The process of saving her husband after divorce and saving her husband by a woman.

Daniel busy marriage emotional case series

Keywords: extramarital affairs, divorce, remarriage

Article length: 4500 words

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In many marriages and families, it is rare to see things that can lead to marital relationship breakdown, and extramarital affairs are one of the more common factors. Some people forget "ordinary" when they meet "good", slowly forget their families under the blow of sweet words, and want to divorce more and more. ...

A lady said: marriage is getting more and more profitable, and it has less and less relationship with love. I've been opening my heart since I got married, but he found a lover and got tired of me. I tried my best to protect my family and suffered, but he wanted to divorce me. He said he didn't love me and didn't want to disappoint her. He asked me to help them and urged me to find my own happiness quickly, so as not to delay my youth any longer. ...

This lady's experience is very ordinary, and she is still good. At least there is no disagreement between husband and wife.

In recent years, divorce has become the last resort for many couples to solve their emotional problems. There are objective reasons behind every divorce, but no matter how many reasons, divorce is always a scar of feelings. It not only proved the fragility of that marriage, but also proved the indifference and selfishness of the people.

Faced with some unexplained emotional problems, many couples broke up like this. It's not that how deep the relationship between husband and wife is, how many ups and downs they can get through. In most cases, the feelings are too deep, but they can't stand the betrayal of love.

For couples who have been together for many years, divorce is a very difficult choice. Even if the other party has a lover, there are still many people who are willing to stick to their marriage and try to save it again and again.

It is said that time will dilute everything, but you always have to go through the process of heartache. It's like an emotional test, until the day when it can't last, the marriage is over. Some people don't talk to each other after divorce. Some people may love them too much and are still looking for opportunities to recover after divorce.

To make a long story short, write a topic related to saving marriage with a case of remarriage.

There is a kind of husband and wife whose feelings will be "better" after divorce. This kind of "good" is bought with sadness and persistence. For many people, this kind of redemption is not worth it, but on the other hand, who can tell the things in feelings?

First, the husband has changed his mind and the wife doesn't want a divorce. In a marriage case, a woman told her feelings about marriage. The saddest thing is that her favorite man failed her. Let me sort out her story, roughly as follows:

When I opened the car door that day, I saw my husband with her. My heart ached suddenly and my mind went blank. She usually calls me sister, seemingly harmless, and even does such a thing behind my back. She's not married. How come...

I don't know why, the first person I hate is this woman. It is unforgivable that she approached my husband without telling me. Things that I never imagined happened before my eyes. Seeing their flustered expressions, I suddenly felt that these two people were so strange.

Is he still the one I love? Why? Is she still my sister? Why did she do this to me?

I don't want to forgive them, but we have been married for several years after all. For the sake of my children and my dignity, I turned away with tears in my eyes and ignored it. Later, I tried not to mention it. Even though my heart hurts, I still hope he just accidentally made a mistake that men often make.

I still love him. I don't need to give any reason. He's my man. You can hurt me once, but not next time. In order to make my marriage look normal, I hid my tears and kept the pace of my life. I'm willing to endure, and I hope he will learn a lesson and don't let me down again.

Looking back now, if I had known I couldn't get my husband back, I would have let them leave early. If I had known he really didn't love me, I wouldn't have humbled myself again and again.

I know it's too late. Since then, they have often met. Don't wash your dirty clothes in public. I dare not tell anyone, so I can only continue to forgive.

I put up with 1 years, and they dated 1 years. From the initial "peace" of our marriage to the later "difficulty", my mood is getting heavier and heavier. He always said that he was reluctant to part with her and wanted to be responsible for her all his life. Sometimes he cries and asks me to help them, so I can only avoid this topic.

Second, only oneself can understand the grief that can be recovered. There is still a trace of fantasy in my heart. We really love each other. Did he forget? How much I have suffered for him since I fell in love, doesn't he remember?

Looking back, I was still a girl who didn't understand the world. I love him with all my heart and follow him. The only person I ever loved was him. I humbly told him again and again that as long as you can correct your mistake, I can wait for you. For the sake of our family, don't associate with her anymore. I beg you.

But he said he really didn't love me. What's the point of persistence? He said that that woman is more important than me, more reluctant to leave him than me, and more in need of his care. ...

I suddenly realized that he was right. That woman is better than me in all aspects, and I completely lost confidence. She is good at talking, talking and singing. She has a higher education and is more beautiful than me. I lost his price with him. They are a perfect match together.

