Original communication

boss: "two pieces."

Customer: "Two dollars a piece?"

boss: "One piece."

Customer: "One dollar and two dollars?"

boss: "two pieces."

Customer: "Is it two pieces or one piece?"

Boss: "It's two pieces.

Customer: That's fifty cents!

boss: fuck you, I won't sell you! I'm confused!

when I sent my eldest son to school this morning, I told him this passage specially. He laughed when he heard it. I asked him what inspired him, and he said, "It seems that both of them are right, but they don't mean the same thing. The boss should tell the customer that it is two yuan a piece. " Yes, two people express themselves in their own thoughts, but they don't communicate, and the final result is that both sides are unhappy.

This is the same as your conversation with your brother yesterday. Yesterday, my brother didn't put together a new puzzle. You said to him, You are so stupid. The younger brother responded: You are stupid. You went on to say: you are stupid, brother. Go on: you are stupid. You go on, brother repeats, louder and louder. Is it the same pattern?

The son laughed again: "You mother." I took the opportunity to preach: "You can express to your brother: My brother thinks that you can't put this together, and it's a bit wrong." Brother thinks you can try how to spell ... "Would you feel more comfortable? Will your brother feel your love, too?

The son replied, "Well, that makes sense."

"ok, mom looks forward to your application!" "

"ok, I got it!"

this communication is over. The purpose of communication lies in the response of the other party, and it can be closed when the purpose is achieved, and there is no need to nag again, especially for adolescent children.