My predecessor became a joke.

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Some parting photos of contemporary people are really ugly.

I have a good friend who just broke up with her ex, and it's already very sad. As a result, I learned from my friends that her predecessor slandered her everywhere, made her useless and even made her private affairs public.

The girl is so wronged. When she was together, her ex was not nice to her at all. She never cares about her feelings. Drunk and even punched and kicked her. If you lose the game, scold her and order her like a nanny every day.

My good friend really can't stand breaking up on his own initiative. As a result, after breaking up, my predecessor told others everywhere that the girl was having an affair with another man and dumped him, saying that she usually spends a lot of money, saying that she is vain, thinking that he was poor before breaking up, and even saying that her private life was disorderly.

To tell you the truth, I am very angry.

My friend is from the media. Before meeting her predecessor, she had a good life and could afford a big-name red envelope herself. And her predecessor is in a difficult period of starting a business. Girls feel that they should not be pressured at this time, so they buy less red envelopes and seldom go out to eat. She can cook at home by herself. I haven't seen her carry a new book bag for more than three months. As a result, after breaking up, a good girl was vilified by him.

Just because my friend was so kind, tolerant and excellent to him, he regretted that such a good girl left him voluntarily. If peace is not achieved, he wants to destroy her, slander her everywhere and ruin her reputation. He thinks it will hurt the girl, but everyone who knows the girl knows what kind of person she is, and those who judge the girl only by hearsay don't need to make friends.

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Just a few days ago, I was playing outside and got a call from my ex who had been apart for a long time in the middle of the night. As soon as the phone was connected, he began to scold me. I was amused for no reason. He was angry and said a lot of disgusting things. Finally, he said, "Have you slept with many people?"

The mood at that moment is probably that I have a saying that my mother must sell the batch. I immediately hung up on him, and it was dark.

My ex called me the night before she broke up with me, begging me in tears not to leave, demanding to get back together, saying that I would die without her, and the next day she sent a circle of friends saying that she wanted to have an affair with other girls. Then why aren't you dead, big brother?

There is nothing else to say, except that being with such a person is a stain on life. I don't want to say whether he was kind to me when he was with me. I just want to say that people who slander their predecessors after breaking up are really scum. Such a person is not worthy to talk to me.

It's really fall in price to slander your ex after breaking up. Whether it's good or not, you've all been together and it's your choice. At least you loved someone. Even if your predecessor was so bad, it was just some shortcomings. From your mouth, it is your bad character.

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I always think that feelings are between two people, and only the parties themselves know best, so I especially don't like the kind of love between two people. As soon as they quarrel and break up, they will tell others that this is not good and that is not good. In case you two get back together in the future, won't you hit your face?

We're all adults. Whether to be together or not to be apart is well thought out. It's normal for two people to choose to be apart. Even if you are sad, wish each other a better life. However, there are some people who don't like others to live better than him. They have to take out their predecessors every day.

Seriously, if someone comes to tell me how bad his predecessor is, I will lose my desire to talk to this person in an instant. This kind of person, or stay away from him, even the people he loved can talk behind your back, and sometimes he will stand behind your back and stab you.

Some time ago, a listener left me a message. She just broke up with her predecessor, who immediately got a new girlfriend. The girl was very angry, but she ran to contact her predecessor's current position and told her all the bad things about her predecessor, thinking that they could break up.

Girl, you are so stupid. If you do this, it will do you no good except make people laugh. Instead, he will be accused of slandering his predecessor after breaking up. Even if he apologizes to you first, the last person who is wrong will become you.

Some people say that the best ex should be dead. I think it's quite right. Whether the other person is well or not has nothing to do with you. Living your own life is the most important thing. Why bother yourself.

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How to treat once love?

"No contact, no blessing, no slander, no regret." That's it.

I have always felt that a person's attitude towards his predecessor also represents his character. Sooner or later, you will meet another incumbent. If you judge your past predecessors, who dares to be with you?

With all due respect, those who vilify their predecessors after breaking up are scum. No matter how dirty your predecessor is, it also represents the taste of your past. After breaking up, if you can't do it, forget that he doesn't exist, at least don't take the initiative to provoke each other. Those who slander their predecessors after separation look really low.

On Zhihu, I saw a user named Yi koi fish say:

"After breaking up, don't complain, don't complain, don't sympathize, don't pester, don't say that the other party is right or wrong. If the other party complains, don't excuse silence and patience. If the other person has a new love, don't wail if your heart is twisted into a ball. Don't pretend to be generous to bless, just live silently. Don't forget it deliberately. Appropriate memories are not necessarily a good thing. "

The brokenhearted injury is just a scar in my heart, but it will get better and everything will pass.

A gentleman breaks up without swearing. If you can't gain weight, don't force it, but remember, don't take the initiative to contact, let alone care about each other's right or wrong. This is probably the best attitude towards your predecessor. Remember all the good things, throw away all the bad things and be happy with each other.

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