After lovelorn, the difference between a rich girl and a poor girl

These days, my circle of friends has been screened by a paragraph:

"It is more reliable to think about trying to make money. Otherwise, when you are in a bad mood, you can only buy two bottles of beer and a bag of chicken feet and cry on the roadside. If you work hard to make money, you can lie in a beautiful mountain hot spring and apply a mask to stop your tears. I can also go to new york to cry, London to cry, Paris to cry, Rome to cry, and I can cry as much as I like. "

I think it's damn right.

One of my best friends, Southeast, is lovelorn. She, ah, fell in love with her booty call. But as we all know, from the beginning of this kind of thing, the label is doomed.

So from the moment she was emotional, she lost.

She once said, "When did I fall in love with you? We should break up. "

But she couldn't bear to part with it, so she arranged a trip and wanted to go out with that boy as if she were in love. It's a pity that the boy didn't lose his mind. The trip was just a perfunctory one.

The day she came out of the airport, she went straight to my house. When she came in, she began to cry. She cried and said, "Don't comfort me. It's okay. It's good to finish crying. Let's go shopping. No man loves me, at least I have a bag. "

I said yes, let's go shopping.

We didn't go home until skp closed that night. She hung her bag on her body and said to me, "Six, we are really lucky. Work hard. Otherwise, I must be more sad at the moment. At least now money can comfort me. "

In the evening, she said that the memories of the trip were so bad that she wanted to go again. So I booked a plane ticket there, booked a hotel and asked me to go out to play at the end of February.

It's always good to take a walk, broaden your horizons, see new scenery, blow fresh air and bask in the new sun.

02

I always feel that my love is very tragic. I know everything, but I will always be the one who is easy to fail in my relationship. No matter what conditions and personality I know, I can't escape the injured character.

When I was in college, my love with Lao Gao was fragmented.

In fact, I have that crazy energy in my bones. I miss him countless times at night and can't sleep. I want to go out for a walk, go to Chengdu, go to his hometown city, take the road we have traveled, see the scenery we have seen, eat the restaurants we have eaten again, and take a new photo of the places we have taken.

I must dress beautifully. I want to buy a sturdy suitcase. I can bring many sets of clothes and change them every day. I want to buy an expensive bag. In case I really meet him somewhere, I want him to see that I am doing well. I know it's hopeless, but what if?

But I didn't go. Because I had no money at that time, I spent all the living expenses given by my family. I can't afford it.

The only thing I can do is to buy a few bottles of beer in the dormitory, or secretly drink two bottles after the lights are turned off at night, and I can only buy Tsingtao beer because it is cheap. I can always afford it.

Lying in bed after drinking, dizzy thinking about what happened, burying his head in the quilt and crying quietly.

I always feel sick at that time, and now I always have headaches and insomnia. My life has improved in recent years, but the only thing that makes me want to live is that I haven't had a complete sleep for a long time.

I can hardly remember the year when I got better.

Sometimes you think that the memory in your bones is always lost with time. Finally, what you remember is the word memory itself, but the details are not clear. It's like an injection when I was a child. You only remember this painful thing, but you can't tell how painful it is.

03

Later, I felt sorry for the boys many times.

I am really good to others wholeheartedly, but love is not reading. You can get good grades by studying hard. It's not a job. If you bite your bullet, your performance will give you the answer.

Love depends on luck. You have done everything you can, and the rest is up to you. Whether you can have it or not depends on your life.

The boy I met in the second year after graduating from college, my life was much better when I left. I found many friends to accompany me at home. Going out to eat, drink, dance and sing K every day is much better than staying at home alone.

Eating and drinking costs money, and dancing and singing k costs money. At that time, we agreed to get married without buying a ring and buy a ring. So I spent more than half of my savings to buy my own bracelet.

I will be sad, I will be empty, I will miss him too much, I want to call him, I want to ask: where the fuck am I? Why can't you say no? Why can't you ignore me?

Are those vows all jokes? Are those little things that are good to me actors? You can indulge yourself and vent your emotions, which will be much stronger than thinking alone.

Lovelorn is a scourge, and you need to find a gate to vent.

Most of the gates need to be charged to open, and it's really miserable to have no money.

04

After that, it was the last time. I told you I was cheating on everyone. Because my lover is much more powerful than me, I dare not make it public. Only a few people knew about it on the day of separation.

On the day of parting, I walked back to the hotel alone, lying on a soft bed, crying and thinking, "It's already one o'clock in the middle of the night." I'm too old for this kind of trouble. "

So, I called the hotel spa to my room and put on an expensive mask. My sister who gave me a spa asked me, "Does it hurt so much? Why do you keep crying? Then I will be gentle. " I said, "Nothing. This is a good point. I'm a little afraid of pain. You don't have to worry about me. "

I'm not afraid of physical pain. I've had a headache since senior three. I'm not afraid of anything.

When I was a child, I dared to go by myself. What am I afraid of?

I accidentally fell down the stairs, broke my arm, typed with one hand, and lied to others that I was a sculpture of Yang Guo. What am I afraid of?

After all these years, I'm afraid of massage because of that clown's crawling.

I'm afraid of feeling bad. I cry for my heart. A runny nose hurts. No matter how thick the fat is, no matter how expensive the coat is, no matter how good the essential oil is, it can't stop the pain of shrinking.

But at least I can cry and have a spa. I massage, cry and buy.

Fuck the reason. I bought all the bags, jewelry and cosmetics I wanted to buy before. Then I booked a plane ticket back to Beijing the next morning and asked them out to play!

Being rich doesn't mean you are happy, but under the same lovelorn situation, you must be happier than having no money.

You cry everywhere, but crying in Paris sounds much more advanced than crying on this roadside.

No matter what you do, you will miss him, but it is more comfortable to miss the spa than to think about how to pay back the credit card.

Actually, I can't sleep at night, but staying at home alone is more bitter than finding a bunch of people to accompany you to divert your attention.

The quickest way to forget someone is to find the next one.

You sit on the side of the road and blow beer. No matter how fierce and beautiful you cry, it's hard to meet the next one.

But when you go out to play, you can meet many different people, such as the boy sitting next to you in the first class, the young man sitting next to you in afternoon tea in the scenic spot, and the friend brought by your girlfriend when you go out to drink.

Really, the money in your hand will not betray you. When you are sad, look at your savings. If it is big, you will really feel more at ease. It can create many possibilities.

I am a recidivist who is lovelorn. I told you that money can't buy love, but it can buy happiness when you are sad.