The named male colleague laughed at me.

If you don't respond to your colleagues' comments, they are likely to disappear gradually. If they keep joking, you can try to respond in a humorous way, such as "you exaggerate, we are just ordinary colleagues."

If this behavior makes you uncomfortable, you can also express your feelings directly. You can say, "I don't like such jokes very much." I hope everyone can respect my privacy. "

No matter which way you choose, you should express your opinions in a way that respects yourself and others. At the same time, you can also communicate with that male colleague to understand his thoughts and feelings. If he doesn't like this kind of joke, you can take action together to make colleagues realize the discomfort and inappropriateness of this kind of speech.