White Lie Prose

White Lie Prose White Lie Prose 1

When I first saw this boy, I knew he was extremely smart. His eyes are as small as peas but as bright as stars in the sky. Without saying a word, he was able to accurately follow the instructions and make all preparations after joining the shift. His class schedule is also designed to be both beautiful and innovative.

He is a later transfer student, so I pay more attention to him. But he was really embarrassing. In addition to not being talkative, he always lowers his head and often wanders away from class during class, often playing with small toys, small stationery and even small pieces of paper in his hands. Reminding him multiple times every class still didn't help. After a few days, I realized that this child was definitely not just a bad habit. what to do? The "cause" must be found.

That day, after intercourse, I took his hand and walked to the flower bed, preparing to have a long talk with him. The conversation didn't go smoothly. He was an uncooperative little guy. Even after being enlightened for a long time, he just stared and said nothing. I pretended to be angry and said: "If you continue to ignore me, your mother will be called. Do you have to ask your parents to accompany the teacher when talking to you?" He started to raise his head and look at me, then he frowned and whispered He said, "Stop looking for mom, it's useless to look for her." "What?" I quickly asked, "Mom, doesn't he care about you?" He lowered his head again, rubbed the corners of his clothes with both hands, and then muttered: " My mother said I have ADHD and there is no way to save it.” I couldn’t help but realize that this was probably the crux of the problem. I had seen many educational cases like this, where children were blocked from the door to self-confidence by a long-term psychological suggestion.

"Have your mother taken you to see a doctor? Is there a medical certificate?"

"Yes, the doctor said, it's a bit like, what is the medical certificate?"

"A medical certificate is a certificate that confirms that you are indeed sick."

"Oh, I didn't see that. But mom and dad always sigh, so I think there must be something wrong with me."

"Okay, the teacher will contact your mother now. I want to confirm whether you are really sick."

He frowned, with a hint of pleading in his eyes. Obviously, he didn't want me to contact my parents. You can guess that he had been "contacted" a lot in the past.

"Don't worry," I touched his head, "I won't tell my mother that you made a mistake." So, he doubtfully gave me his parents' phone number. After making the call, I deliberately asked him to go to the office to pick up something for me, and then chatted with his mother about the child's problem. On the other end of the phone, the parent sighed before I could finish my words: "Oh... this child is hopeless. He is like this wherever he goes, but he just doesn't listen to the class well. There is probably something wrong..." I interrupted her. : "Do you hope that your child will have ADHD?" "Of course not, teacher, who doesn't want their child to be well." She said nonchalantly.

I said: "That's right, no mother wants her child to get sick. But now you have turned him into a patient with your attitude. ADHD needs to be diagnosed. Has the doctor confirmed it? "That's not true. The doctor said that many naughty children also have ADHD symptoms and cannot be diagnosed. But I think he has ADHD, but I didn't tell the child that he has ADHD." This confused mother made me sigh. In fact, there are many such parents in life, including myself, who often say things that they don’t mean and commit educational taboos without even realizing it. We never want to guide our children with bad psychology, but our words, deeds, and actions often bring negative psychological implications to our children. These hints are often better than violent corporal punishment. They are like invisible cold rain and wind, causing the originally fresh life to slowly wither. The lively and bright child is already worried about his own health. What else can he do. In addition to passively resisting the teacher's reminders and accusations, I can only feel sad secretly. It is a child's nature to be naughty and active. Not many children suffer from substantial ADHD, and more of the crux lies in their hearts. Thinking that you are "sick" and "incurable", you don't have to bother and make corrections. Therefore, if you let it go, your "sickness" will become more serious.

If this continues, you will become sick even if you are not sick, and no prescription will help. On the contrary, even if there is a disease, we can reduce the big problem to the small one and ignore the small ones, so that he can re-establish the courage and confidence to overcome the problem. Sometimes, psychological therapy is better than any panacea.

When the conversation between me and my parents was coming to an end, he came back, holding the notebook I asked him to take, looking at me from a distance, observing my expression. He must be feeling guilty and afraid that I will "complain" to his mother or give him some serious and thoughtful teachings with a sympathetic face. I turned off the phone, waved to him, and then, looking into his eyes, I said meticulously: "There is indeed a diagnosis for your disease, but the diagnosis has been delayed. Your mother just got it back. The diagnosis proves that you do not have ADHD." His eyes suddenly lit up, then he frowned and lowered his head. I knew he had doubts in his heart, but his doubts would be dispelled immediately. Because I told his mother to really find a way to give him a "diagnosis." "Now," I said, "I give you this diary. Just write on the title page of this diary, 'I am a healthy child. From today on, I will concentrate on every lesson.'" He He nodded, a little embarrassed, but there was a smile in the corner of his eyes.

