Several games in parent training camp

Game 1: 1, two partners, representing children and parents. When the child squatted down, the parents rested their hands on their hips and pointed their left hand at the child's nose to criticize and abuse. Besides not doing it, your language can be vicious. 2. The instructor performed some emotional rendering on the stage, and the parents were trained by the leaders in the unit. The work was not smooth and it was difficult to make money. Then I received a phone call from the school teacher complaining that the child had not finished his homework and asked the parents to go to school for an interview. I came home in a rage and saw my children playing games at home, laughing and laughing, and then you finally couldn't help it …

The music sounded, the lights were dim, and the hall was immersed in a complex, noisy, screaming and crazy atmosphere. I squatted on the ground when I was a child ~

Staring at the crazy father who plays the parent in front of him, he can't see anything and can't hear clearly. I only see a ferocious face and a red face. At that moment, I was closed, looking at the strange world like a joke, and unconsciously thinking that you were not crazy even to gloat.

Role exchange: when parents, their right hands rested on their hips, abusing children squatting on the ground, suddenly there was a feeling of turning over serfs and singing. Finally, your boy fell into my hands ... I have vicious language and rich body language, and I point my finger at the forehead of a child squatting on the ground from time to time. At that moment, I seemed to vent all my bad feelings and grievances in my daily life. As the saying goes, I don't know where the fire comes from, and I don't know where the anger comes from. I was just angry ...

So what are the benefits of beating and scolding children for themselves (parents)?

First, we can pass the buck.

Second, you can vent your emotions.

The third is to satisfy your desire for control.

Through these three benefits, you can finally satisfy your (parents') lack of security and your own ability.

Ah, parents, you think you are famous for disciplining your children. In fact, in the eyes of our children, we have long understood that you are venting your personal anger!

This process is the process of frequency modulation and understanding!

Here the teacher talked about the concepts of horizon, horizon gap and horizon co-frequency.

The so-called horizon is the field where a person looks at things from his own perspective.

The gap between horizons is the gap between two people's horizons.

Co-frequency vision is a process of filling the gap with understanding and modulating frequency with sincerity.

The teacher said that the core purpose of communication is not to prove who is right or wrong, but to bridge the gap between horizons and make the two horizons merge. This is the fusion of horizons, and ultimately achieve * * * win, no matter how good you are!

The golden sentence of communication:

1. When you agree with the other person's point of view: You are right, I still have …

2. When you disagree with the other person's point of view: You are right. In your opinion, it is. Do you think it makes sense for me to understand this …