What does the mother-in-law mean by giving her daughter-in-law 6.6 yuan a Chinese New Year red envelope? Is it too little?

In fact, family is like a mini-society, and marriage is a special existence. Of course, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is inevitable in marriage. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law stems from the fact that two people are not related by blood, but they still have to live in the same home like relatives.

Many people complain about their mother-in-law in marriage. In fact, the key to a mother-in-law is how much her son loves you. You know, as the "core figure" between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, a man's every move is related to the changes between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

My husband and I have been married for eight years and have a four-year-old son, who is very smart and lovely. A little man knows how to help the family share the housework. Now the family is happier, after all, I don't live with my mother-in-law, and there are many contradictions between my mother-in-law and my daughter-in-law.

Although I don't live with my mother-in-law, in fact, my mother-in-law was dissatisfied with me from the beginning, because in her opinion, I don't deserve her son. There is a simple reason. My education only graduated from a secondary vocational school, and my husband graduated from an undergraduate college. In addition, my family is a small family in the town, and my mother-in-law is a big family in the city, and some look down on people.

After so many years of marriage, we usually spend our junior year in our parents' home and spend the New Year in our in-laws' home. But just last year, I took GB to my husband's house for the New Year, and I was very wronged.

The year before last, we just got married for six years. I remember that day was the first snow. GB and I drove our son back to my husband's house for the New Year. No sooner had I arrived at my in-laws' house than GB's phone rang. It's the company. GB said that the company has not handled some things properly, and now it wants me to go back and deal with them immediately. I can understand, after all, the company is also very important. Their company in the province is only GB, and nothing else. So I told GB to hurry back and he drove back to the company.

Because my mother-in-law has been disagreeing with me all these years, I feel embarrassed to stay at my mother-in-law's house alone. I just sit on the sofa and watch TV to solve my embarrassment. My mother-in-law was very unhappy when she saw me sitting on the sofa. She is determined to find me something to do. She said to me, "daughter-in-law, I have caught a cold these days, and a lot of clothes are piled there without washing." Go in and wash. Those clothes are special and need to be washed by hand. "

I let out a cry and went into the toilet to see that it was really a big basin of clothes that I hadn't washed. Just when I turned on the water heater to wash it with hot water, I found it was all cold water, so I asked my mother-in-law, "Mom, why is there no hot water?" I can't turn on the water heater. "

Mother-in-law said, "The water heater is broken and there is no hot water. You can use cold water directly. Anyway, this is shrinking clothes and can't be washed with hot water. "

After hearing what my mother-in-law said, I can't do it even if I don't want to. I had to wash my clothes with cold water, but in this winter, the toilet was not heated, and cold air blew in from the door. I want to turn it off. My mother-in-law said to let me ventilate the toilet. The water is so cold that it hurts my bones. Soon my hands were red with cold, and it was difficult to move and I lost consciousness. But even so, my mother-in-law didn't look at me. She sat in the living room watching TV and asked me to go to the bathroom to wash clothes.

Just as I was about to wash, GB came back. As soon as he entered the room, he saw that I was not in the living room and asked his mother-in-law where I was. My mother-in-law pointed to the toilet and said, "She is washing clothes."

When my husband came in, he saw my red hands and said to me with great distress, "Why don't you wash them by machine?"

Before I could speak, my mother-in-law came in and said, "These clothes should be washed by hand, not by machine. Besides, the washing machine is broken and can't move. "

GB told me to get up, and he washed himself. When he put his hand into the water, he froze. He was particularly angry and said, "Why don't you wash it with hot water? Is there a water heater? "

My mother-in-law also said, "The water heater is broken. This dress cannot be washed with hot water. It will shrink and fade. "

When GB heard her mother-in-law say this, she understood that her mother-in-law was embarrassing me. He told me not to wash it directly and said to her mother-in-law, "Mom, don't buy clothes that are so difficult to wash in the future."

My husband looked at my red hand and felt very distressed. He held his hand in his arms and warmed mine with his body temperature. In fact, I know that my mother-in-law unplugged the water heater on purpose, but I didn't say it, so I didn't want to embarrass her.

On the first day of New Year's Day, our family was sitting at the dinner table and having a reunion dinner happily. My mother-in-law began to give red envelopes to her family. Mother-in-law gave several younger generations, elder sister and younger sister 666 red envelopes and wished them good luck. In the new year, everything goes smoothly. My mother-in-law transferred money to everyone in the family. When she received the red envelope, she was feeling: "Wow, my mother transferred 666 yuan to me. But when I saw the mobile phone screen, my mother-in-law only sent me a 6.6 red envelope without even a greeting.

Looking at the phone in a daze, I don't want to talk about it, so as not to spoil everyone's fun. At this time, GB just saw the numbers on my mobile phone, and he felt speechless. Within one minute, GB directly transferred 5200 yuan to me with the remark "I love you".

Looking at the red envelope issued by the national standard, I feel sweet in an instant. Even if I don't like my mother-in-law, at least my husband has always been on my side.

After dinner, my husband talked to his mother-in-law alone, which happened to be heard by me.

I heard GB say to my mother-in-law, "Mom, since you hate my daughter-in-law so much, we won't come back for the Chinese New Year holiday, so you can live with my sister and them." Mom, after all, she is also your daughter-in-law. You hate her and don't like her. I can't control you, but you must know that I love her Some things don't go too far. You can't tolerate my daughter-in-law just can't tolerate me. "

After the national standard was over, my mother-in-law dragged me out before she could react. Guo Biao was afraid that I would be sad, so he took me to the river to play. He took my hand and said to me, "I'm sorry, wife, I wronged you."

I clenched his hand, looked at him and said, "It doesn't matter, I have enough love from you."

GB smiled and said nothing, so he drove me back to my parents' house. The next day GB also brought my son, and then the family spent the New Year at my mother's house.

After that year, we never went to my husband's house for holidays or Chinese New Year, only occasionally went back with GB. After being so cold to my mother-in-law for two years, my mother-in-law took the initiative to call me to pay a New Year call this year. I feel that since my elders invited me, my mother-in-law's attitude towards me has improved a lot. I will go back to my mother-in-law's house for the New Year this year.

On the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the national standard is really commendable. It is said that men are "lubricants" between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. As long as efforts are made in the middle, no matter how big Chou He is between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it can be resolved. Like GB, when his mother and daughter-in-law have conflicts and quarrels, as a son, he knows that he can't blame his mother, let alone his daughter-in-law. No matter who is to blame, it will add fuel to the fire, making the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law worse and intensifying the quarrel between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

You should know that the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an important relationship that affects a marriage. Because there are contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there will be quarrels and disharmony at home, and the man caught in the middle will have a hard time. After a long time, the feelings between mother and son will have an impact, and the gap between husband and wife will deepen.

Therefore, it is very important for a man to be a "middleman" between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.