I asked my female colleague to go hiking today.

Always remember your main purpose: What are you climbing for? !

Don’t make this mountain climbing activity very tiring or boring. It must be recreational and relaxing, so as to enhance goodwill, friendship and deepen understanding. Therefore, you must first design the procedures for everything before and after climbing, and prepare food and safety equipment and supplies (including: emergency medicines and gauze for bruises, insect bites, diarrhea, etc.); secondly, plan the midway During the rest time and place, prepare some funny jokes or relaxing songs to avoid a dry and cold atmosphere; then control the speed and rhythm of the two of you, do not patronize yourself, always pay attention to her physical condition and needs, and be aware of any abnormalities that may occur. Precautions should be taken if the situation arises (such as water, wet wipes or handkerchiefs, mobile phone batteries, umbrellas, ropes, lighters, newspapers, etc., and long-sleeved clothes - the wind at the top of the mountain is hard and cold, so prevent yourself from catching a cold after sweating). Of course, don’t carry too much weight. You still have to bear the supplies she brings.

When encountering a roadless or dangerous road section, you must take the initiative to assume the responsibility of a protector and always keep her on the relatively safe side. At the same time, do not be shy when you need to hold hands, be generous and generous. Naturally commanded her: hold my hand tight! Use your manly temperament to give her full trust and security.

When taking a break, you can spread newspapers and sit across from each other, or you can put on clothes and sit back to back, eat some food to replenish your strength; at the same time, you can use your mobile phone to play some of your favorite music and songs, and you can talk. You can also speak freely about your life insights, goals, and personal ideals - this is an opportunity to increase understanding. Don’t choose topics that are too deep or sensitive; try to choose topics that are light-hearted and non-controversial.

If she feels tired and unable to support herself to the top of the mountain, don’t force it; men and women’s bodies are very different, and it may cause some unexpected harm unintentionally.

On a first date, the focus is to bring two people closer and enhance and deepen mutual understanding; as for physical contact, do not rush it unless necessary, be steady, hold hands at most, and touch noses when joking. Forget it.

Safety first, taking good care of her is the key!