Reflections after reading "Just the Right Happiness" by Bi Shumin

"The Right Happiness" proposes "happiness" as a positive life value, and guides readers through the long night with words as warm as candlelight. Let me share with you my thoughts after reading "Just the Right Happiness" by Bi Shumin. Welcome to read! Review 1 of Bi Shumin's "Just the Right Happiness"

Her rich life experience itself is an aftertasteful and long story. When he was young, he worked as a military doctor in Ili, Xinjiang, and later as a psychiatrist. He slowly began to engage in literary creation, and then traveled around the world. She was called "the white angel of literature" by Wang Meng. She is Bi Shumin.

I like her and her way of happiness.

I can’t forget that sentence: We speak deep words lightly, and we walk the long road slowly.

She is such a person who experiences life, feels her heart, and uses words to interpret happiness and life in depth. Doctor, psychological counselor, writer, I don’t want to call her these titles. I should be the leader of happiness, the one who helps you build your inner map of happiness.

I had already purchased her book "Just the Right Happiness", but I thought it must be another chicken soup for the soul book, so I put it on the shelf.

When I picked it up again now, it was covered with dust, but the light green color of the cover and the quiet and warm picture of a country house still attracted me instantly and made me want to read it.

So, read it in one breath.

From this moment on, she broke my prejudice against this type of book. It turns out that the people who wrote books on happiness themselves had times when they were helpless and full of sorrow. Only those who have a profound experience of life and feel the insignificance of human beings and the vastness of heaven and earth can help you knock on the door knocker of happiness and reveal the code of happiness.

Why am I so convinced of her?

I think these are her words, the kind of calm words that can make your soul feel magnificent. That kind of simple and sincere prose language tells his unforgettable feelings about life and his unchanging love for life. Even though some words seem to express pessimism, embarrassment and sadness, in people's hearts the words are flashes of wisdom and humanity.

There are many words in the book that can be recalled over and over again. When you read it, you will be enlightened and enlightened.

My favorite sentence at the bottom of the book: Let us always have the courage to be independent. Neither warm nor hot, neither slow nor slow. Pull your memory out of the quagmire of hardship and spread hope into every inch of time. Bi Shumin's "Just the Right Happiness" Remarks 2

Regarding the topic of "happiness", CCTV once conducted a survey on "Are You Happy?" which received widespread attention from society. One migrant worker replied: "I work in other places, don't ask me." But when the reporter asked again "Are you happy?", his answer was "My surname is Zeng." With the increasingly faster pace of work and life, rising prices, difficulty in buying a house, and difficulty in seeing a doctor, people often feel "a lot of pressure" and the feeling of happiness seems to be far away from us. In contrast, British newspapers also asked the society for prizes to answer "Who is the happiest person?" The results showed that the first type of happiest person was the mother who had just bathed her child and held the baby; the second type of happiest person was the patient who was treated. The doctor who sees the patient discharged from the hospital is the patient; the third is the child who builds sand piles on the beach. This example reminds us that as long as we look for it seriously, happiness abounds. It has no unified standard and is not directly proportional to wealth, status, or prestige.

Bi Shumin said that people who find it difficult to feel happy often do so because they have "unreasonable expectations" for things. For example, when you see a nice house, you imagine that you can get married and have children in this house; when you see a luxury sports car, you imagine that you can drive it fast; when you see someone else's wife, you imagine that your future partner will be a king; If you live to be 90 years old, you will aspire to catch up with 100 years old... If you cannot reach it, you will not feel happiness. In fact, the higher the expectations, the better. Expectations also need to be "just right."

We seem to have two selves. We always try to appear better than we actually are. According to worldly standards, there is always more. We always present the unreal self to others, and the real self The self is always hidden and covered. Over time, we will become a divided person, suppressing our emotions and hiding our true thoughts. In fact, this is very tiring. If you feel that you are not perfect enough, you should improve yourself. , instead of perfunctory, covering up and deceiving, don't waste energy trying to make up for an unreal self, save more energy to do more things, and maybe get twice the result with half the effort. and “patience in the face of uncertainty.” We are always worried about some uncertain things, such as house prices getting higher and higher, whether we can afford it, such as more and more work, whether we can complete it by the specified deadline, such as whether the child will be so naughty in the future. Outcome, etc.. We always add some troubles to ourselves involuntarily, why waste energy on some uncertain things, as the author said: "I can't be sure which day I will die, but I can be sure of every day I am alive. I spent the whole day with great interest. I am not sure that my marriage will be happy, but I can be sure of my sincerity and devotion. "Uncertainty is temporary, certainty is long-lasting."

