How do you see the "bad taste" behavior of some elders towards their children in a year?

During the Chinese New Year holiday, many people in my family have their own habits, which I experienced a lot when I was a child. Now that I'm grown up, I sometimes play the same joke with other children. Remembering that this is a very childlike thing, I feel like I was a child again. Children are cute, so sometimes people will make jokes about them in Doby, which is not malicious in itself, but increases their feelings for each other.

Recently, someone discussed a problem on the Internet, that is, during the Chinese New Year, elders like to tease their children with some questions, which are described as bad taste, but it is actually a bit excessive. Because of the jokes of the elders, the children actually understand. It's just that we joke together during the Chinese New Year. Generations have said this, and no one cares whether these words are bad or not.

If you carefully taste some elders, it actually contains a feeling. For example, elders ask children: Do you like mom or dad? This sentence is actually a test of children's intelligence, and it is also an expectation of elders. I hope to get a good answer from children, and it also reflects the love of elders for children. It is not too much, and there is no need to make a fuss. Just treat it normally.

Why do some people call this proverb bad taste now? I think the first thing is that there is something wrong with people's minds. Some people tend to look at simple things very complicated, especially now some people deliberately criticize them, or hope that their remarks can get everyone's attention, so they will say that they have found some minor flaws in their lives and then attack them. In fact, this is a psychological problem.

During the Chinese New Year, the elders joke with the younger generation and then give some rewards to the younger generation. Actually, this is a game. I was here when I was a child, and I am very familiar with these problems. I don't think there is any bad taste, but relatives and friends are all together and joking with each other. A person's thoughts determine the quality of a thing. If your thoughts are pure, then the words of these elders are not malicious, but actually a sign of love.