Help: How should I plan my future life?

Nothing to do, answer, it's not very nice to speak. You must put up with it. But the heart is harmless. With malice, I get nothing from you.

First, there is nothing wrong with honesty. No one can laugh at your kindness. However, stupidity and honesty are not the same thing To tell the truth, it's a bit like, when doing business, someone is short of thousands of dollars and calls him for it. And stupidity is that all scammers can cheat money from you at will, and all insurance sellers can sell an insurance from you after talking to you for two days. Personally, I think this is stupid. What kind do you belong to? Sit down accordingly.

Second, no one can plan your life. You can't do this to yourself. Plans can't keep up with changes. Who doesn't cross the river by feeling the stones now? Who can say what will happen in a month? Let me plan now. I want to go out to play just after the Spring Festival this year. I'm still at home until now. Life and death are not allowed to go out.

So, I think about 30 to 40, just like a brother upstairs wrote. I really want to ask, can your brother do it?

Communication is really the most important thing in life. You can do nothing, as long as you have the right interpersonal relationship and sleep at home to make money. (I have benefited a lot)

Now analyze the problems mentioned:

First, the response is slow. Slow response means that you have little contact with society. No one is clever or not. Those who are not clever have gone to special schools. What matters is how much you know. When Adu was working as a mason, you asked him whether Mitsubishi was better or Wuling was better. He probably doesn't even know. But now, he asks a question that you may not know. That's the truth.

People walk in the society, often chatting, talking about business, talking about work, and talking to leaders. When we chat up MM, we also chat. What are we talking about?

Haha, it is impossible to say that every day is a beautiful day, right? What can we talk about?

Men talk about cars, beautiful women, stocks, real estate,

What men and women talk about together is nothing more than houses, decoration and brand clothes.

What does a table talk about together? What we talked about on the wine table was telling stories. You tell jokes, I tell jokes. Jokes may have something to do with themselves, or they may have nothing to do with themselves.

Where did all this information come from? Surfing the Internet, reading newspapers and books. Cell phone text messages.

Just like now, on the wine table, I often say, "I'm so sharp, and I'm afraid that MM people don't like me?" Or always say, "it's my treat today, and everyone should eat to the highest level." What is the highest state? Help the wall in and help the wall out. " People of the same age can talk about this together.

When people of different ages get together, they can talk about many things they can understand. You can also try telling dirty jokes. Don't think it is difficult to talk to a lady at the dinner table. Maybe she heard more than you know. This is a social phenomenon. Pay more attention to your literary accomplishment. Read more books and surf the Internet. Don't just smoke a cigarette all day and bury your head without saying a word. People like that can't beat a fart with three sticks. Want to know how, appropriate eight hanging. Everyone thinks that no one likes to talk about these little things. But this is different. Sometimes, people should say such things properly. Go to the meeting. I don't know, and the culture is not too high.

Second, if you are not confident, who is confident? How many people are confident and who is confident together?

Of course, we are confident in talking to cyclists. What about the BMW driver? What do you have confidence in? His wife took a bag, which belongs to Lu. It's enough for me to earn a month. Everyone is confident to go to a small gear. How about going to the Sailing Hotel?

I often feel insecure, too. Hehe, what I actually did was not too bad. The annual income is stable from 300,000 to 300,000, and I won't talk about the unstable ones. I have bought a house and a car. I can't afford a good car, and I don't really want it. On some occasions, there are all good cars outside, and I feel insecure. Always feel like country people. However, I played in this place for half a month. What's not to be confident about? I know how many boxes there are, so why not be confident? After a long time, the security guards all know you. Manager XX, there you go again. So, I think, confidence is familiarity. Familiarity makes you feel confident in this circle. Don't let others see that you are not confident. Don't be timid. Stand up. It seems that I have 10 million in my pocket. Don't always think others are good. He's just like you. Maybe, turn out all your pockets. You have 150, and he only has 100. This is not impossible.

Find your own circle. Mix in. Be sure to blend in. Don't loiter outside. Try to go round and round. Add a few more. You will be more knowledgeable. But you also have to look at people. When you get to this level, you will mix with people at this level. When you get to the next level, mix the next level. Don't abandon your former friends, but you don't need to take care of every friend. People will like you more easily if you talk funny. When men are together, talk about where they have seen beautiful women or what car they want to buy recently. Be generous. Even if it costs a little money. Money is something earned and spent. In fact, nothing can be saved You can't see what kind of society this is. So far, I have not saved any money. But if you buy a car or a house, you can go when you think about it, and you don't need to save anything. This is the difference between levels.

Third, ha, do you know less? This means that you don't read books, newspapers, or surf the Internet to read brothers' replies. Read more, don't read, no matter what level you are. None of them worked.

Fourth, it doesn't look good, it really doesn't look good. You can imagine what it's like. Dude, we're men. Haha, be a man. Hold your head up and chest out. Nothing can break you. Raise your head and cut your hair short. Put on two beautiful clothes. Temperament comes out.

As for how to go in the future, it's up to you. Online said: happiness is: cats eat fish and dogs eat meat, Altman hits small monsters. This sentence is really true. I will do my best. This is happiness. Now I ask you to trade in the stock market and develop the property market, but you don't want to. Ha ha. Stabilize the status quo, exercise yourself and step out of your own level step by step. Go to higher places. Take your time. In fact, if you are knowledgeable and have a high level, opportunities will come to you. If you don't go to a higher level, you will rush to a higher level, which will have no effect except making yourself miserable. For example, you are with the leader every day. People see you and like you. Give you something to do. Do a civil engineering? How to operate? How to fund it. How to transfer your own risks? You don't even know. You rushed up and gave away all your life savings. The rest, nothing. But people don't want to play with you. Haha/However, if you watch too much, listen too much, or have done small-scale civil engineering yourself before. That's easy, how to link, how to settle accounts, and how to make money for yourself. You know how to deal with future risks. If you can keep up with the money, do it. Don't get tired anyway. I can give you some money at most, that is, the risk is borne by the affiliated company, otherwise, there are still so many points. Why? All you have to do is ask a group of workers to do it. How to budget, how to manipulate the budget. How to make money and how to distribute the money earned. Hey hey. Brother, learn slowly.

Be confident and hold your head high. It's no big deal. Spend more time with others. If you can't learn to speak, make others like you. Then do more for others and let them owe you. I've met such people before. He said that awful thing. I can't stand it until now. But I'm losing money. I'm dying. People came to my house in the middle of the night and said they would lend me a loan from his house. Although there is no loan. God, I owe this for my whole life. I'm not asking you to take your house to give people a loan. That thing is too risky. I'm just telling you, you won't say it, so do it. Be a pure person, a person who everyone likes you. People who are kind to their friends. Ha ha.

I hope my answer will help you. Everyone slowly walked out of the darkness.