Is the big boss good at telling jokes

A circle with two points on it and a curve with an upward edge below it constitutes a vivid smile. In large shopping malls, hotel restaurants and even some large enterprises, you can often see this kind of smiling credit card, reminding employees all the time: Did you laugh today?

But perhaps because of that smile, credit cards are rarely put on the boss's box, so a large number of bosses with large numbers and good sales performance are constantly emerging, but with bad smiles. The boss's seemingly casual smile made the company office "dark" from now on.

Even authoritative experts believe that in the field of on-the-job personnel, these "distorted" facial features are likely to constitute a kind of violence against friends and friends around them. Mentality has great attraction. When the boss doesn't laugh all the time, what he conveys to his employees is a state of depression, depression or anxiety, which will definitely make employees feel confused and stressed at work.

Although a slight smile will definitely touch 13 muscles of the face, the theory of relativity will definitely stimulate many facial muscles to get angry or frown. Is it that hard to laugh?

"Can't laugh" under pressure

If there is any "occupational hazard" for bosses nowadays, it is inevitable that "it is not easy to laugh". As a doctor said, the working pressure of being a boss is at least ten atmospheres, or even more than one hundred atmospheres. If you can't squeeze out a smile at the boss who is in a "hypoxia" situation, please let me feel a little bit of your concern.

Staff complained: pat me on the shoulder.

To tell the truth, I am disgusted to see the unchanging "smelly face" of the leader. He always seems to turn a deaf ear to everyone's hard work and efforts. Every time I see him, I still say contemptuously, "You mean that if you laugh, you lose all your strength?" This sentence is naturally said to my heart. However, in the long run, everyone has a matching strategy, that is, as soon as he comes back, he will quickly avoid walking or pretend to turn his face inadvertently.

I've always been puzzled that the boss doesn't laugh. It seems that he is not stubborn and will never be hard on us. He is even selfless in reward, and basically belongs to a "three good bosses". You can smile, but you will never change your money.

According to everyone's secret statistics and analysis, at least 80% of employees mentioned this when communicating with the personnel department, and it was the director of the personnel department who was sadly reminded that she could do nothing about it.

However, some people don't believe it. My friend Xiao Zhao is going to confront the boss face to face. His idea is: "He is even more like that. The more I want to do well, the more I want to show them. I work so well, why doesn't he smile at me? "

Xiao Zhao's confrontation ended in nothing. Although he works very well and often gets red envelopes, I haven't seen my boss smile at him several times. There are also friends who I think have practiced to the high end, who have turned a deaf ear to whether the boss's gloomy face has long been guaranteed to be completely ignored.

However, regardless of the reaction, I still understand that everyone is looking forward to the boss talking to himself, even if it is a pat on the shoulder, it is also an incentive. But at least for now, it is conceivable that the boss of 202 1 didn't attend the year-end meeting, let alone communicate with employees. If he is not very honest and kind, maybe many people will leave.

The boss told himself: the pressure of work made me forget to laugh!

Indeed, the head of the personnel department has told me several times that I can't laugh. But I really can't laugh. We are all private enterprises. I founded them myself 10 years ago. Although we have achieved great success now, the hardships we have experienced are not felt by ordinary employees. I almost died because I once trusted others. Since then, I have become more and more unconscious, and choosing a partner is also the most important prerequisite. So at present, there is no shortage of excellent people in my enterprise, but there are not many talents, and the work pressure is basically on me. Over the years, I often think that I can have a good middle and high level to help me solve my difficulties. I'm so tired. But after thinking about it, safety is the basis. Finally, I chose some friends, relatives or classmates who have been together for more than ten years to help me with some auxiliary work. The most important homework is still on my own.

I am very busy and tired every day, and I have a lot of troubles. Now I almost forget how to laugh. In addition, it can establish its own power. What isn't? What's more, the salary I give my employees has always been relatively high, which should be the most important thing for many people. What's more, every time an employee sees me walking around, I simply pretend not to see it to avoid embarrassment.

The embarrassment of "it's not easy to laugh by nature"

Excellent talents who don't like to laugh are often called "cool" by others, which is a manifestation of elegance. But as a boss, "no kidding" will become a distance, which is a kind of "cold charm that keeps people away." For a boss who is naturally not easy to laugh, then you don't have to be stingy with all kinds of main expressions except facial emotions.