Why are you so sensitive and care about what others say?

Because you are not confident, you always live in other people's words and don't give yourself a good position. This kind of life feels very tired. How to change ideas, we must first have our own goals, and then we can bow our heads and do our own things. You think too much, are too sensitive, pursue perfection, and are a perfectionist.

In fact, there is no need to care so much. Other people's comments are only objective and one-sided, and cannot represent all the facts. So what some people say is worth learning from, and what some people say is unnecessary to care about, because it doesn't make any sense. To sum up, go your own way and let others talk!

This is because of the inevitability of your performance in the process of maturity, which is a normal phenomenon and the beginning of your maturity.

You care about others, which shows that you have high emotional intelligence and strong collectivism, and you want to understand, feel and even help others.

On the other hand, because you are young and can't see through others, you feel that others have seen through you. That's why you're immature. To some extent, maturity means seeing through others and pretending.

It doesn't matter, you will get better gradually. If you want to change yourself, there is only one thing: think carefully about everything and understand every word of others. If you don't understand, you can think backwards. Using logical principles, you can understand the implication of what others say, and you will understand. I see, naturally I won't be scared, and I won't care.

Further, learn to say: no! This is very important. As long as you can learn to say no, you really start to mature. For example, if someone asks you for money, you must think about it. If you lend him money and he doesn't pay you back, you lose both your friend and my money. But if you learn to say no! At least you won't lose money.

Maturity for everyone, because of different background, the content is different, but one thing is the same, that is, mature people will make judgments to weigh the pros and cons.

It doesn't matter, relax, and you will get better and mature in a little bit.

Because my heart is not strong enough, I care about other people's opinions. Once someone says something bad, even if I know it's not personal or intentional, I will keep it in my heart. So you should strive to increase your self-confidence, which is from the heart.

How to increase your self-confidence? First of all, you should analyze yourself, what are your strengths and weaknesses, really like these strengths, feel useful and proud of them, then find out your shortcomings and deficiencies, and try to get rid of them slowly, or even if you can't get rid of them soon, you should always care about them in your life and correct them bit by bit, so that you will gradually build up your self-confidence. Before long, you can be yourself and not be influenced by others' words.