When you are looked down upon by others and feel helpless, please remember four sentences.

Text | Ling Xiaomai

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The taste of life is always sour, sweet, bitter, spicy and salty; the colors of life include red, orange, yellow, green, blue, blue and purple. Nothing in the world is smooth sailing, only strong and unfailing faith. The road to success must be forged by oneself. Wherever your heart is, the road will be there. At the end of the road, there is still a road, as long as you are willing to walk.

In our lives, everyone will have an extremely difficult time. When encountering ups and downs, we may have been pessimistic or complained. But these are not the best ways to solve the problem. Didn't someone say: Difficulties are like springs, they become stronger when you are weak. When facing setbacks in life, as long as you insist on going through all the difficulties, you will be rewarded with bright futures.

Director Ang Lee said: "As long as you survive the pain points and lows, new things will find you." Every difficulty and setback actually lurks new opportunities. The biggest enemy in life is not others, but yourself. Only when you defeat yourself can you be invincible and invincible.

It is instinct to be afraid of failure in life, and it is the ability to face it bravely. There are no obstacles in life, only people who cannot get out of them. When you fall into a trough, keep these words in mind, and you will have a different ending.

"No one is good for a thousand days, and a flower never blooms for a hundred days." The path of life is like this. Gains and losses are unpredictable. Our footprints in this life have ups and downs, and twists and turns. Everyone will go through a trough period, feeling hesitant, unhappy, sad, depressed and at a loss. When encountering difficulties and setbacks, you will always complain. No matter how much you complain, it will not help.

When you hit a trough in life and feel helpless, don’t give up on yourself, be unable to recover, and don’t be cynical. Know that you still have the chance to start all over again. What you have to do is to start reflecting and start over.

Although hard work may not necessarily yield results, if you don’t work hard, you will definitely gain nothing. This world will not let down every effort and persistence. Time will not slow down everyone who is persistent and brave! No one's luck comes out of thin air. Only if you work hard enough will you be lucky enough.

Time is too expensive and cannot be wasted. Once you miss the age of hard work, it will be too late to regret. At the age of struggle, wasting time will only lead to a lifetime of regrets. There are no obstacles that cannot be overcome, only people who cannot figure it out. When you fall into a trough, if you waste time on meaningless things every day, the short-term happiness will be replaced by painful fatigue and running for the rest of your life.

There are always some unsatisfactory things in life, the key is to endure them. To endure is not to live a life of resignation; to endure is not to compromise with fate. Boiling is the accumulation of energy; boiling is the sublimation of life. People are forced out because their potential is unlimited.

When you are looked down upon by others and feel helpless, you can cry and hate, but you can’t help but be strong, because there is a large group of people behind you, waiting to see your jokes. What you have to do is to brave the wind and rain, live a hard-working and progressive life, and don't live in the shadow of the past.

Happy days are always bitter first and then sweet. Without bitterness, there is no sweetness; without tasting bitterness, there is no way to understand the taste of sweetness. Life is not easy, do it and cherish it. If you want to taste the sweetness in life, you must first go through the bitterness.

When you fall into a low point in life, instead of blaming others and only adding to your troubles, you should make the best of the situation, adapt to the environment, and use your strength and wisdom to explore opportunities from the existing conditions. Therefore, don't give up easily, otherwise you will feel sorry for yourself and avoid difficulties, which will only make them more and more difficult. In short, when you are looked down upon by others and feel helpless, please keep these four sentences in mind and everything will slowly get better.

Author: Ling Xiaomai, a woman who longs to write a wandering life in the world of words, uses the most tender brushwork to accompany you to live your life into poetry.