Single, do you believe in standards or fate?

I believe in fate more, and the criteria for choosing a spouse are never static.

Every single person will have his own criteria for choosing a spouse, but this criterion is always changing. Personally, I prefer to believe in fate, and the standard may just be a joke.

There are thousands of criteria for choosing a spouse, but few people can really choose a spouse according to the criteria. I also have my own criteria for choosing a spouse before I get married. I hope to find a gentle girl with long hair. I hope she is beautiful enough and considerate enough. Facts have proved that this mate selection standard has no practical significance at all.

My current partner is not long hair, and it is far from being gentle when getting along. But from the first time I met her, I felt something should happen between us. Two people entered the marriage step by step, and I have never measured her by standards.

In fact, most people in real life are like this. The standard of mate selection is the standard of mate selection, but it is another state when you really choose an object.

I believe in fate more, and no amount of mate selection criteria can compare with a heartbeat. I have a well-connected opposite sex in college. At that time, her standards for choosing a spouse were very high, from height to weight, from income to family, and the standards for choosing a spouse were very detailed. However, there is nothing special about her current partner, which is also very different from his previous mate selection criteria.

I once asked her why she chose such a person, but she said she didn't know. Anyway, she felt very moved when she saw him. When two people come together, it seems natural. Step by step, the standard is gone, but happiness is still there.

We always look forward to finding a perfect partner who meets our own standards, but the opposite sex who meets the standards in life is often not our dish. This is the helplessness of life. I also want to believe in the standard of mate selection, but I can only choose to believe in fate.

Life is like a river, and everyone is drifting in the forest. The standard of mate selection is like the shadow of the moon reflected in the water, but the real partner is actually the wood drifting in the river with you.

It is predestined to meet thousands of miles away, and happiness never depends on the standard of mate selection.