How does the daughter-in-law deal with the mother-in-law who pretends to be big in front of her poor relatives?

This kind of thing really happens a lot in our rural areas, because the relationship between rural people is relatively close, unlike in the city, they live their own lives behind closed doors, but in the countryside, everyone We live on the first floor and meet each other every day, so there are really more opportunities for comparison.

Let’s not talk about distant places, let’s talk about my father. Most of the time he is a friendly old man, but sometimes when he is with relatives, he always wants to compare with others. Give two examples!

Example 1!

Once, the cousin of the third uncle's family gave his used mobile phone to the third uncle. That was a few years ago. At that time, a mobile phone was still worth a lot of money, and then When my third uncle came to my house for dinner, he took out his mobile phone and told his father that it was a gift from his daughter.

After three glasses of wine, my father asked me if the mobile phone I was using now would be given to him in the future. I was stunned at first, but then I understood. I pretended to say yes, but in fact I spent 3 months’ salary to buy that phone. At that time, my salary was only 600, and I had only bought this phone for more than 3 months. But obviously my father didn't want to put me at a disadvantage, so I followed his words. Maybe my third uncle was laughing at my father in his heart.

Example 2!

Another time, I can no longer remember who my father and uncle were. By this time, it had been a few years, and the situation at home had improved a lot, and mobile phones were no longer a problem. I don’t know why a few old men started talking about belts and wallets again.

A friend happened to give me a wallet. It was less than 500 yuan, so I gave it to my father because I didn’t like carrying money in my pocket. These old men started talking about belts.

One said: I bought this at the market. They made it freshly and it is strong and durable.

One said: You can’t do that. Look at mine. It costs more than 100 yuan to buy it in the store.

My father’s belt was not very good, so for a moment, he felt that he was at a disadvantage and was a little angry. Then I thought about my wallet, took it out again, and pretended to ask me if it was 500 yuan. Alas, I really felt such a sentence at that time!

As long as I am not embarrassed, others will be embarrassed!

But what can I do? After all, he is his father, so he can only obey him!

After telling your story, come back to the topic. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has never been so easy to get along with. As a daughter-in-law, I think it is better to talk less. After all, your mother-in-law cannot always pretend in front of relatives. Just let her be happy for a while. Family harmony is the most important thing.

If you feel really sorry, you can say some kind and humble words in front of your relatives to reconcile!

Finally, I wish the subject a happy life and a happy family!