Under what circumstances will a woman have sex with her ex-boyfriend?

In the world of love, there are many stories about reunion with ex-wives. Can't they really forget it? Or is there another "grievance" To this end, I specially interviewed three women, and their voices may contain the answers you want!

The annoying ex-reunion inevitably leads to sex.

Interviewee: Egret is frost

"I met my ex at the wedding and almost fell into his trap"

I didn't expect that I could meet my ex at every wedding. What's embarrassing is that a bunch of people insisted on bringing us together.

My predecessor and I were classmates in high school. He was my first love. We had a crush on each other in high school and didn't get together until after the college entrance examination. Then I started a long-distance relationship, because the universities are not together, and basically it takes one or two months to meet. In this way, I also feel good to be with him, but he cheated on me without telling me. He still has another object at school, which he has been keeping from me.

Later, I found out, and I asked him to choose. He said which girl he would choose, because long-distance love was too hard. Because he is so love rat, I completely cut off contact with him and don't even go to the annual class reunion for fear of meeting him.

This is my classmate's wedding. We had a good time before, so I promised to attend her wedding. But I didn't expect that many classmates came to the scene, even he came.

he's not quite the same as before. He seems to have matured a lot. He didn't see me at first, and I pretended not to see him, and I didn't want to sit at the same table with him. But unfortunately, a classmate called my name and asked me to sit next to her, and my predecessor happened to be sitting at that table.

He obviously heard my name and saw me. We looked at each other, so I had to smile awkwardly. He was very generous and asked me to sit next to him. Of course I don't want to sit far away from him.

he stared at me all the way down, which made me particularly uncomfortable. The key is that my classmates always talk about us, saying that we are both single now and we can consider getting together again. He changed seats with the classmates next to him and sat next to me.

After all these years, seeing him again still finds this love rat a bit annoying. We chatted one build what did not build. Basically, he talked more. When the bride and groom walked onto the stage, he whispered in my ear, "If you wear a wedding dress, it will look good. I really want to see it."

in this sentence, my heart skipped a beat. I have to admit, although he is scum, I am still caught by him. I didn't say anything. After the wedding, he said, can you invite me to dinner? I said yes by some strange coincidence.

when I was eating with him, I was thinking, in fact, during the years I was with him, I didn't know him at all, and sometimes the real distance was estranged. Although I secretly expect something to happen to us, my reason tells me that this love rat in front of me is not worth worrying about.

what I didn't expect was that he told me that he couldn't let me go for so many years, and he had already broken up with that girl, hoping that we could start over. I said impossible, I can't plant it in the hands of one person for the second time. He said he was not the same as before, and he had changed.

To be honest, I'm still a little shaken, but I told myself that I can't believe what love rat said! After dinner, he sent me back and asked me if I wanted to see a movie. At that time, it was already ten o'clock in the evening, and it was early in the morning to see a movie again. If you think about it, you will know what the next routine is.

I felt a little sick for a moment. I refused him and insisted on going back alone, so he didn't say anything. Later, I learned that he was not single at that time, but had a girlfriend, and he was also in a different place.

Interviewee: Tian Tianlan

"Suddenly I really want to forget you, as if I have never met you"

I was born in the 198s, and I broke up with my ex for 13 years. He was my first love. We were high school alumni, but we didn't know each other in high school. It was only when I went to college in other places that we started talking.

In fact, there were two reunions after breaking up. One was a gathering of many people in 211, and they got together in a hurry without even chatting. In these 13 years, there was almost no contact, no matter any kind of contact. Let's talk about the second reunion carefully. At the end of July this year, there was a reason for this reunion. He helped me find old tea oil and brought it to me. He said that he had not seen it for too many years, so he could meet if he could without affecting his family. I said I'll think about it and give you an answer tomorrow. Perhaps I also had expectations in my heart, and I also felt that it was better for people to help you find things in person, which led to the second reunion.

