Don't let children make friends with these people.

Don't let children make friends with these people.

Don't let children make friends with such people. Making friends with children has always been a concern of parents. Bad friends will bring many negative effects to children's growth. Learn well in three years, but learn poorly in three days, which requires special attention. Let's take a look at not letting children make friends with these people.

Don't let children make friends with these people. 1 A person needs many friends in his life. Some friends are suitable for deep friendship, some friends are just casual acquaintances, and some friends are not worth making. I believe many parents will have a deep understanding.

Indeed, a very good and firm friend can help you out in a crisis, and a very bad and scheming friend may also make some small moves to push you when he is down and out.

But in this world, there are thousands of people in Qian Qian. In order to prevent children from making careless friends or bad friends, parents should help their children polish their eyes: if you meet the following six kinds of people, don't make friends with them because they are not worth it!

1, self-righteous person

You help me, you are not busy anyway; The game machine you lent me last time ... Oh, I broke it. Anyway, you are so rich, buy another one ~

This kind of person is self-centered, feels superior, and others have to let him do everything. He takes it for granted that you are good to him. This kind of person does not have a grateful heart and does not understand human relations. If you are kind to him, he will feel at ease, but you can't expect him to respond to you. Thank you.

We have three methods for such people:

The first one is to return his own way. He likes to show off some things and do very detailed research. Then in public conversation, lead him in, and then hit him with what you prepared in one breath, telling him to bring less fur out in an ostentatious manner next time. In the future, you can regard it as a defeated soldier and let him never turn over.

Second, the sword goes sideways. As long as you slap him with a book, his physics cow will make him calculate how much force he has suffered while slapping. The English cow asked him to say in English, "I beat you worse than a dog." So ... If he is a China cow, let him write an article about his feelings after being beaten.

Third, isolation. When he pushed, everyone ignored him. "You NB yourself NB, everyone knows, let's study it." Man is a gregarious animal. If he does this, he will be isolated.

Stay away from such people early, or you will turn your child into a cold-blooded person sooner or later.

2. People who are duplicitous.

There is a kind of person who likes to tell people what to do and is dissatisfied with all kinds of things. He can't wait for you to wear shoes every day, but once you give him some small favors, he will start to change his attitude towards you and be good to you.

Such people have no principles of their own. It is very likely that others will give him some petty profits, and he will choose to betray his friends and family. Be nice to her. If you are not careful, she will stab you in the back.

Most people who are easy to be bought are short-sighted, only paying attention to some short-term interests and not considering long-term problems. A villain's face will only make people feel sick.

3. People who don't talk about credibility

When you get up in the morning full of expectation, arrive at the appointed place, wait left and right, and no one is there. At the end of the day, a friend only says "I'm sorry, I have something to do", which will only greatly reduce the child's mood.

If your friends always send out invitations, but there is no special reason to break them from time to time, please don't wronged yourself. This kind of person doesn't deserve your kindness to him at all.

Stay away from friends who don't keep their promises in trivial matters, or they will tell your children lies sooner or later.

4. People who make much ado about nothing

Much ado about nothing, out of nothing. This kind of person likes to spread rumors everywhere, sow discord, and will talk to you when he is in a good mood. If something goes wrong, just shake out a few embarrassing things and embellish them, which will lead to a very bad direction.

These people are usually heartless, and it doesn't matter if they make rumors in front of anyone, because they just say it casually and don't care about the feelings of the listeners.

You must remember that the other side of much ado about nothing is meanness, selfishness and doing whatever you want. These things are engraved in your bones and dripping in your blood. If there are such people around your child, try to avoid them. I believe not many people want to be with them.

As the saying goes:

Walk behind the villain, but walk in front of the gentleman. This shows that the villain sometimes needs to hide and not take the initiative to provoke him. He can't stand it if he always makes trouble. Look for opportunities to fight back strongly. If he is not angry, let him know that the weak are not always bullied and afraid to fight back.

5. People full of negative energy

Such people are often trapped in their own emotions. Usually, he doesn't care about your kindness to her or can't see your kindness to her, but just asks you for it.

There are many such people around us. Some parents with dark clouds overhead are particularly easy to accuse them of suppressing their children and shirking their responsibilities. They just don't want to admit that their mediocrity leads to their children's mediocrity.

