Why is it abnormal for a 30-year-old girl not to get married?

At present, 30-year-old girls in society are not married, which does not prove that this is their own problem, nor is it a question of conditions, but whether they need the other half at the right time. But in rural areas, it is not normal to feel unmarried at the age of 30.

In my opinion, how old you get married, what does it matter to others? Why can you tell me what to do and talk behind my back? Usually, neighbors, relatives and friends will look at this matter with a "joking" attitude. "Whose daughter is 30 years old and not married. There are so few girls now, and all the ugly ones are needed. Is there anything wrong with her? " Or "the daughter of a certain family is not married at the age of 30. She is ugly and demanding. Otherwise, how could she not get married? " Or someone with a better relationship will just say, "Neil, it's 30 this year. It is difficult for a woman to get married after 30, so don't be picky. Get married quickly ... "

Especially in rural areas, 30-year-old girls are still single and will be pointed at and gossiped. Because there are few such elderly women in rural areas. They usually get married around the age of 20, and they got married and had children as early as 16/7. Everyone is like this. If a woman around 30 is still single and wandering in the countryside, she will be called physically ill or mentally ill by others.

A girlfriend has been complaining about all kinds of marriage-promoting blind dates when she comes home for the New Year, and now she is afraid of getting married. My parents nag every day that women's choices are narrow once they are over 30. Don't always pick this and that, find a similar one and get married. However, marriage should be based on feelings. A marriage without feelings is like a loose sand, which is easily blown away by the wind. It's not that I'm not in a hurry and don't want to find someone to marry, but that marriage is a lifelong thing and can't be too casual. Marriage is a life-long event, so we must make appropriate choices. When fate comes, we should be brave in grasping it, and when it is too late, we should be brave in pursuing it. Age is not the most important factor in determining marriage, but it also has some influence, especially on women. If you enter the ranks of older women, it will have more or less adverse effects on the next generation. Therefore, if you meet a heart-warming marriage partner, the best choice is to consider holding hands.

It's normal to be single at 30. If you haven't met it, don't be too anxious and wronged yourself. I think it's better to get married short. Where there are people, there is gossip, and where there are people, there is gossip. Some people just like to meddle, while others just like to worry. Make your own decisions. Don't care what other people think. It's not you. Others are nothing to you. It's nothing at all. Happiness is the most important thing. Don't live in other people's opinions. You can be responsible for yourself, others can't. Remember that your life is more important than anything else, and everything else should be sidelined.