When he strode back to class, I suddenly felt a little heavy. Education is really not simple. Every word, every look and even every small movement of an adult may bring something to the child. a hint. According to Greek legend, Pyromeon transformed a statue into a beautiful and living life with love and hope. And can we use a positive and optimistic attitude to infect and inspire the hearts of every child every day? Love is both simple and complex. Love is simple to say but complex to do.

A white lie may help children heal their inner shadows and rebuild their self-confidence, but it takes a lot of hard work to correct a psychological and behavioral habit that is deeply ingrained due to bad suggestions. Whether that smart boy can overcome his inattention requires not only a positive attitude but also strong endurance. What about us? Aren't adults who think they are superior always surrounded by some dark emotions, unable to get out of themselves and some subjective psychological misunderstandings? What life is like does not depend on our eyes but on our hearts. When your ideology and perspective of looking at problems change, everything changes accordingly.

The little girl who voiced the protagonist of the famous cartoon "Doraemon" was once depressed and even refused to interact with others because of her hoarse voice. But when she happened to be selected by a cartoonist and actively participated in dubbing work, she discovered that the fixed natural "flaw" was actually her greatest advantage. When life is in trouble, change a window and look into the distance, maybe you will gain infinite scenery. I prayed for that boy and told myself that no matter what, I should try to make my life and the life of others full of hope. White Lie Prose 2

Okay, why did you go to Beijing all of a sudden?

In the summer of 20xx, there were two things that made me particularly unforgettable: First, the flood that covered half of the city , the second is that my mother suddenly left immediately.

That morning, the company held a mid-year summary meeting. As the administrative secretary, I was taking minutes of the meeting. The phone suddenly rang, showing the area code of Beijing. I didn’t know anyone in Beijing, so I thought it was just an ordinary harassing call, so I pressed it.

Mom, why did you go to Beijing?

Yes. I plan to stay in Beijing for a few years to realize my youthful dream.

I was stunned. Mom, you are already 60 years old, and now your dream is to live a long life and have grandchildren!

I have passed the physical examination and everything is in good health. If I don’t pursue my dream now, will I have to wait until I am 70 or 80?

My mother is the head nurse of the hospital in my hometown town and is somewhat famous. After retiring in 20xx, she was re-employed by the hospital. If her father hadn't suddenly fallen ill, she might still be working in the town hospital.

After my father passed away after suffering from lung cancer for more than two years, my mother has been staying at my house to help Li Zheng and I take care of our daughter.

In retrospect, my mother’s trip to Beijing was a sign. After her daughter entered kindergarten, her mother began to say that she liked helping others in the hospital. When she was young, she especially wanted to go to Beijing, watch Peking Opera, practice calligraphy, and live in an old courtyard house.

At that time, I didn’t take my mother’s words to heart. Is Beijing such a troubled place? When I first graduated, I also wanted to go to Beijing. Who would not want to go to big cities like Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou to study design? But after two months of living there, I knew that living there was not easy, there were many talented people, and the housing prices were extremely high. Not everyone who loves design can become Chen Youjian. So I obediently returned to my hometown. Fortunately, I found a position with good pay in a state-owned enterprise, with easy tasks and good benefits.

At the class reunion, those living in big cities were very envious of my current living situation. In fact, my husband and I are no better off than others. One is an administrative secretary in a public institution, and the other is a project leader in a real estate company. Our income is just enough to live a less impoverished life, just enough to buy a small duplex in Wucheng District. . I am not very satisfied with my current life, but, just like the joke on Weibo, China's high housing prices have destroyed young people's love and imagination. Young people become middle-aged as soon as they graduate from college, and they have to plan carefully for daily necessities. The life of our generation has been material and worldly from the beginning. Without materialism and sophistication, what else could we do?

So, if my 60-year-old mother goes to Beijing for a long-term trip, can I still accept it? For a dream? It's crazy!

Is it really just to be a doctor?

I asked for annual leave from my work and was going to pick up my mother. When I found my mother in Beijing, she was taking care of the elderly in a community service center. Wearing a white coat, he looked particularly energetic. Mom, how could you come here without saying hello? I asked in a questioning tone.

