"My man will die in my arms." How ruthless is a woman who is betrayed?

I have watched a Japanese movie about extramarital love, "Hiugao". It tells the story of two men and women who have their own families falling in love. The love between them is very pure, not for fame or profit, but just admiration for each other, giving people a feeling of love.

Later, both families knew that their endings were different. The woman was divorced by her husband, and she moved to a small town where no one knew her, and began to live alone there. The man was forgiven by his wife, but she asked him not to see this woman again.

The days passed peacefully like this, but fate was so strange. By chance, the man came to the town where the woman lived to give a speech, and the two met again. Because they still loved each other in their hearts, but had to abide by the promise of "not meeting each other again", the two didn't know what to do. In the end, they accompanied each other in silence, without talking or communicating, holding hands or hugging.

After persisting for a while, the two finally got together. Perhaps desire was too tempting, or perhaps it was because they truly loved each other.

The man's abnormality of leaving early and coming back late aroused the suspicion of his first wife. In the end, his private date between them was discovered by his original wife. The first wife also cried and made trouble, but she could not retain a man whose heart was no longer with her.

The man had even moved his luggage to the woman's home, and the two began living together, waiting for the man's first wife to agree to divorce.

The first wife loved her husband deeply in her heart. She tried her best to save the relationship, even deliberately breaking her leg, hoping to keep her husband.

But it didn’t succeed in the end. The man insisted on getting a divorce and even bought a wedding ring for the woman. The first wife compromised at the last moment. Since she doesn't love her anymore, let's just leave. But she said, since you are leaving, I will send you to that woman for the last time.

The man tried his best to stop her at first, but he couldn't resist his original wife's stubbornness, so he had to get in her original wife's car and let her drive him to find his beloved.

Along the way, the first wife's emotions suddenly broke out. She kept asking the man: Why do you love her? What's so good about her? The man didn't answer. After all, how should he say this to his first wife? No matter what he said, she would be extremely sad.

But the first wife didn’t give up and kept asking. In the end, the man had no choice but to hesitate and say: I just love her.

At that moment, the first wife lost control. She said: I thought I had forgiven you. But in fact, it is not true at all. After so many days, I still cannot truly forgive and accept it. She lost control of her whole body, the car also lost control, and then there was a car accident.

At this time, the woman was in that small town, dressed in costumes, waiting for her lover to arrive. The next day they could register their marriage and wear the wedding ring given to them by the man.

But she did not wait for this day. What she waited for was the sad news of the man's death. This bad news was told to her by the man's first wife on crutches. The first wife said: If I win, even if I die, this man will die in my arms.

When the movie was first aired, many people questioned why such an ending was arranged. Is it to tell us that extramarital love will never have a good ending? Why can't the first wife let go, make the couple happy, and then find the next man who truly loves her?

Many people say that this first wife is too vicious! It really corresponds to the saying "the most poisonous heart of women".

Indeed, the first wife really should not use death to punish her husband for this wrong behavior, but except for the first wife herself, who can understand the pain in her heart, the pain of being lost, of having everything taken away? The pain of love is the pain of having to accept the cruel reality.

There is nothing wrong with love itself. Love is a pure feeling. When we fall in love with someone, we may not be able to control our feelings and emotions.

But then again, humans are not like animals. They only have desires without rationality. Humans are moral animals. People live in this world not only for themselves, but they should have a bottom line.

If the happiness of two people is based on the pain of another person, it can only be said that such love is not blessed, not blessed by the people around it, or even blessed by the world. The pressure, risks, consequences, everything needs to be borne by these two people themselves.

Because the moment you fall in love, you step on stilts. Two people fall in love on stilts. You work hard to maintain this love, but the stilts themselves are a danger and a risk. And this risk may be a lifetime thing.

However, some risks come earlier, such as the couple in the movie. The danger came due to the explosion of the man's first wife.

Some risks come later, such as the love affair between the famous writer Qiong Yao and the president of Crown Magazine Ping Xintao. Until the age of 80, you still have to bear the punishment of wrong love.

Years ago, after Qiong Yao’s work was submitted to Crown Magazine, the two developed a secret love. At that time, Ping Xintao had his first wife. Later, the appearance of Qiong Yao caused Ping Xintao's dull marriage to make waves. The two persisted for many years before the original wife compromised and divorced.

I thought I had finally won true love, but the price for Qiong Yao was also high. Throughout her life, she was ridiculed for being "an emotional master who couldn't handle her own marriage problems", "poaching others' corners" and so on.

Qiong Yao is 81 years old, Ping Xintao has passed away due to illness, and Qiong Yao is not living a good life. Last year, Ping Xintao's first wife Lin Wanzhen published a book called "The Past", which tells the story of the various grievances between the three of them.

After decades, Lin Wanzhen still can’t let go of Qiong Yao’s brutal fight for her love back then. She still feels grudges about it and made all the things Qiong Yao did back then public, so that everyone can see Qiong Yao’s jokes.

Qiong Yao, who has written so many romance novels, never imagined that in her 80s, she would be torn apart by a man's first wife, but she had no choice but to accept it.

The love debt owed back then is now being repaid little by little. No one can escape, God is fair. Never underestimate the harm an extramarital affair can do to your original spouse. The moment you fall in love, the harm to your original spouse has already begun.

Love outside marriage, no matter how beautiful it is, is like fireworks. It will always come to an end. Even if two people finally enter the palace of marriage after going through all kinds of hardships, there are still many difficulties and obstacles to face. Yes, there is no escape from life's misfortune, or maybe the lover will change his heart again, or maybe he will find that the person in front of him also has various flaws.

The moment you fall in love, the whole world is captivated. But after falling in love, that is the truth of life.

It is too easy to love someone, but it is too difficult to stay with them for a lifetime.

While we enjoy the beauty of being in love, we should also accept the true and cruel face of marriage. I hope that after you see through the true face of marriage, you will still love such a trivial life and your lover, and this life will be enough.