Boys and girls are rejected, boys don't go to girls, girls are very sad, what psychology?

Mental derangement (*` ω? *)v, you refuse the boy's love, but you still want him to lick you like a dog. I don't know if he is a dog, but you are a dog. You owe it!

It's normal for a woman in love to struggle a little. A girl's mind is not sung in a song, so don't guess, guess and guess, you don't understand. A woman's heart is a needle in the sea.

Boys, on the other hand, are not diligent enough and generous enough. Don't you know how to do it repeatedly? Liu Bei invited Zhuge Liang, and you are still watching the shanzhai. The key to chasing girls is to chase, give everything and persevere. Even, be thick-skinned enough.

There are many good things, and no one will succeed casually.

It's a pity to eat tasteless and abandon it!

The boy's confession to the girl was rejected, and the boy gave up the pursuit. I think this boy has a great personality. When he pursued his confession to the girl he liked, the girl refused, feeling hurt and giving up the pursuit. This is related to the fact that many boys never give up and continue to pursue girls after being rejected, and some girls have to agree. On the contrary, boys give up their pursuit after being rejected by girls, which makes the chased girls feel very uncomfortable. She thinks that the boy won his first chase and rejected him, which shows that he is a confident beauty and will continue to pursue her like other boys. As a result, she was disappointed. Because she also likes the boy who is chasing her, she has to put down her face and take the initiative to see that boy. After the heart-to-heart, both boys and girls gave up. Therefore, when boys and girls are in love, they must have ambition and bottom line in order to find sincere love.

That man did the right thing, but you pretended.

In fact, most girls will be very happy when they face a boy's confession, because some people will be happier if they like themselves, and they will definitely feel that this is a manifestation of their charm.

Even if he doesn't like this boy, he will feel beautiful in his heart. Some girls will enjoy this process and often enjoy it.

1. Female reserve.

Generally, when a boy confesses to a girl, if the girl also likes a boy, she refuses the boy's confession to her.

Maybe it is the girl's reserved performance. Generally, girls often have such a heart, and some things that are too easy to get are often cherished by some boys.

So in the face of this situation, they tend to be a little reserved, and will not choose to accept this boy immediately, but will slowly accept her test in the future.

However, the average boy will think that this girl doesn't like himself after his confession is rejected.

So I won't continue to work hard. Girls may feel sad to see such a man who is not so persistent in feelings.

Because she had a good impression on this man, she just wanted to test it again, but she didn't expect to give up so soon, so she was very sad.

There are many such girls in life. When a boy confesses to them, even if they don't like it, even if they refuse.

But she still wants to continue your kindness to her. They like to be pursued by men. I hope you continue to like her. Now you suddenly have a big gap in their hearts because of the failure of confession, and they can't accept it at once, so they are very sad.

I've seen something similar. A female friend of mine has a male friend who plays very well. She always regards each other as male girlfriends or "buddies" who have everything to say. Later he confessed to her, and she was surprised. She didn't expect the other person to like her and hesitated to answer.

As for love, she didn't reach her favorite level and always thought that she would be a lifelong friend. She knows this very well.

On friendship, she was worried that it would be a pity if her friends could not do it after rejection.

After thinking about it for a day, she turned him down. Then it is true that the two people are gradually estranged, perhaps for fear of embarrassment.

Back to your question.

I think you should first recognize your own ideas, that is to say, do you have a good impression on this boy? I mean, is it possible to develop in the direction of lovers

If you just regret a friend who was kind to you and then can't adapt to his disappearance, I suggest you refer to the woman I mentioned above. Is to simply, decisively, don't break the bond.

If you find that you might like him after he leaves, you can actually contact him. If he decides to leave you, it also proves that he doesn't like you very much.

There is no certain way to do emotional things. The above personal views are for your reference.

Guilt, because she doesn't want to accept this fact, so she feels guilty.

At least three questions need to be clarified:

First, why refuse? Not ready? Not satisfied? No feeling? Or does the heart belong, and there is no room for others?

Second, how did you refuse? Vague? Very decisive? Or irony? Or pretend to be calm?

Third, boys don't look for girls, and girls are sad. So what do you want to do? Find someone else? Keep waiting? Go after it?

Therefore, this problem is still complicated and varies from person to person. Judging from the topic, this girl doesn't like boys very much. As for sadness, it is more because of loss of security (spare tire). For example, if you don't like a job very much, you may not sign a long-term contract, but if you lose your job immediately, you may be very sad.

Maybe she values this friendship.