What did your parents do that made you feel incredible?

To outsiders, my dad sends flowers to his nephew when he has money, because he is the fragrance of his family. And I am a girl, and he is very patriarchal. But he came to my house when he was 60 years old, because I was the only one at home. I don't talk about anything I drink every day, my clothes are tight, and I am very picky about eating and drinking. If you have no money, ask me for it. If you save it and go back to your hometown, you will secretly give it to your nephew. My mother cried at my granddaughter all day, too. I've always been careless. As long as they want money, I will give it to them. From going out to see a doctor to buying socks insoles, I will reimburse them. My mother will taste the sweetness and ask for money for a little thing. For example, if she spends twenty or thirty dollars on something casually, she will say that she has no money and wants it again. Her granddaughter, my sister's child, also asked me for money when she owed me an online loan. Sometimes I am angry and don't give it. My mother can give her thousands of dollars at once. I have spent more than 10 thousand on reading, eating, drinking and buying clothes when this child came back from his hometown. Because she gets carsick every time, let me buy a high-speed rail ticket. Train people don't like to be slow. I need money to buy clothes from time to time. I put up with it for my sister's sake. I feel that my whole family regards me as a free ATM. I am extravagant with them because I value my family too much. I am not stupid. I have a lot of money. When I am in trouble, everyone I can turn to can rely on me, but I have no one to trust. Sometimes I feel very tired. I don't complain about spending some money on the people I love. No one really understands the feeling of unfairness and tiredness.