How to reply to the rejection of asking girls out to play? What if she doesn't come out?

When a boy sends an invitation to a girl he likes, he is actually afraid of being rejected. If the girl replies and doesn't want to come out, what words should the boy use to resolve the embarrassment at this time?

How to reply to the rejection of asking a girl out?

First, I understand and agree with what girls say.

No matter what the reason why a girl refuses an invitation is, it actually shows that you are not the most important in the eyes of girls, and your attraction to girls has not reached the level of letting the other party agree to your invitation.

At this time, forced invitation is not enough. You can try to show your understanding and recognition of girls, deepen your attraction, and try to leave a good impression on girls, such as:

W: Sorry, I may have to work overtime this weekend, so I can't go out with you.

M: The company is busy at the end of the year. Is it hard?

Woman: Oh, that's all right. I'm a little tired.

Your boss is really inconsiderate. Don't be too tired.

In fact, no matter what the reason why a girl refuses you, replying to a girl in this comforting way, instead of actively asking her reasons, will show your respect for her, which will make you easier to get along with and help you get closer to her.

Second, reply to girls in a humorous way to ease the embarrassment

It is embarrassing for girls to disagree with your invitation, so replying to girls in a humorous way can not only resolve the embarrassment, but also change the subject, such as:

W: I don't think we know each other very well. Let's forget about meeting.

M: You are right, too. If we meet, I may be too nervous to speak. I thought I was dumb if I didn't know.

Woman: Haha

It's embarrassing to ask a girl who was rejected. In fact, it's embarrassing to say anything. You might as well reply to girls in a self-deprecating way to reduce the sense of demand for girls, so as to change the subject and resolve the embarrassing situation.

Third, she throws the question to the girls.

You know, girls are more reserved. She will think that agreeing to your invitation so soon will make her look too eager to pursue and insecure for girls. So don't take the initiative to invite girls, which will only deepen girls' concerns. The correct way is to throw the invitation question to the girl and let her make a choice, such as:

W: I have something to do tomorrow, so I may not be able to go out with you. Let's come out together next time.

M: OK, I see.

Woman: Yes.

Man: By the way, there is a very good movie coming out recently, just next week. Let's go and see it together. You won't refuse me again, will you?

W: Well, whatever you say.

In this way, you must pay attention to the attitude of girls towards you, especially when inviting girls for the second time. If the girl is nice to you and agrees to the invitation, she can prepare for the next date. But if girls are impatient or perfunctory, don't invite girls again in a short time. You can get closer to girls first.

Ask girls out to play. What if she doesn't come out?

1, to establish a sense of security and comfort.

The early sense of security and comfort should be established through social software or telephone. Many girls think a lot when they meet strangers for the first time. She will worry about all kinds of accidents when dating you: will she meet bad people and be robbed of money and sex? Will there be all kinds of accidents ... this is also the reason why most girls bring girlfriends. If it is difficult to ask a girl out, most of the reasons are insecurity.

Step 2 invite in advance

Girls should be prepared before dating, such as choosing clothes and making up. Especially girls with high scores pay great attention to dressing up. Your sister won't allow you to come out if you don't give her enough time to prepare.

Therefore, you must inform your sister in advance. For small parties, you should inform your sister 1-2 days in advance, such as asking her out for supper and watching movies. For large parties, you should inform your sister one week in advance, such as birthday parties and large dances. If you ask your sister out directly, most of them won't come out.

Step 3 Seize the invitation opportunity

After the chat, the girl will give you IOI (Interest Index), and then you can send an invitation. When your sister tells you "What are you doing", "How boring" and "I'm lonely", you can send an invitation in time. These words have strongly implied "come and ask me out".

What should I pay attention to when asking a girl out?

First, you should send an invitation signal. If you have a good chat, she is very interested in your topic and has been typing and interacting. At this time, you can send a signal, "It's interesting to chat with you. I'm free tonight, so I'll buy you a cup of coffee" and so on. The appointment success rate is very high.

The second is to pay attention to asking her out in advance. Don't expect to ask out on the same day. The average girl sometimes really doesn't have time, so it's easy to refuse you. You should give her a preparation time in advance, so there is also a psychological adaptation process.

How to ask girls out to play is not easy to be rejected.

First, psychological construction before dating a girl is very important.

Many boys have no courage at all, but they dare not invite girls one-on-one. Actually, it's not difficult at all. Get up the courage to ask them out, even if they are rejected, that's all. Ha, be patient when chasing girls. Generally speaking, they are not as active as boys. Don't give up immediately for fear of rejection. Even if the other person will reject you, it doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't like you. Sometimes I refuse you because I'm afraid you're a bad person or I don't know you. We know that the society is really chaotic now. Every day, the news pages are full of dating rape, getting drunk in pubs and picking up bodies, and so on. Therefore, it is normal for girls to have protective covers from the beginning.

Second, analyze the emotional level of the two girls before meeting.

Before you plan a date, you should analyze the other person's feelings and attitudes towards you, and you must build trust and know each other to have a higher success rate. In addition, whether the communication with each other before the date is good or not is also related to the success or failure of the date. If we communicate happily with each other, it is easy to ask out naturally. If the communication is intermittent, she won't want to come out with you.

Third, get to know each other's basic information before asking girls out.

Before dating, you should have a certain understanding of each other's life, work, work and rest, personal preferences and so on, so as not to run into a wall. So you have to have a basic interaction with this girl patiently, talk about what she wants to talk about, talk for a few times, and the atmosphere will be right, and then invite her by the way. Find out where she likes to go first, and then you can ask her out for a light meal, or it's not bad to participate in such activities in crowded places. Don't be afraid of bad reasons for inviting. How do you know if you don't ask? Maybe the other person has a crush on you. Take the courage of a boy and ask him out boldly.

Fourth, you need to prepare sufficient reasons before asking a girl out.

The reason for asking a girl out should be sufficient and justified, so that it is not easy to be rejected. To make girls feel that it will be a happy and beautiful date, I need a mature, excellent, generous and considerate man, not a little boy who will only keep asking me to accept him.

5. Practice the dialogue in advance before asking the girl out.

Chatting is a necessary skill to pick up girls. Please refer to my article "Picking up Girls Skills-Chatting", topics and taboos of dating chat, and some precautions Part3 and Part4. For boys who are not good at chatting, please draw up a draft first, which roughly explains what to say first, how to make an appointment, what to do if the other party agrees to go on, and what to do if the other party refuses when inviting by phone, online or face to face. The more prepared you are, the less nervous you are, and the more clearly you can express yourself. Of course, you can ask a friend to practice what you have prepared first (provide a hint: if you are nervous on the phone, eat gum and relax yourself, it will be easy to succeed).

Six, about girls should pay attention to speaking skills.

Unless you are already familiar with this girl, can you just say "I want to invite you to the movies" at the first sentence? In this vernacular, people often say, "Why did you invite me to the movies?" Many boys are defeated here, completely panicked and don't know how to answer. Therefore, the best way is to gossip and wait until the right starting point to send an invitation, but don't forget the topic of the invitation when you are too happy.