"Mom, I think I like painting very much. I am very interested in painting. I want to learn painting and want to be a fashion designer when I grow up. " Mom said, "What kind of fashion designer do you want to be? Can you learn? You are too stupid to learn well. You should study with peace of mind. Getting into a good university is a serious matter. "

Children hear similar words every day. People full of negative energy are usually sentimental and complain repeatedly. Chatting with others is complaining, and there is no sunny and positive topic.

6. A mercenary person

There is a kind of person who pretends to be a "grandson" as soon as he asks you for help when he has something or trouble. He talks to you in a particularly good tone, as if you are very close and talk about everything, but in fact, it is only to get benefits related to yourself from you.

When he achieves his goal, he will continue to ignore you, no matter who you are. You asked to see him. At that time, he acted like a businessman, as if you were a stranger he had never known. Stay away from friends who are full of money and honor, or you will turn your children into annoying snobs sooner or later.

So, please remember that making friends must keep your children away from these six kinds of people, or you will destroy your children sooner or later! Three years of good study, three days of poor study. Don't let these six kinds of people ruin a child's life!

Don't let children make friends with these people.

In recent years, incidents in school bullying have occurred frequently, with extremely bad nature. Most of these abusers are bullies who are afraid of hard work. If they are weak, they will make a determined effort, and if they are strong, they will converge!

Everyone knows the comedian Yun-peng Yue. He worked as a waiter for a while before the fire broke out. When checking out, the customer scolded him: "unscrupulous merchants, try to make money ..." This abuse lasted for nearly three hours until the manager came forward.

Later, in a program interview, Xiaoping Cray choked up when he talked about this passage several times: "I have been to the Spring Festival Evening, and I still hate him, especially him!" Yes, some shadows are a child's life. The fear and helplessness of those victims of school violence at that time can hardly be erased in the days to come.

Therefore, don't let children deal with such bullies, which will only make him farther and farther away from kindness!

2. Liar

Every new semester, there will be several transfer students in the class. They are new here, don't know anyone, and are very lonely.

But there will always be one or two students in the class who bully the freshmen and make them sweep the floor and clean the blackboard without telling them where the toilet is. This group of people even got together to discuss how to play tricks on the new student and give him some "color" to see. Once the freshmen are familiar with the environment, or know not to bully him, this group of people will befriend him again, from bullying to flattery.

Parents must remind their children not to join them. No matter who it is, it is impossible to always grow up in a familiar environment. They always want to go to the city to study alone and go abroad to apply for a job. "Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you." If you don't want to be bullied in the future, don't bully others now.

3. Bullies against the poor

People are poor, like local ants. Everyone looks down on you and will step on you if you are in a bad mood.

Spinach teacher remembers Mo Yan standing on the Nobel podium, recalling that when he was a child, because his family was poor, he followed his mother to pick up the ears of wheat and was beaten by the wheat keeper. The world has never been gentle with the poor, regardless of class, age or personal relationship.

Some "bullies" in school will bully children who wear ordinary clothes and have little pocket money. They think humiliating them will make them look powerful. As we all know, everyone who bullies the poor has a sinister, contemptuous and flattering face. Correspondingly, they will bow to some "rich second generation".

I don't know when the friendship between gentlemen turned into a joke. I don't want my children to be poor and love wealth, and I don't want them to lose the most basic morality of being a man because of money. Tell your child that if you have such a person around you, you must stay away from him as soon as possible!

Step 4 cheat people

The highest education is keeping promises.

Sometimes friends will inevitably have some bad feelings to talk to your children. I'd rather he made a hole in the tree and never passed it on after listening to it. Others are willing to tell you because they believe you, but some people regard their friends' secrets as gossip and tell them to others. This kind of cheating person is the most hateful.

A few days ago, Xiao Chen told me that his friend asked him to go fishing, so I sent him to the date early, worried about his safety, and I watched, but an hour later, the child called and said that it was too hot to come! I could see the loss of Xiaoju, so I fished with him for a while and then went home.

When I got home, I told Xiao Chen not to associate with friends any more, because I didn't want him to become a person who only talks nonsense in the future.

The weaker people are, the more cruel the world is. These four kinds of people, don't tell me what to understand, forgive, forgive or not, that's God's business. What we need to tell our children is not only not to be with them, but also to stay away from them!