Fear of your own efforts is a joke.

Hello, dear, the feeling you said is very common. Many people feel insecure and self-doubt when facing the person they like. Faced with such an emotional dilemma, you need to give consideration to both reason and emotion and make the decision that suits you best. You can consider the following aspects to help you make a decision:

Self-awareness and promotion: First of all, you need to know yourself clearly. Everyone has his own value and charm, so you don't have to feel inferior. You can constantly improve yourself, whether it is internal cultivation, external image or professional ability, to make yourself more confident, thus narrowing the so-called "gap" feeling.

Get to know each other: Try to get to know him better and see if he is really as far away as you think, or if he values the qualities you can or have achieved through hard work. Sometimes, we exaggerate each other's advantages and ignore our own bright spots.

Communication: If you have the opportunity to contact him, you may wish to express your feelings and concerns sincerely and listen to his views. Maybe his impression of you is different from your self-cognition, and maybe he will appreciate your sincerity and courage.

Try bravely: If you really like him and are willing to take possible risks, you might as well try bravely. Even if you don't succeed, at least you have tried and won't leave any regrets.

Risk assessment: weigh the pros and cons. If you think this relationship is likely to bring growth and happiness, then there is no need to try bravely. But if this feeling makes you extremely uneasy and even affects your normal life, you may need to carefully consider whether it is worth taking the risk.

Protect yourself: No matter what the result is, learn to protect your emotions and don't lose yourself because of the pursuit of love. If you find it really inappropriate after trying, you should have the courage to accept the reality and get out in time.

Time consideration: Sometimes, time will give us the answer. Don't make a decision in a hurry. Give yourself and your partner some time to get to know each other and then make a choice according to the actual situation.

Be prepared for the result: Before you decide to take action, you should be mentally prepared and accept the result anyway. If it is successful, it is the best; If you don't succeed, you must learn to let go. I believe this is the best arrangement.

Don't be afraid to be a joke: life has its ups and downs. If we dare not pursue our own happiness for fear of failure or becoming a laughing stock, then we will miss many beautiful things. True friends and people who care about you will support your decision and be proud of your courage.

Everyone has the right to be loved. Don't think you don't deserve it. Emotional things are hard to say clearly, but you never know the possible outcome until you try. We can start with improving ourselves, enhancing our understanding and trying to communicate, and then go deeper and treat emotional problems rationally, so as to better grasp our emotional trend. In this process, you will find that no matter what the result is, you will gain and grow. In any case, maintaining self-confidence and a positive attitude is beneficial to your personal growth and future love life.