Happiness is mostly simple, it is not vigorous, it is a steady stream. Perceiving happiness requires us to learn slowly. There is a lot of suffering in life, and we always remember the feeling of pain easily. We always say that happiness is hard-won because it seems to come slowly and go quickly. In fact, we don’t know how to perceive and enjoy happiness. Happiness needs to be experienced slowly with a peaceful heart. It is a kind of wealth of the heart, not measured by quantity. It is the feeling of giving, sharing and love. People live in different environments, but good fortune and misfortune depend on each other, and bitterness and joy are mixed. As long as you behave calmly, look down upon gains and losses, actively work hard to explore the beautiful side of life, do not compare, do not worry about yourself, I believe that the feeling of happiness will follow. Review 5 of Bi Shumin's "Just the Right Happiness"

I have always liked Bi Shumin's writing, which is simple yet profound. Perhaps it is her writing style that was created by her experience.

She is also a medical student, similar to us. Rather than reading "Just the Right Happiness", it is better to say that I have feelings after reading Bi Shumin. This book contains many of her works, which are so profound and philosophical. . She likes to discuss such true, good and beautiful topics as happiness, sincerity, kindness and peace, and at the same time she will criticize some false, evil and ugly. I like this kind of writer.

Go back to the happiness mentioned in the book. Happiness is a kind of inner wealth, not measured by the amount of material things. It is the feeling of giving, sharing and love. Just right, it is the crystallization of philosophy and art. It represents open-mindedness and indifference, and is the corridor in front of happiness. Walk gently through it and you can slap the door knocker of happiness.

Happiness used to be a social topic. The great discussion about happiness once caused quite a social sensation. Everyone was busy running around and slowly destroying themselves in order to survive. They had long forgotten the feeling of happiness. "My Surname is Zeng" is not a farce, but a tragedy. In ordinary people's definition, the standard of happiness is often money, house, car, and seat. However, the real happiness that we need deep in our hearts has been forgotten. Our souls are no longer rich, and are even a little depleted, so many people start to drink chicken soup. However, chicken soup for the soul is not nutritious. It will bring you short-term insights. Why is it said to be short-lived? Because in this era of fragmented reading, our brain capacity can no longer leave room for them, and the messy things around us have taken up too much thinking space. Human energy is only 4, which means you can only do up to 4 things at the same time, not 4K, not 4G, not 4M, but 4. It is best for us to do one thing wholeheartedly, so that we will have the best efficiency and Effect.

Since chicken soup can’t save our souls, it’s time to be reminded of happiness. Happiness is quite bad and naughty. It doesn't say hello when it comes, and makes people feel disappointed when it leaves. So we should ------- remind happiness when it comes.

When we have nothing, we can also say, "I am very happy because we have a healthy body." When our bodies are no longer healthy, the bravest people can still say with a smile, "I am happy because we have a healthy heart"; even when our hearts do not exist, the best elements of mankind can say, "I am happy because I have lived." Happiness needs to be understood If you remind me, you will cherish it more.

This is why I want to recommend Bi Shumin’s prose to everyone. Her words make people unconsciously quiet. It is not easy to understand her words. You have to wash away your impetuousness. , think quietly, watch quietly, and then slowly become a quiet person.

Of course, this book also contains discussions about suffering and the meaning of life. The road to life will not be smooth and smooth. Reading a good book is to communicate with wise men and touch the soul. Touching may bring strength, inspiration, good luck, or a touch of warmth to our progress. We will more or less feel that it is difficult to calm down and read in this impetuous external environment. Maybe you can try it. On a quiet weekend, pick up Bi Shumin's "Just the Right Happiness" and gain some insights. Everyone’s thoughts and souls will become less impetuous. Of course, this is my humble opinion. Whether it is really useful requires "clinical observation". Review of Bi Shumin's "Just Right Happiness" Part 6

Reading is an art of self-improvement. "If jade is not polished, it will not become a useful tool, and if a person does not learn, he will not know." Reading is a learning process. A book has a story, a story tells a life, and a life reflects a world. "Read thousands of books and travel thousands of miles" is exactly what is said.

I would like to use "a magic book that directly touches the soul" to summarize my overall feeling about the book "Just the Right Happiness". I also have deep love and admiration for the author of this book, Bi Shumin. Although I have liked some writers, my love for Bi Shumin has become even more intense. She presents such profound issues as exploring life and happiness to readers in delicate and plain language, and infects readers with her feelings of helping the world like spring breeze and rain. Compared with the atmosphere of swiping pen and splashing ink, I prefer this kind of silent softness of moisturizing things and the gentle touch of the soul. Bi Shumin's own working experience in the snowfields of northern Tibet enabled her to experience the greatest suffering that life can give her. At the same time, she was exposed to the vast mountains and vast starry sky, allowing her to feel the insignificance of life. It is this kind of life experience that enables her to see life and happiness so thoroughly. The words flowing from the tip of her pen are like a clear stream slowly flowing into people's hearts. She is worthy of being praised by readers as "the angel in white in the literary world".

