Don't go to heaven, don't go to hell, live in the present.

Lin Qingxuan's prose tells such a story:

There is a devout Buddhist teacher who often instills Buddhist knowledge into primary school students in class.

One day, he spent half an hour telling the students about the horror of hell, and then he asked the students, "Who wants to go to hell, raise your hand."

Sure enough, no one raised their hands, and the teacher was very pleased.

Then he spent half an hour telling the students about the beauty of Elysium. He asked the students, "Who wants to go to Elysium, raise your hand!" "

Most of the children raised their hands, except one child in the corner who didn't raise his hand and looked solemn.

The teacher called him up: "Why don't you want to go to hell or Elysium?"

Child: "My mother said, don't go anywhere after school, just go home!" " "

This is a joke, and it is not all a joke.

In fact, the present time is the most real. If you want to go to hell or heaven, you should start now.

When I have difficulty in studying, I miss my carefree childhood before school. Stepping into the society, I recall the beautiful youth of university profligacy. Married, but also lamented the free and unrestrained single life before marriage. Then, when you are old, should you envy the indomitable young body you have now?

Many people often look forward to the distance, reminiscing about the past and looking forward to the future, but forget to grasp the present.

Just like now, I am screaming that the summer heat is unbearable. In a blink of an eye, the flowers bloom and the autumn wind sweeps away the leaves. When summer passed and autumn was cool, and I was worried about the dress that was always missing from the closet, I began to miss the summer when I could go out in casual skirts or shirts and shorts.

Man is a complex of contradictions, just like Master Xing's line, which is regarded as a classic: "Once, there was a sincere love in front of me, and I didn't cherish it. I regret it when I lose it. The most painful thing in the world is this. ...

If God can give me another chance, I will say three words to that girl:' I love you.'

If I have to add a time limit to this love, I hope it is … ten thousand years! "

At that time, the sovereign treasure had no love in his heart, so how could he know how to cherish the word! When I have it, I don't know how to cherish it. Then I understood and regretted it. It's a pity that I lost it and can't get it back. What's the use of lamenting regret? If I know this, why should I know it?

A long time ago, I read a romance novel. This romance is similar in daily life. It is no different from the dog blood scenes in all dog blood dramas. The man is poor and white, and the woman is under pressure to go with the man. Men's career has improved, and women have retired to the second line and become women behind men. Later, as you thought, the scum's wife was fired.

Finally, when he was free, the man was relieved, ate and drank, and was chic for a while. However, after the glitz, life will eventually return to its true nature. Small three, small four, small five, beautiful girls and their children are out of place with their "home" built brick by brick, tossing and turning, and finally checking the original match.

The man regretted it. Who says wild flowers smell better than home flowers?

Without the hostess, home is no longer a home, but a house. The toilet at home will not be as white as new for no reason; A mountain of dirty clothes and smelly socks will not automatically run into drawers and be neatly folded; The delicacies outside are not as warm as the thick soup in the kitchen casserole.

Most importantly, there is no one who is caring and attentive in the quiet room, and the biting cold makes men unwilling to stay for a moment.

In the story, the man suddenly repented and finally saved the woman after the test.

However, it is just a novel, a beautiful fairy tale fabricated by an author.

How many people in reality lament that it is too late to regret the running water under the bridge.

When you have it, you don't know how to cherish it. Once lost, it's really gone. No matter how hard you try, no matter how hard you keep it, no matter how hard you tear it, you can't come back, just like the quiet cycle of spring flowers and autumn moon, summer shadows and winter snow.

So, when you miss the gorgeous summer flowers, don't regret it, turn around, and the autumn leaves are quiet and beautiful. When innocence is drifting away from us, don't regret it, we are becoming more and more mature. When people around us leave us, it's no use keeping them. Life is like this. Rain or shine comes and goes. As long as you carefully taste and cherish the road he accompanied us, it will be fine!

Cherish what we have and experience at the moment, and everyone, at every time, accepts the beauty and suffering that life has given us. These are precious treasures on our life path.

Spring will come again when it's gone, and flowers will bloom again when they fade. Only by having the present and knowing how to cherish it can there be a spacious and comfortable road between love and hate, sadness and injury, gain and loss.

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Regardless of the past, it has nothing to do with the future. I am happy for the rest of my life!

Give it to me! Give it to him!