The story of roses

The most famous flower in the world is probably the little prince’s unique rose. The book "The Little Prince" was once the second best-selling book in the world after the Bible.

This thorny rose is beautiful, vain and proud. However, because she conquered one person, she will always stay in his heart. In the future, even if he has seen more than five thousand flowers like hers Son, I still feel that she is a unique flower in the world. Of all the relationships in the world, there is nothing more fortunate than being in love with each other.

Rose has always been a symbol of love. Its flower language, different colors and different quantities, have different meanings. I prefer the flower language of four roses: never leave.

Yes, I have a deep memory of the four words "never leave, never give up".

Several years ago, when I was a teenager, I read a magazine. There was an article about the flower language of roses. Each flower language listed the heart-stirring love stories from ancient and modern times at home and abroad as examples. Among them When it comes to Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu, I vaguely remember some of the author's summary: Beside the Sansheng Stone, I shed a lifetime of tears... Four roses will never leave.

From then on, I looked at the four roses in a new light. Even though he knew clearly that the four words "Never Leave, Never Give Up" were written by Cao Xueqin to Xue Baochai, and her famous gold necklace was chiselled, she still regarded it as an agreement between Master Yihong and Concubine Xiaoxiang.

Roses are native to China. However, because the branches and stems have thorns, they are considered to be a symbol of assassins and knights. Therefore, there are not many stories related to roses. Instead, the stories of roses abroad are fascinating. :

The ancient Greek goddess of love and beauty, Aphrodite, fell in love with the god of nature, Adonis. Adonis was bitten to death by a wild boar, and his blood turned into a thorny white flower. Aphrodite Ti pursues Adonis and runs among the white flowers. He is stabbed all over his body and his blood dyes the white flowers into red.

In order to avoid crazy suitors, the ancient Roman beauty Rodanthe took shelter in the temple of Diana, the goddess of virginity. Her suitors did not give up and stayed outside the temple looking forward to meeting her. This situation made Diana jealous, and Rodanthe's beauty was too dazzling. Finally, when Rodanthe's suitors rushed into the temple, Diana turned her into a rose, and her suitors became Became a thorn.

Although sad, it is undeniably beautiful and romantic. Sometimes I feel that without one or two poignant love stories, a flower will not look touching.

However, when it comes to sorrow and lingering, the entanglement between Fairy Jiangzhu and Shenying’s waiter is even better.

Readers have known about "returning tears" early on, and know that the relationship between Baoyu and Daiyu will only be a tragedy, but they still yearn for their relationship: childhood sweethearts are in love with each other, and after a conversation, they no longer have any feelings for each other. Suspect. So simple and pure. Regarding the ending, the parties involved are always sadder than the readers, because they thought they would be together, but in fact they were not. Although Gao E wrote about Daiyu's death in a cowardly way, and she didn't even ask Baoyu the truth, the section "burning the manuscript to end infatuation" is so decisive and leaves no room for anything, which makes people feel sorry for her stubbornness.

Fortunately, Lin Daiyu passed away before the building that protected them collapsed. They did not have to see each other's struggle for life. What remained in their memories was the most beautiful and best impression.

From the time Daiyu entered the Rongguo Mansion to her death, there were many good times between them, and the ones that were not clearly written down were particularly desirable.

The daily life of young gentlemen and young ladies who live a wealthy and idle life under the protection of their elders usually consists of paying homage to their elders in the morning, gathering together, reciting poems, composing poems, eating, drinking, having fun, and talking and laughing. Smile, another day has passed. Daiyu and Baoyu, the incarnations of fairy grass and beautiful jade, have higher quality of life requirements than others. For example, they make their own rouge paste. Before Baoyu went to school, he met Daiyu first, reminding her to wait for him to have dinner with him, and also asked her to wait for him to make rouge paste together. Therefore, Ping'er was later beaten by Jia Lian and Sister Feng, and she shed tears of grievance. When she was invited to Yihong Courtyard to have her makeup done, she saw the extraordinary powder and rouge. Baoyu proudly introduced: "This is made by wringing out the juice from the best rouge, cleaning out the residue, and steaming it with floral dew."

Obviously Baoyu Daiyu has nothing to do with roses. They met directly. After reading this paragraph, I suddenly understood why some people used four roses to describe the relationship between them.

There are many roses in Yihongyuan. The "flower dew" mentioned above is undoubtedly rose dew. In that era, women could not live without rouge and gouache even if they were older. What is certain is that Baoyu and Daiyu spent countless happy hours together picking roses to make rouge.

What can make people recall it again and again is usually not the vigorous and vigorous love. The relationship that has had a little quarrel makes people feel warmer. Jia Lian was so lustful that he secretly married Sister You regardless of the consequences and took on all kinds of charges. Jia Qiang wanted to please Ling Guan, a girl who was studying opera, and tried her best to make her happy and let other girls studying opera watch him. joke. They are both somewhat sincere, but in no case can they compare to the sincerity of the relationship between Baoyu and Daiyu. Of course, because they are not the protagonists.

I never believe that in a relationship, red roses and white roses can coexist at the same time. In that case, it can only be said to be love at all. Time and people are important in love. Baochai was better than Daiyu in everything, but he could not win Baoyu's favor because his heart had long been occupied by Daiyu and there was no room left for her.

Daiyu is Baoyu’s rose. Even though it stings him from time to time, he is happy with it. Some people are relatively pure. If they love, they love. If they don’t love, they don’t love. There is no middle way. So later, he "looked at the sky and saw the crystal clear snow in the mountains; never forgetting the lonely forest of the fairyland in the world." A few years later, he may not be able to remember how he spent that time, but he will never forget that it was with him. Who to spend time with. For an optimistic person, no matter how much happiness he had in the past, it can only be put on the shelf as the years go by. He will only care about the present and the future; but for people like Baoyu who were once carefree and later fell into despair, those happiness and happiness It's the only thing in his life, how can he forget it?

Tragedy is that good things must eventually pass away. In "A Dream of Red Mansions", the ending of Daiyu and Baoyu has already been written, and all the tears have already started. From the beginning to the end, the fate is exhausted little by little, leaving only memories and regrets.

Those who still shed tears have finished their tears.

I don’t like to cry. If I had more choices, I would choose to read a story with a happy ending ten thousand times. Unfortunately, most of the stories that have been passed down over the years are tragedies. Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai, Jiao Zhongqing and Liu Lanzhi, Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu, he loved her and she loved him, but no matter how happy they were, they still couldn't be together.

Destiny is something that everyone has to face. Sometimes, it can be changed without hard work. In those days, when parents were above everything else, how many people were able to take control of their own marriages by being brave? Zhuo Wenjun, who boldly eloped, had a father who really loved her. Otherwise, she and Sima Xiangru would not have been able to wait for her to write "White Head Song". After being abandoned by their parents, Shen Fu and Yun Niang lived in poverty for the rest of their lives. Love is beautiful, only when you don't have to worry about life.

There are many kinds of rose vows. One represents wholeheartedness, two represents our survival, three represents deep love, five represents sincere appreciation, nine represents staying together, and ten represents our sincere love. The flowers are perfect, and eleven flowers last a lifetime. Nowadays, there are too few lifelong relationships, and a marriage of three to five or seven years is considered a long time. Moreover, we should be thankful that each other still has the right to choose. It is best to forget past agreements and past vows.

?It’s embarrassing, but? Fortunately, a rose is still a rose, a rose, no matter what name people call it, it is still a rose.