What should I say when I have dinner with the leader for the first time?

In the workplace, what should I say when I have dinner with a leader for the first time? Let's analyze it together.

1. When the company has entertainment, you can propose a toast to the leader. You should make a simple self-introduction first, and it must be concise and clear, otherwise there will be too many people and the leaders will not remember you.

When it's your turn to speak, be distinctive, concise and summarize the main idea. May make the leader remember you. I don't know the rest. At company parties, newcomers rarely say a few words in front of the leaders.

2. When eating alone with the leader, you can talk to the leader about some light topics, let the leader grasp the initiative of words, find a suitable opportunity, or ask the leader for some experience, and you need to be modest when speaking.

Asking more questions in business means knowing some questions and pretending not to understand. Let him feel that you are a very enthusiastic and motivated person at any time.

When you speak, don't exaggerate, don't boast. You should know how to be modest and prudent, and don't say anything when you treat the leader as a friend. When the leader chats, it is best to leave a good impression on him, which is good for getting along in the future.

Many newcomers in the workplace usually look very active, but once they are alone with their leaders, they are easily nervous, so that they are at a loss and even incoherent. So if they go out to eat with the leader for the first time, how should they introduce themselves, so that they can show themselves for a while and let the leader remember you?

In fact, there is a lot of knowledge in it.

Let me give you an example first. I saw a video last night, and a young man who just joined the job was invited by the leader to introduce himself. Then he stood up generously, raised his glass and said a lot of things. Finally he said, "Relax, I did it." As a result, a large glass of white wine was broadcast live as soon as it was dried, and it was sprayed out directly, destroying a table of dishes, leaving only the leaders and other colleagues in a mess.

Therefore, this self-introduction to the leader at dinner is doomed to be a failed case.

So how to make your self-introduction more brilliant?

First of all, I think it must be as brief as possible. Why do you say that? Because the leader takes you to dinner just to give you face, but you must remember that the protagonist of this table is the leader, not you, so you can't say too much whether the leader asks you to introduce yourself or you want to introduce yourself. After all, you're not the protagonist, are you? Since you can't talk too much, you need to prepare in advance, or at least make a draft, to ensure that your short words can introduce you to everyone and make them remember you. Of course, if you are humorous enough, it should be better to drive the atmosphere by the way.

Secondly, it must be remembered that it is not the best situation for you to introduce yourself voluntarily, because if you introduce yourself voluntarily, others will have the illusion that you like to express yourself too much, so at this time, you can ask others' opinions first, and strive for other colleagues who are familiar with you, such as your department leaders, and ask them to introduce you, which will naturally have better results. Because if you think about it, others are willing to recommend someone, then this person can't be bad at least, right?

In a word, having dinner with leaders is just a meal, and there is still a lot of knowledge in it. Especially when you go out to eat with the leader for the first time and need to make an introduction, please try boldly and don't be vague.