I entered into a useless marriage with Ma Baonan, and my family threatened me with divorce. Can I still save it?

This is irreversible. Divorce is your only option. Today, I moved out with my children and officially filed for divorce from my husband. The reason is simple, he is a typical mama's boy, a giant baby who never grows up. Whether financially or mentally, he is still dependent on his parents. Even regarding the divorce, he asked me to talk to his parents and ask them if they agreed. He also said that as long as his parents agreed, he had no objection.

If we get divorced, he will definitely have to find another person, and the expenses will naturally depend on two old people. Just like our bride price, wedding house, and car back then, when we had a baby, the money to raise the baby was all paid by his parents. He relies on his parents for everything. I don’t know when he will be able to be independent and support the family like a man. Instead of being like a moth, always parasitic under the protection of his parents.

One day I told him that his mother was very nice and gave me a thousand yuan for my birthday. He knew that he had to be even with me. He said that it was her mother's money, because he was the one who told his mother that it was my birthday, so I had this thousand yuan, and I wanted to give him half of it. At that time, I thought he was quite ridiculous, so I gave him five hundred without thinking too much. Later, I told it as a joke to my best friend, who said that your boyfriend is unreliable and acts like a child. You will have to endure it in the future.

Looking back and thinking about it, this girl is really a child who has not grown up. It hasn't changed since then. He has to share part of the money his parents gave me to raise my children. This man is really hopeless. After getting married, I discovered that he had so many problems, the most important of which was that he was not independent. As a person in his thirties, he only knows how to play, often playing games all night long. He doesn't care much about the children. If something happens, you have to instruct him to do it. He never knows how to take the initiative to take care of the children, and he thinks I don't care about him. From him, I completely understood the terms playboy and mama's boy. He has no sense of responsibility, no sense of responsibility, and relies on his parents for everything.