Quarrel with your best friend. . This is not a real battle. . Has made progress. . Please help me.

I have encountered this problem many times before. In fact, even the best friends are always distant. Perhaps with the growth of age, the pure friendship between them has become the purpose and benefit. Of course, this may be the majority, and a few really pure friendships are really rare now! I want to give you some advice about your problem:

1, find your own question: calm down and think about what makes them dislike you, keep a distance from them, and do you have any bad gestures, gestures, common language, things and hobbies that make them avoid you!

2. If you find your own problems, you have to overcome them, because this is also a personal promotion. Didn't find their own problems, did they degenerate to not listen to their opinions, so that everyone didn't want to be with someone who had no dreams and no pursuits! You should think about how to improve your ability and quality, and start to do it! Make a plan and gradually improve it.

3. If you change the surface, can you really stick to it? Let them see your determination and perseverance and stick to this change. Don't think that superficial change is change, it's just perfunctory! Make up your mind! !

4, even the best friends will be alienated, don't show yourself incisively and vividly, even the best friends! We should also restrain some human nature and not be ignorant!

In short, the way of doing things is profound. Everything is unusual! Be careful when making friends and be calm when doing things!