After reading her book, I had a lot of thoughts. I think even though we may not experience the fragility and insignificance of life sometimes, we must know how valuable life is and we must cherish life. Happiness in life is something that can be encountered but cannot be sought. The more deliberately we pursue happiness, the more happiness will pass away in our hands like quicksand. In fact, happiness is a state of mind. When you are positive and optimistic, you can feel more happiness. But when you are pessimistic and disappointed, happiness will quietly leave you. So when you are happy, you must cherish it and never add any more desires, otherwise it will be counterproductive. When you feel unhappy, you have to be optimistic, because sometimes something is lost and something is gained. Just the right amount of happiness is the highest state of happiness. The road to life is so long, and happiness needs to be practiced and cherished!

Happiness, these two words evoke countless associations in me. How can happiness be called happiness, and what is happiness? Bi Shumin told us this truth and answered our question. Everyone needs happiness, but it must be just right. We do not lack happiness in our lives. And sometimes happiness is too much.

This book "Just the Right Happiness" is a truth told to us by Bi Shumin. He once said: "Happiness is a kind of inner wealth, not measured by the amount of material things. It is the feeling of giving, sharing and love. Just right, it is the crystallization of philosophy and art. It represents open-mindedness and indifference, It is the corridor in front of the door of happiness. Walking through it gently, you can slap the door knocker of happiness.

"And I think happiness must be just right to be truly happy. It is also written in the book: "The concentration of alcohol cannot be too high. If it exceeds the optimal value, the result will be counterproductive. The same goes for happiness, don't be greedy. ”

The right kind of happiness, as long as you use your heart, can still be seen in ordinary times, just like ordinary things. We speak deeply, and we walk slowly on the long road. Here, Isn’t there already happiness?

We must learn to face ourselves sincerely, otherwise how to accept that happiness?

Someone once asked, how many colors does happiness have? It is said that there are countless kinds. Some people say that there are only seven kinds. But I prefer the former view. Different people do not necessarily think the color of happiness is the same. There are so many people in the world, it is impossible to feel that there are only seven colors of happiness.

Some people simply misunderstood the meaning of the words "just right" and saw a good house by some chance. I imagine that I can get married and have children in this house. When I see a luxury car, I imagine that I can drive a luxury car. When I know that the birthday girl will live to be 90, I swear that I will live to be 100... This is simply unreasonable expectation. , which violates the principle of "just right".

We don't need to have too high goals, we just need to do what we can to achieve it. This is not what we want. Happiness? It just requires us to be moderate.

Happiness, in my eyes, is just living a life that you want but not too much.

Walking through this unusual corridor, you have arrived at the door of happiness. You can slap the door knocker of happiness and get the happiness you dream of.

After reading Bi Shumin's book "The Right Happiness", my view on happiness has changed. I am not as demanding as before.

Happiness must be just right before it can be called happiness. Cherish happiness and don’t let it sneak away from us. Review of "Just the Right Happiness" by Bi Shumin 7

Bi Shumin is the vice chairman of the my country Writers Association and a master's degree from Peking University. China can be imagined.

Her words are fresh and elegant, concise yet charming. They are like daisies swaying in the spring breeze. . Like a budding lotus fairy in the scorching summer heat, the trees are neat and clear, emerging from the mud but not stained, and the ripples are clear but not demonic. Like the autumn wind and red leaves, the cold autumn light of silver candles paints the screen. Fans of fireflies flutter. Like wintersweet in winter, a tree with cold plum blossoms stands beside the creek bridge. The plum blossoms are less white than the snow, but the snow is less fragrant than the plum blossoms.

Her words are like coffee. Taste it slowly, and it will make you intoxicated for a long time. The words she writes are real, but they are intangible and invisible items, but they are priceless. She teaches us how to love and be loved, and how to learn what to do. A person never lies. This is the most ridiculous lie and joke in the world. She tells us a lot. I admire Bi Shumin's writing.

Her writing has the beauty of Ding Limei and the style of Liang Heng. The philosophy is as heroic as that of Xin Qiji, who can only use a soft brush to replace swords and guns, and is as elegant and bold as that of Li Bai, but it also has a unique style. Her words are like sweet-scented osmanthus, petite but fragrant, making it difficult for people to discover. Review of "Just the Right Happiness" by Bi Shumin Chapter 8

I read many books during the summer vacation, among which "The Just Right Happiness" was the one that impressed me the most.

"Just the Right Happiness" is a book in Bi Shumin's anthology: Gentle Happiness series. Most famous books have a brief introduction by the author. When I finished reading, I knew it was a good book.

When I read it for the first time, I was overwhelmed by Bi Shumin’s wisdom. The articles in the book are either explanations, personal experiences, stories, questions and answers, etc. The form tells one philosophy of life one after another, which has benefited me a lot.

If you live in comparison, envy and jealousy every day, your life will be eclipsed. If you embarrass yourself too much, you will suffer. Just do it just right.

The mind is as empty as a grain of literature and ink, and the spirit of poetry and calligraphy is in the belly. I like this book very much and have set a second goal for myself: "Saving the Breasts" by Bi Shumin. I hope that I will grow up and become more and more calm. Be a woman with a light fragrance.