Being a doctor is my dream. My mother didn't mind my attitude at all. She answered me like a child, "Don't worry, I work very well here. Besides, now that the baby has grown up, you can take care of it by yourself. I will stay." There’s nothing to do there.”

At this time, I felt that my mother was really a bit unreasonable - being a doctor can be done at home, so why do you have to come so far. place? It’s not like we can’t realize this dream at home. Also, a super metropolis like Beijing is not a heavyweight at all compared to our hometown. You are so old, can you bear it?

Our hometown? That place is too small. Beijing is so nice. Everything is the best in China! My mother completely ignored my attitude and continued to say haha, and besides, I am in good health now.

I can’t persuade my mother, so I can only wait for her to get off work and then slowly persuade her. After having dinner together, I wanted to see where my mother lived. Mom seemed a little reluctant, but she didn't refuse. It turned out that the so-called residence of my mother was actually a narrow and crowded rental house with just enough room for a small bed. But that's it, my mother is very satisfied. Every once in a while, she would decorate the house with things she found everywhere.

Since you are here, great designer, please help my mother redesign the house. Mom winked at me as if joking.

The word "designer" makes me very embarrassed. That is a very distant dream. Although it is exciting to think about it, in small cities of the fourth and fifth tiers, no one will appreciate your design at all. Most people like to give themselves a copycat version or a low-end application version according to the luxurious home decoration of the local richest and second richest people. I lived with my mother in this corner of Beijing for a week.

That week made me feel as if it was the first time in my life that I had such close contact with a real and touching mother.

Although this mother's life is materially lacking and the conditions are not good, her spirit is positive and she can always turn misery into happiness. Her life is not at all like the depressing and pale life in the legendary big city.

In addition to going to work, my mother goes to Beihai Park to climb mountains and do Tai Chi whenever she has free time. On weekends, she goes to the National Library, reads and makes friends, and often gets red-faced with others over a certain article; she also She regularly goes to the nearby elderly activity room to practice calligraphy and watch others perform Peking Opera; sometimes, she even shuttles through the 798 Art District where young people gather. Those wonderful creative mothers obviously don’t understand much, but they fascinate me. I almost couldn't find my way out.

In the end, I failed to bring my mother home. But since then, I have always felt that my mother went to Beijing not just to be a doctor. She lived so happily, really like a young person who had realized her dream.

It turns out that you have been silently setting an example

After returning from Beijing, my daughter always chased me and asked me where my grandma was. The strange thing is that at this time, I would involuntarily raise my voice and tell her with a little pride that your grandma is a great doctor in Beijing.

Of course my daughter is proud to have such a grandma, and she always tells everyone that her grandma is in Beijing.

I was worried that my mother would not have a good time in Beijing during the Mid-Autumn Festival last year. Does she still live in that cramped little room? My husband saw that I missed my mother very much, so he suggested that the whole family go to Beijing to celebrate the Mid-Autumn Festival. Of course, the main purpose is to see my mother.

When I saw my mother this time, her mental state was even better than the last time. She has moved out of that small rental house and lives in an old yard. Of course it's not a courtyard house. Nowadays, only the rich can live in a courtyard house in Beijing. But the old courtyard is also good, with many rooms and several elderly families in the courtyard. In my mother's house, there are all the necessary furniture, and there is a large bookcase by the window, which is filled with all kinds of literary books and magazines that she likes to read.

I opened a book at random and found that there were many words written densely in the blank spaces of the header and footer. At first glance, I thought they were reading notes, but when I got closer, I saw clearly that these were my mother’s casual diaries:

On July 24, I never told my daughter that the home was well decorated. It's beautiful, but no one there appreciates her design.

On August 12, my daughter now has to accompany her boss to socialize every day. She comes back very late and is still haggard. Hey, I still remember that she had so many vowed dreams before, have she forgotten them all?

On August 14th, my son-in-law Li Zheng secretly told me today that he wanted to open a company in Beijing... But his daughter always hit him, saying that now you can be a manager and earn a stable income. If you fail, you have nothing. It turns out that you don’t have dreams, but you all lack the courage to change.

On August 16, my granddaughter grew up and went to school, and I also had some free time. Suddenly I remembered my daughter’s youthful and energetic spirit when she was in school.

