What should my wife do if she finds out about my private money?

It is normal for couples, both men and women, to have private money. What can you do if the other party finds out? Make your own money and have the right to spend it aboveboard.

Husband and wife are economic communities, but they are also independent individuals, so we should give each other space. Nowadays, people are economically independent and have autonomy. The purpose of men and women to make money is to run this family well, but to take care of their families in the general direction and spend money to enjoy the fun of making money.

If you take each other's private money seriously, you might as well find a way to make money yourself.

Both men and women are a little narrow-minded In fact, as long as they don't spend money indiscriminately, I think it's not impossible to have some private money.

Actually, there is no need to make a fuss about saving money. I think almost 99% of people are saving money, and that person has no chance to be rich.

Take an analogy with a child watching cartoons. We don't let children watch cartoons because we think it's bad for his eyes and affects his study. In short, we will find many reasons to stop it. However, we also know that what we get is the child's incomprehension and unwillingness. Therefore, instead of shielding, it is better to talk to the children and watch them. If you don't save time, you can't watch them. After such management, children can accept our opinions more than before. Saving private money is the same as watching cartoons by children.

It is better to turn a blind eye than to curse your husband or wife. Don't you know what your lover is like? Just like flying a kite. No matter how far the kite flies, the last thread is in your hand, and it will still come back.

I think that the spouse's saving money is nothing more than to have more money on hand and to show more face in front of others. If the money is too strict, then the spouse is too shabby, isn't it also the person who lost us?

That's what I did when I said this. My wife has private money in her hand. I know, he didn't avoid me or tell me, but I never cared about money. I know him, and he knows me. That's enough.

Women also save money to buy new clothes and cosmetics for themselves. Men may also save money to invite friends to dinner, earn face and give gifts. He is willing to give you half of his salary. What does it matter if he saves some money?