Don't touch anything and don't touch a man's dignity.

There are some things men really want to know. For example, women admire them, are proud of them and think they are the best. But there are some things that men don't want to know. They are forbidden areas and minefields. Women should not visit them, let alone step on them, otherwise, their emotions will be blown out! Everything related to men's dignity is the most powerful bomb in this restricted area. Don't touch it. I remember reading such a story: "The knight proposed to a girl, and the girl hesitated. The knight decided to wait downstairs for 99 days until she agreed. From then on, the knight waited for the girl downstairs every day, and the girl gradually became tempted, but she wanted to know whether the knight could persist until the end and determine the knight's love. Time passed day by day. On the afternoon of the 98th day, the girl hid behind the window and looked at the knight affectionately. Her heart softened, but suddenly she saw the knight tidy up his clothes and leave with a smile. The girl cried for him to stay, but the knight told the girl that love also has dignity. This story is about dignity. Knights are not unable to keep their promises, nor do they love girls. He was just afraid that the final result would make his waiting meaningless, so he chose the right time to leave in order to maintain his dignity. Life is a face, no matter how thick or thin, beautiful or ugly, we all attach great importance to our face, and everyone should have dignity. What men want most is dignity. He wants nothing, but he can't lose his dignity. This statement is very old, but it makes sense. Although men seem careless, in fact, their hearts are not as strong as their appearances. They have to work hard outside, so they often care more about other people's opinions. For men and women in love, if women learn to save face for men, their love will be icing on the cake. To care about a man's dignity is to care about himself. What is a man's dignity? It can make him take every step proudly, make him look radiant from every angle, and make his every word an irrevocable promise. A truly powerful woman does not touch a man's dignity. A man may not drink at all and can't drink well, but he won't admit that he can't drink well and fight with his companions to show his manhood and man's dignity. For a person, dignity is as important as life. Don't touch this "nerve" that is related to men's dignity easily. If this nerve is out of order, then women will pay a painful price. In many ways, men will be patient, will give in to women, know that they are right, and must compromise and blame themselves for the woman they love. Because it is natural for men to protect women. A male friend once said: "In men's eyes, a woman is her own heart, and every move and jump of her heart closely affects every nerve of a man." However, when the heart beats uncontrollably and men can't stand it, then they have to change their minds. "So, women should not be more aggressive because of men's repeated tolerance. Don't touch anything that he thinks is detrimental to his face and man's dignity. For example, don't criticize the unchangeable facts such as his family background, education or personality, so as not to murder the painstakingly managed love because of his quick words. Remember, a really powerful woman will love him and will not deliberately torture him. She should learn to give men some dignity while coquetry. Everyone has his own dignity. Just because he loves you doesn't mean you can hurt him at will, trample on his dignity and despise his right to love you. A clever woman has a set of training methods. Yesterday, she went out to play with her girlfriend, her boyfriend's buddies and their girlfriends. I don't know whose girlfriend initiated it, but the girls began to criticize the shortcomings of their boyfriends. At first, the atmosphere was good, but later it went too far, and the boy who was said was a little embarrassed. I told them a joke half jokingly: "When many men call their wives in front of everyone, their voices should be raised by eight degrees:" Okay, okay, I'll go home late today, don't bother, I'm busy, hang up! "At this time, others are waiting to see the drama with their ears upright. Smart women will definitely not be fooled, but will kindly say, "Husband, I know. If you can't come back too late, call me. " Put the phone down, my husband is full of face in front of everyone. When you get home, your husband will be happy for your seamless cooperation. This is the man who looks full of pride. At home, he may be a handyman rushing to wash clothes and cook. "This is a smart woman's set-up! It is actually extremely unwise for a woman to show that she is bossing her husband around like a servant. Most men are very proud. If you satisfy his face, he will be grateful to you in his heart and will naturally reciprocate. Some women are complacent and think that if they master money, they will master their husbands. Men are outside, and you can't hand in 10 yuan in your pocket. Not only is he embarrassed, but also his wife should be ashamed. A smart woman should care for a man's dignity as much as love. Never compete with a man's dignity. If you think you can conquer his heart by hitting him in the face, you are all wet. You will lose his respect for you, and more likely you will lose your love. Give men more face and you will get more love. Harmony: "A scholar can be killed, but not humiliated", these six words have taught many people since ancient times, especially men. Dignity is an irresistible requirement of life. When people defend their dignity, they can even lose their lives, not to mention other efforts. Xiang Yu's Wujiang River commit suicide is a good example. After the defeat, he ran to Wujiang. He could have fled back to Jiangdong by fishing boat, but he gave up. Because I felt "ashamed to see my elders in Jiangdong" and had no face to go back to face the villagers, I chose to commit suicide. His death fulfilled his dignity, the integrity of a generation of heroes and his name in history. It can be seen that men value their dignity, even more important than their own lives. Knowing this truth, we should not only understand but also safeguard all kinds of words and deeds made by men for dignity. Saving face and dignity are their strengths and weaknesses in life. I would rather starve to death than eat "what they come to eat". This is the real manhood of some men who become beggars. A man's dignity can last 10 years, 20 years or even longer, but sometimes a woman's words will destroy it. If a person has no dignity, his spirit is numb. He can't see the initiative of others, and he can't feel his weakness and helplessness. A man is the master of the world. He can bear great pressure and take absolute responsibility. Self-confidence is the product of men's weakness. Sometimes a contemptuous look, or an impatient action, will make a man's body and mind suffer a great blow. However, dignity is a man's achilles heel. If you don't want to destroy this man, don't touch his fatal wound.