On August 17, the second day after arriving in Beijing, I found a job in a community service center. It would be great if I could live in a courtyard. September 10th, I went to see the 798 exhibition today. The designs they made are really beautiful. It’s a pity that my daughter was not here, otherwise she would definitely like it here.

On September 28, it was said that the high housing prices in Beijing killed the dreams of those born in the 1980s. I think housing prices are indeed high, but there are also many opportunities for success. Today's young people can be braver.

On November 23, the winter in Beijing is harsh, dry and cold, but luckily there is heating. I watched the design exhibition again today. Many of the works were similar to what my daughter had done before. It would be great if my daughter could come to participate. Didn’t she dream of winning some award before?

On December 1, Jinhua is too young to have too many big dreams. I hope my daughter can understand this truth.

Life is short, and my mother’s diary is very long, but in these records, I can clearly see my own reflection. In front of my mother, my life is so sophisticated and compromising, and I am happy with the situation. .

My mother loves her career as a nurse, and no matter how long the gap is, she will still return to this position; my mother loved Beijing when she was young, and she still remembered it until she was 60 years old, so she just went there. Mom is not fulfilling her dream, she is setting an example for me.

The most unbearable thing in the world

Looking back on my experiences over the years, it is not that I have never had the dream of conquering mountains and rivers. When I was studying, I also determined to make a great design. Division, but once I encountered frustration and pressure in a big city, and faced with the reality of daily necessities, I immediately announced that I would abandon the city and surrender.

Then throw your dreams aside, make do with yourself and your life, do a job that you don’t like at all, learn to flatter and deal with people, greet people with a smile all day long, and keep going. Climbing up and down, until I finally got through it, my dream was almost flattened and turned into a past event that I least want to mention.

So, my mother is right, the most uncompromising thing in the world is to realize your dream.

A week later, Li Zheng and I finally plucked up the courage to resign and sell our house, and came to Beijing with the money.

Our design company is very small. I am the designer and Li Zheng is the general manager, but... we almost complete this series of things at one go.

Beijing’s temperate monsoon climate will send us a burst of dust from time to time. At this time, the air is hazy, and all the high-rise buildings that are usually arrogant and domineering are annihilated. No one is exception.

In the face of life, even if some of us are humble and ordinary, and some of us are great and brave, we still have the same right to dream. No matter how difficult life is, there will always be a day when the wind blows away.

Although Li Zheng and I were mentally prepared, we never expected that the early days of starting a business would be so difficult. Financial constraints are the most real problem. If my mother hadn't contributed all her pension and salary to us, we wouldn't even be able to pay the rent. In order to save money, we not only have to be managers but also go out in person to run orders and do publicity, which often makes us feel confused. But every time we come home, we see a table of steaming dishes prepared by our mother, and we laugh with our daughter. Sitting next to him, all the hard work and fatigue disappeared.

After a year of busy work and hard work, I made a calculation and found that my income and expenses were evenly matched and there was still a slight balance. But this already makes us satisfied, because during this difficult process, all the running is no longer a compromise to the dream, but a commitment to stick to it.

When we entered the second year and prepared for the third year, my mother said that as long as you persist, your mother will always be with you. And what I thought was, since I didn’t bring my mother home, I would stay in Beijing with her. Then we will complete a gorgeous counterattack together. In the wind and sand of Beijing, we will also make this dream and show it to our children. White Lie Essay 3

Lies are usually very bad, and lying is even more of a bad behavior.

For the sake of your own vanity, you make up a lot of things that you don’t have; you want to get something and get it through lies; you use lies to cover up after doing something wrong... these , you will eventually pay the price and reap the consequences.

In the past, I hated lying, but later I found that it was very difficult to avoid lying at all.

In fact, there is a kind of lie that is kind, and white lies are beautiful.

In white lies, there is encouragement. I have heard of such an example: It is obvious that a student is not doing well in all aspects, but his parents seem to turn a blind eye. They always think that he is excellent in some aspects and encourage him to keep improving. The result is even better than before, which is much better than his own. The academic master. White lies inspire children to surpass themselves and change their future. Under the teacher's "prophecy", the originally lazy students became hardworking, sensible and studious, and later became outstanding talents in various positions. Years from now, children will take this gift of lies to heart.

There is comfort in white lies.

A terminally ill patient in the hospital, with the concealment of his family and the comfort of the doctor, exceeded the doctor's expectation and even miraculously recovered!

