My girlfriend quit smoking and drinking and she scolded me for not being like a man.

I have been having trouble sleeping and eating these past few days, and the thought of breaking up has been circulating in my mind, but when I think of the happy times I once had and how she gave me her first time, I can’t help myself. Say goodbye.

Linwei and I were once a pair of sweet lovers. We met on a trip a year ago. To be specific, that was our first meeting. We had had some "confrontations" before that. We often visit the same forum. Because of a point in a post, Linwei and I have had several "tongues" with each other. We were both deeply impressed by each other. It can be regarded as "no acquaintance without fighting", but we have never met in real life. noodle.

Linwei and I both signed up for the trip organized by the forum. I was looking forward to it and wanted to see what this sharp-tongued girl looked like. On the day of departure, I finally saw her. She was not beautiful, but she was pleasing to the eye and had a cheerful personality. There were more than a dozen people traveling together, and she was the most active. She told jokes and stories, and she always seemed to have a way of making everyone laugh. Every time her eyes or conversation turn to me, my heart beats half a beat faster.

Over the past few days, our relationship has improved by leaps and bounds. We swam all the way to Phoenix and had free time on the last day. I asked her to go for a walk in the evening. In the quiet night, on the jumping rocks of Tuojiang River, amidst the sound of gurgling water, she leaned on my arms, everything seemed like a dream...

We fell in love, like most couples, Our dates also included shopping, eating, and watching movies, and I paid the bill every time. I have never been stingy in spending money on the woman I love, and I have spent it willingly. Seeing her happy smile makes me sincerely happy.

However, as time went by, this kind of life gradually made me unable to do what I wanted. Linwei spends money lavishly. When I went on a date with her, she wouldn't go into a high-end hotel. Buying a pair of shoes would cost five to six hundred yuan, and a set of clothes would cost nearly a thousand yuan. I still have a lot of expenses every month. As a result, not only can I not save any money, Sometimes support from parents is also needed. During that time, I became a "money earner" and I had very little savings left after working for two years.

When I fell in love with Linwei, I was rushing to get married. I was considering buying a house and our future. After being extremely entangled, I mentioned the money issue to her for the first time in a discussion tone. I said to her: "Should we save some money?" What made me happy was that Linwei agreed wholeheartedly. She said that she was not that kind of materialistic girl. No matter whether I had money or not, she liked me as a person.

In the days that followed, Linwei did restrain herself, but the cost was still not small, and it was definitely not something that a poor boy like me could afford. As a last resort, I discussed spending money and saving money with her several times. Gradually, there was a conflict between us. I thought she spent money too lavishly, and she felt that I took money too seriously. Although we have different opinions and money is getting tighter, I still try my best to meet her demands because I love her, but I am becoming more and more afraid of our future.

Just some time ago, the savings in my bankbook finally returned to zero. After much thought, I decided to have another good talk with Linwei. On the phone, I once again brought up the topic of "money", hoping that she could completely correct herself and live within her means and live within her means. After all, we are just ordinary workers. If she doesn't change, I really have no ability to talk to her. Keep going. And she also said to me coldly for the first time: "In that case, let's see each other less often in the future." The two parted on bad terms. A woman's private conversation (//sifanghua)

In the next few days, we really didn't see each other again. We only talked on the phone occasionally, and her tone on the phone was very cold. I thought we were over, but who knew that a week later Linwei took the initiative to come to the work to find me.

We went to have dinner in the evening, and she chose a Korean restaurant. To be honest, I only had more than 300 yuan left on me at that time, and there was still more than half a month until my salary was due, and I didn’t want to ask my parents for money again. At the dinner table, I shamelessly discussed with Linwei whether we could make AA.

Her answer made me feel very sad. She said that she had never seen a boyfriend like me before and said that I was not like a man. For her, I didn’t buy a single piece of clothing all summer. I quit smoking and drinking because of money. I paid so much but got such a sentence, which made me angry and aggrieved. After paying the bill, I said, "Let's break up." After saying this, I left.