How to be a gentleman, what should I do and what should I pay attention to?

To be a gentleman, you must first know how to be polite, know how to advance and retreat, be gentle with people, be gentle and modest with every lady, be it old ladies, women, pregnant women or girls, don't be rude to them, and don't be angry with women under any circumstances. Although a little harsh, only those who are gentle with women can be called gentlemen. When you meet a man, you should respect him, and don't despise him because of the difference in status or age. I knew that in this world, both men and women are worthy of respect, and you should treat everyone equally.

This is the basic thing a gentleman should do.

As a gentleman, you should behave politely and regularly. You should know what to do, what not to do, what to know, what not to know, don't listen to evil, don't say evil, don't see evil, and evil will not move. Know who you are now, what you should do, and know your responsibilities.

Do your job well, don't shift the responsibility to others, don't let others take your job, and be a person who can be responsible for your words and deeds. Such a person can be called a gentleman.

A gentleman is an elegant person. They don't swear in their mouths, and there is nothing obscene in their eyes. They keep in mind various codes of conduct, such as respecting the elderly and caring for the young, respecting women and protecting others, being polite and elegant, keeping a proper distance from women, being polite but not indifferent and rude. Like men, you can be close, but you can't be too enthusiastic, which will be very cliche. A gentleman is a man who repents everywhere. In the traditional culture of China, self-denial is benevolence.

In other words, self-denial is a good thing.