Actually, I am a little nervous when I meet you, because everyone is worried about the reasons for breaking up in those years, so meeting and talking is also the reason for breaking up in those years. In his mind, he always thought that I looked down on the breakup letter he wrote before he went to college, and I always thought that it was because I didn't have sex with him that he gave me the cold shoulder and didn't take the initiative to break up.

after a detailed chat, what I said was indifference: I didn't contact by phone for several days, I didn't meet for many days, and I didn't spend the first Tanabata together. He said that I felt cold because he was very busy during that time, and he was a neurotic person who didn't think so much, thinking that he would come to me when he was busy. However, at that time, the love of the classmates around me was always together every day. Plus, I didn't understand it for the first time, and my personality was relatively introverted. It was inevitable to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, so I sent a short message saying that I broke up, and then I wrote a breakup letter. Later, I asked him why he didn't come to me and gave up. He said that I thought you might look down on me and feel inferior. In fact, now that I think about it, if he wrote that letter, I might not have saved it.

in this way, in 13 years, he got married and had children, a son and a daughter, and I have been married for many years but haven't had children yet. He said that he later fell in love with his wife because he was busy with work and met her for a long time. This sentence touched me very much. I couldn't sleep that night when I came back from meeting, thinking that I might have really given up easily. When we met that day, he said that he still had the letter of breaking up that year, and the contents of the letter were also remembered. Even he would remember many details of falling in love that I had forgotten, including that my circle of friends was set to be visible for three days, and I forgot some things when I sent them. He still remembers. Hearing this, my heart touched quite a lot. Seriously, no regrets are fake, after all, I liked it at that time.

when we met, when we were leaving, he gave me a hug, which was very emotional. He had an impulse to cry. After that, he went home separately. Later, he called each other for a few days, mainly to talk about things in those years. He said that he had been with you too little in those years, so calling now would make up for the shortcomings in those years. He was very concerned that I hadn't had children after many years of marriage, and said that without that letter, you might be the mother of my child. My heart was a little confused in those days. I didn't know what he thought. Later, I invited me to dinner again. I didn't dare to go. I always felt that going was the default of some kind of relationship. In that case, I might be afraid that I couldn't hold it, and morality eventually prevailed over emotion.

originally, I thought that if I could, I would get in touch with being a friend. Now I think about it, it's not right. How can I be a friend if I really love breaking up?

It's been almost a month since we started talking. It seems that we haven't talked much since then, but I still think of him occasionally. I'm not upset, but I'm very emotional. I was young and frivolous in those days, but now I wish everyone well!

Interviewee: Xiaoye Shadow

A 26-year-old female nail shop owner

"It was my fault to leave when he was down and out"

We have been together for four years, and I still remember that at the farewell dinner after graduation from college, he held a microphone and shouted at me: Sakura, I love you! The whole class couldn't help but boo and pushed me to him.

At that time, he was a famous rich second generation in our class. His father was in the building materials business, and his family background was solid. In our city, he had a villa, two houses and three luxury cars. It can be said that his fortune is equal to that of most students in our class. So, at that time, in our school, there were a lot of girls pursuing him, but he just had a good impression on me.

if I remember correctly, he has been chasing me since his freshman semester. During the period, he bought me several Hermes, and he always tried his best to surprise me no matter the big or small festivals. Therefore, my roommate always said that if I can marry him in my life, I must have been blessed enough in my last life.

I really don't care about his money, but his sincerity to me. Although I always emphasize to others that I am not greedy for money, not many people are willing to believe it. Especially when his father took responsibility for an accident at a construction site, which caused his business to plummet, it seemed that everyone was waiting to see my joke.

at first, I didn't want to break up because of his poor family, but later he was depressed and moody in adversity, which made me want to break up with him.

At that time, many of his friends were afraid that he would borrow money, just like avoiding the plague, and those hotel managers and luxury cabinet sisters who had kissed his ass were no longer as hospitable as before. It can be said that this turning point in treatment made him distrust everyone around him, and of course, those people included me.

He always satirizes me as a vain woman because I bought a bag and a pair of shoes, and I have to rely on these imaginary things to keep up with the joneses. Moreover, whenever I attend a party with a slightly better economic condition, he will scold me as a woman in easy virtue and say that I go to the party just to seduce the rich.

I feel wronged. If I were a snob, I should have said goodbye on the day when his father's business was in trouble! But he didn't understand, and insisted that I was a woman who worshipped money.

So, on the one hand, our feelings are exhausted in repeated quarrels, on the other hand, I can't break up with him in the most critical time. Because, if I break up with him now, it will prove that I made a gesture to attract him to pursue me for his money.

therefore, I am neither a penny nor a penny.

I feel so embarrassed about my love. I don't understand how that sincere relationship was inexplicably priced. I know that as long as I break up now, many people will call me a fickle woman. After all, he spent a lot of money on me.

But feelings can't be measured by money. What's more, from beginning to end, I didn't fall in love with him because he was rich. If time could be reversed, I wouldn't fall in love with him even if I killed him.

But feelings are still emotional after all. When I fell in love with him, I felt that I had made the right choice. However, when I didn't love him, no matter how much I said, others always felt that everything was wrong.