the same in order to cope with the ever-changing, and they always look the same in any show, and it still suits them all. I am a bit like a lunatic.

Cherish the present story Part 2: The last lesson

To this day, when I think back to that experience, I still have lingering fears.

At that time, she taught ancient Chinese, which was a very boring subject in our Chinese department. After a few classes, I felt uninterested and started writing my own manuscript.

Once, she suddenly woke me up and asked a few very difficult questions. After a period of silence from me, she said with a livid face: "Classmate Pan, please stand at the edge of the podium and listen to the lecture. ." Several classmates showed gloating "smiling faces", which made me feel extremely ashamed.

I raised my face and said firmly: "Teacher, is there a better solution?"

"Yes!" Her face turned redder, every word. Said, "That is, when you walk out of the classroom, you don't have to take my class this semester."

Those "smiling faces" disappeared, and they must have started to worry about me. Under their gaze, I pushed the door open without thinking.

A few months passed in the blink of an eye. During this period, I often spent time in self-blame and uneasiness, and I no longer had the pride and unruliness in my heart.

Only the last class is left. That day, I entered the classroom early, and my heart was filled with turmoil.

She walked up to the podium, and I glanced at her secretly. She looked a little pale. I regretted my original impulse. She looked around the classroom, and at that moment - our eyes met each other in a hurry. For a moment, I saw a glimmer of light in her dim eyes, and a smile quietly bloomed on her face, which only I could see.

In that class, she spoke very vividly, and I listened very attentively.

Just ten minutes before the end of get out of class, she said: "Students, can you give me the remaining ten minutes?" The students looked at her in confusion.

"I regretted it the moment I asked Pan Xuan to walk out of the classroom a few months ago." Her straight-to-the-point confession left me at a loss. "In the past few months, I have been apologizing all the time. However, when I looked at his empty seat, I often blamed myself and asked my classmates to forgive me, because it was my fault and because I did not dare to bear the consequences of my mistakes and repeatedly shirk responsibility. This is my chance to apologize..." And what about me? I am not shirking my responsibility again and again out of pride and willfulness. I walked up to the podium in tears and bowed deeply to her.

After I walked out of the classroom a few months ago, this was the first time I listened to her "lecture" and it was also the last class. Fortunately, I did not miss it.

Cherish the present story Part 3: Cherish

An old expert, with a monthly salary of nearly 10,000 yuan, has no hobbies. He only likes to eat pancakes and shrimp paste for three meals a day. When eating, hold it with your right hand and hold it with your left hand, for fear that some crumbs will fall to the ground. Occasionally, if a bit of it falls on the ground, I must pick it up carefully, blow it with my mouth, stuff it in my mouth, and then eat it. Some people think it's not worth it, but the old expert is a person from the old society. When he was a child, he was afraid of hunger and felt bad for wasting things!

There is also a couple who have been quarreling for half their lives. The quarrel is all because the man smokes, drinks and gambles. As a result, I can’t get through the day without making noises.

As expected, there was no quarrel later, because the man was seriously ill, had a hard time with the God of Death, and almost lost his life. Nowadays, men do not smoke, drink or gamble, and the couple no longer quarrel. They are inseparable and walk hand in hand on the street every day. The man occasionally kisses the back of the woman's hand, which is more passionate than a young man's first love! When asked about his psychology, the man said that he is the god of death. After giving him a fixed period, he has to live a good life and can no longer waste his life or the relationship between husband and wife.

Yes, people should cherish their hard-won material life, emotions and life, but why so many people regret it is because they don’t know how to cherish it.