His parents scolded him for his heavy homework. What happened to 10-year-old boy who ran away from home in the cold wave?

On the evening of February 29th, 65438, the police station of Songjiang Public Security Bureau received an alarm, and passers-by found a teenager walking alone in the street. At present, Shanghai is facing a cold current, and the temperature drops to MINUS 5 degrees at night. Soon the police rushed to the alarm location, searched along the road and found the little boy after 10 minutes.

It is understood that the little boy 10 years old left home after being scolded by his parents for his heavy academic work. The little boy walked all the way from Qingpu District to Songjiang District 16 km. The father of the little boy who received the alarm call quickly rushed from Qingpu District to the local police station. When the boy's father saw the child, he was relieved and thanked the police. According to the boy's father, he and his family have been looking for it for three hours. The weather is so cold that their families are worried. Then the boy was successfully taken home by his father. The police said that parents should pay attention to their children's daily care and education methods to avoid the occurrence of children running away from home.

In the eyes of many people, "running away from home" is all angry words or jokes, but children running away from home are likely to turn into "missing children", and parents can't help but pay attention to it. In the case of missing children, running away from home is the first factor. According to the normal procedure, the police will confirm whether to file a case according to the alarm and reconnaissance within 24 hours after the child is missing, but in the case of missing, the first 24 hours are also called "golden 24 hours", which is also the key time to find the child. For example, in the case, the little boy walked out of 16 km in a short time at night. If it takes a long time, it will be much more difficult to find a child. Losing a child is an unbearable burden for every family.

The reasons for children's disappearance are abduction, running away from home or getting lost, but now running away from home has become the biggest factor. According to the People's Public Security Daily, as of May 18 and 15, the Ministry of Public Security's * * * children's missing information emergency release platform released a total of 3,053 missing children's information, including 1705 (55%). In terms of age ratio, the loss of children aged 12 and 3 is the most serious. This is because children of this age group begin to enter adolescence, and their studies begin in junior high school. Children in this period are more tired of learning, and with the enhancement of self-awareness, many children in this period will have conflicts with their parents and families, and the increase of family conflicts will also lead to the more common situation of running away from home.

The changes of children after puberty are obvious. After their sense of independence is enhanced, they will no longer rely too much on their families and people around them as in the past, but when they encounter conflicts, their resistance will be stronger. Running away from home is also a kind of resistance. The difference between different children is that some may just talk, and some actually do it.

What are the reasons that lead children to run away from home? The Micro Report of Teenagers Running Away from Home shows that the contradiction between parents and children leads to running away from home the most (66.5 1%), followed by study, independence and friendship, which are relatively distinct relationships in adolescence. In addition, in the internet age, the internet is also a new incentive for children to run away from home. In virtual social interaction and games, teenagers may develop a sense of independence that is inconsistent with the actual situation in advance, which has also become an incentive for some teenagers to run away from home to some extent.

In view of the problem that children run away from home, they will eventually return to family education and parent-child communication. There are many family conflicts in adolescence, and school is one aspect. Parents all hope that their children can get good grades, so the academic pressure faced by their children will not be small, because there are many students who are tired of learning because of too much pressure. In education, schoolwork is of course important, but parents should not forget that it is only a part of family education. In addition, parents should watch more and have a more comprehensive view of education.

In addition, education should be adjusted according to the different periods of children's growth. In early childhood, children are highly dependent on their parents, but in adolescence, children's personal consciousness begins to wake up and become more independent. At this time, parents should get used to it and understand the changing characteristics of teenagers. For example, emotional problems, teenagers will have more emotional expression at this stage. Some parents think that children who talk back are disobedient. In fact, this is not only the expression of opinions, but also the release of emotions. Parents should give more respect and appropriate guidance. Behind children running away from home is a profound educational problem. Facing the different performances of children in their growth process, adapting to changes, actively guiding and not forgetting respect will reduce family conflicts.