Speaking of which, many people may not like our start. When we met, he was not yet divorced. I gave in half-heartedly and became the third party. I still can’t remember exactly when and under what cir

Speaking of which, many people may not like our start. When we met, he was not yet divorced. I gave in half-heartedly and became the third party. I still can’t remember exactly when and under what circumstances I suddenly became such an embarrassing character. At that time, I was a small editor in a newspaper. It was difficult to survive. Everyone not only had to complete their own work, but also had to complete a certain number of advertising tasks. In order to survive, this is the only way, but after running for a long time, there is no trace. When I was feeling discouraged, a friend said that he had a friend named Xin Yuan who worked in an advertising agency and knew a lot of clients and could help introduce him... This matter was finally done, and Xin Yuan really did it. Helped. When I met him, it was a spring afternoon. He was waiting in a teahouse with my friend. He was wearing a light blue casual shirt and navy blue trousers. He looked about thirty years old. He was energetic, meticulous, and exuding a lovable personality. Elegant temperament. My friend made the introduction, but he didn’t make things difficult for me. He just joked that if this thing is done, you have to treat me to dinner! I nodded, of course! We talked a lot that day, Xin Yuan was very talkative, talking about everything in the world, heaven and earth, for a long time. Occasionally I would see him shaking his head, and I would laugh secretly. My friend said, Xin Yuan has seen a lot of things in the world, and if you listen to him talk more, you will learn more. I nodded. later? Later, I invited him to dinner as promised to express my gratitude; later, he began to send me flowers, one rose a day, and the boy from the express delivery company handed it to me in the envious eyes of my colleagues; and later, we watched movies and had supper together. Night is similar to all lovers. My feelings for him were accumulated little by little. At first, I didn’t have that kind of pounding heart. It was precisely because I accumulated them unconsciously. I didn’t know how deep and thick the feelings were. In the end, I couldn’t contain them. . When I found out he had a wife, I felt that this hateful life was just like a movie, boring and pretentious. And I am the most abominable third party who brazenly destroys marriages by taking advantage of my youth. We were eating that day, and he went to the bathroom in the middle of the day. His cell phone rang, so I answered it for him. There was a woman over there. She asked, where is Xin Yuan? I said, I went to the bathroom, what can I do? She smiled, nothing happened, she just wanted to ask him if he would come to see me off when I was leaving... I asked, who are you? I can tell him. She replied, I am his wife! You don't even know this, yet you dare to stay next to him, silly girl. Then she hung up. I think I was dizzy at that time, and I left the restaurant with a worried look on my face. After a long, long walk, I walked back to my residence. Xin Yuan, he was already waiting there. He hugged me, who was almost numb, and said, "We are getting divorced and she is going abroad. I originally wanted to tell you after everything is over. I don't want you to feel pressure or anything else." Thoughts... However, no matter what, I played an less honorable role in it, whether intentionally or unintentionally. But, no matter what, I still love him. Just like that, after Xin Yuan's divorce, we lived together and got married a year later. He said that marriage was the biggest commitment he could make to me. I thought happily that this is the most beautiful love word in the world, and every shadow will be washed away cleanly. I was immersed in the happy imagination created by two people. Although there are not many people in this small newspaper office, rumors and rumors are always floating in the air. I know that there are always people pointing fingers behind my back, and I also understand that the not-so-glorious beginning left people with something to talk about. Having lunch together, they said with a smile that people's destinies are really different. Look at Xiao Zhao, how well she marries. Sisters should learn from her! But I clearly heard another version in the bathroom: It doesn't matter if you marry well, you are not a third party, the man is still married for the second time, and others have eaten it! I feel like vomiting. Xin Yuan saw that I was depressed and asked what was wrong. I tried to hide it by saying that I was troubled by work matters. He took the opportunity and said, why don't you quit, I will support you. I turned over, what did I do when I came back? Seeing an opportunity, he hurriedly said, "You can do a lot of things. You can learn to cook, meet friends and have fun. In short, don't work hard." I thought about it for a long time and didn't know how to make a decision."I got angry when I heard that. I remember I replied to her: "Do you know that you are not qualified to teach me a lesson? If you have the ability, show your own husband! "Under the impulse, everyone lost control. She wanted to go to the leader of our company. He couldn't stop her, so she had to let her go. The fact is that our company is not a state-run institution or a school. In your company, who cares about your personal life? Our boss only cares about our monthly performance, and they don’t care about anything else. However, because of her quarrel, I had no choice but to leave the company. , we vowed together: We must live together in this life. At that time, I felt that he found such a woman, how outdated, overbearing, and ridiculous. We wanted to live a life of quality and love together, and let him make mistakes when he was young. He was called back to Shanghai by the company, and I also found a job in Shanghai. In the meantime, I changed my mobile phone number, left my parents' home, and rented a house by myself, just to be afraid of his wife. But to be honest, if she really didn't come to me, I would feel despised. Because of love, and even more because of my arrogance, I vowed to snatch this man away and get pregnant. In the face of his panic, I insisted on giving birth to the child. When I was 3 months pregnant, he finally had a showdown with his wife. If she wanted to go against us, she could not agree to the divorce. Yes, you can deliberately make things difficult for us. She didn't do that. A woman probably starts to calm down when she is desperate.