In the white lie, there is dedication. I just saw a piece of news today about a retired man in Wuxi who has donated money anonymously for 27 years. This respectable old man named Zhang Jiqing has donated tens of thousands of yuan to nursing homes, primary schools, and earthquake-stricken areas in the name of "Yanhuang" and "Huang Yanmin" over the years. The day before yesterday, he suddenly remitted the donation in the business hall of the Postal Savings Bank. The cerebral infarction was discovered only after he was sent to the hospital. He is indifferent to fame and wealth, does not ask for anything in return, has always concealed his real name, and silently contributed to society. How noble is this lie!

White lies are the driving force of our beliefs. It ignites the fire of hope in our hearts and feels the love and touch of the world! White Lie Prose 4

One day at the dinner table, my friend’s phone rang. He looked at it and made a quiet gesture. It turned out that the busy dinner table became quiet. Everyone understood that his wife was on duty. My friend answered the phone and said, "I'm at a colleague's house."

As soon as he hung up, the friend sitting next to me said, "From now on, if you call my husband, it seems you can't believe anything he says. "Yeah." Another friend also echoed: "That's right, can't you be more open-minded?" "It's just a meal with a few friends, so it's like being a thief."...

Such a scene reminds me of a joke: a single man shared a house with a friend of the opposite sex. When he called his girlfriend, his friend who shared the house just said: My express delivery. Her girlfriend asked why there was a girl's voice, and he lied and said he was watching TV. But after a while, his friend who shared the house said again: My express delivery. This time he was even more outrageous: Alas! Why do the recent TV commercials keep replaying!

My friends burst into laughter, how come people nowadays are all lying and become spermatozoa?

The dinner table that had been quiet for a while became lively again, but the friend who had just hung up the phone said with deep emotion, "Oh! There is no way, women like to think too much, and some things are normal and simple. Yes, but if she thinks too much and then asks this and that, she can’t explain it even if it makes sense. It’s better to tell some harmless lies, which can be regarded as white lies. This is better for everyone, And it can save a lot of unnecessary trouble. "

My friend is right, yes, life is short, and it would be too tiring for a husband and wife to have to explain everything for a long time. If the suspicion is serious, it may even make the other person suspicious and hesitant all day long. It is better to tell some white lies, so that others don't have to think too much, and they won't worry about it over and over again in suspicion, just like a person. Inadvertently, there was some small gap between the husband and wife, so I didn’t have to waste too much time talking about it, it was simple and hassle-free. Of course, the premise is that the lie must be in good faith.

Human beings are inherently good in nature, although lies are everywhere in life. But lies can also be divided into good and evil. Lies that are intended to achieve certain malicious actions are malicious, and lies that are intended to achieve some good intentions are well-intentioned. If white lies can be used well, then lies are also beautiful, and life will change accordingly. These lies are even better!

In life, you need some white lies.

When my little baby first went to kindergarten, I often asked her to recite some poems to me. Sometimes, even though her recitation was not particularly good, I always pretended to listen carefully. When she finished reciting, I She happily said to her, "Wow, my baby is great! She can recite poetry, and it sounds very nice. I will recite it to my mother often in the future, okay?" In this way, day after day, her recitation ability is very good. Although she is illiterate, she can recite a whole book. Why should I feel guilty? Later, the little baby started to learn to dance. At the beginning, she didn’t dare to dance very much, and her movements were a bit stiff, but when she occasionally danced for me to see, I would happily say, “Oh! It turns out that the baby dances so beautifully! Why don’t you dance to show your mother?” Slowly, she never dared to dance, but was not very skilled in dancing, and finally she could perform it naturally. It seems that white lies and encouragement can also stimulate children's potential.

Baby, under the white lies I carefully weave, I continue to make progress and grow up happily.

At work, sometimes white lies are needed.

When I first started working in this company, my leader often said to me, "You have done a good job and I hope you will keep up the good work!" Although it was a very simple sentence, I felt recognized by the leader. , so I work harder and more actively, striving to do my best work in order to repay the leader for his kindness. Later, after working for a long time, I realized that leaders often tell newcomers such white lies to stimulate their ambition and make them work harder.

At work, under the white lies carefully woven by the leaders, colleagues are positive and everyone is trying to do their own job well. In such a working environment, everyone works better Be motivated and feel fulfilled and happy at work!

Since childhood, the story of the boy who cried wolf has told us to be a good honest boy. Integrity is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. We also advocate honesty, but there are many things in life, such as Telling a small, harmless white lie will make life more harmonious and better!