In order to recover, my heart is full of inferiority, and the first half of the divorce is almost like a year. Although I gradually understand that he really doesn't have me in his heart, I still can't bear it.

He begged me for a divorce again and again, and I refused again and again, struggling to keep him, and my heart became more and more afraid. He went home for the night less and less, and one day he cried so badly that he wanted to kowtow to me and begged me to understand him. Finally, I had to accept my fate. Since you don't love me, why should I bear the injustice for you?

I suffered for a year and a half in vain, and finally resigned myself to it, crying and agreeing with him on the date of divorce. As the day approaches, I fantasize about him withdrawing his decision every day, but he doesn't.

On the day of the divorce, he finally said he was sorry for me and actually knelt down. He said he hoped I would find a good man and not hurt myself. I forced a smile and left with tears in my eyes. Now that it's all over, why are you talking about it? From now on, you are you and I am me. ...

Other people's divorces are making a lot of noise, and he wants us to divorce. All my insistence is meaningless, and nothing hurts more than a divorce with comfort and encouragement.

I've been through those days, too, and I understand the difficulty of redemption. A person who doesn't love you will beg you to leave him even if you kowtow.

Third, even if you are covered in scars, you can't forget it. For many women, it is a great irony for love to be "begged" by her husband without wanting a divorce. Pretending to be indifferent when you are very sad is the cruelest reality of marriage. The other person has no ego in his heart, and no amount of crying and tears can change his determination.

This lady will call her Dalin for the time being. She is 33 years old this year. After the divorce, the child moved out of the house with her ex-husband and Dalin and continued to work in the original unit. With the end of the marriage, her life gradually changed.

After the divorce, Dalin lived a lonely life and felt inferior in front of her colleagues. She is no longer lively and cheerful, even though she pretends otherwise. Just like failure in life, divorce is a matter of hurting dignity. I don't know when I can find my direction in life unless I can remarry.

Dalin once said: I love him. I gave myself to him when I was in college, because he said that he would be responsible for me all my life and accompany me to my old age. But is love all fake? I have been abandoned by him for treating my feelings like this. I feel ashamed, as if everyone is laughing at my infatuation.

Even if the divorce is painful, life will go on. There is a saying in life that if you love life, life will love you. This truth is straightforward.

Only at that time, Dalin couldn't relax, and his whole heart was immersed in the lonely sea of Wang Yang. She completely forgot the goal of life, and she was too sad to be sealed up quickly. What she craves most is remarriage. She has been fantasizing that he still loves himself, but it's just a moment of confusion.

Until the divorce in 1 year, Dalin could not forget the sadness of that relationship. Occasionally, someone around her courted her and wanted to make friends, but Dalin dared not accept it. Once I made an appointment with a suitor to go shopping together, but when we met that day, she went back on her word and refused.

Once a woman can't see the hope of the future, her desire for love is blank.

It is often said that a lonely woman can easily be comforted by others. As long as you make her feel warm and concerned, she will give you her heart as a sentimental sustenance.

But Dalin is a special case, even if there are many people pursuing it, she is not willing to accept it. I have suffered so many injuries that I still can't forget my ex-husband.

Dalin recalled: Divorce hit me too hard, and my mind was empty for 1 year. The word "love" reminds me of our past. A friend is very kind and excellent to me, but I don't want to accept him. I'm not afraid, but I don't want to If you are not deeply hurt by feelings, you will not be unable to find your goal in life. If I didn't love him too much, I might have remarried. Later, I found that my insistence was right, and he finally understood that my favorite person was me, even though I was covered with scars.

Fourth, in the crisis, he found his original heart. Dalin once talked about that experience, just like going through hardships, as follows:

I told myself again and again that this life can only belong to one person. I have an emotional cleanliness, which is also a kind of paranoia. The first love failed, not to mention the later one? I don't want to fall in love at all. My only wish is to remarry my ex-husband and get my broken heart back.

Divorce 1 year, the ex-husband finally broke up with that woman. Their tempers are incompatible. Although she is very talented, they are really tired of each other after being together. After breaking up with her, he often asked me to have dinner, but I refused.

I go shopping to see the children every month. Once a month, the ex-husband seems to be holding a lot of ideas but always hesitating. He tried to approach me several times, but I refused. It's not that I don't want to, but I'm afraid of being hurt again, unable to adapt, and a little angry.

That day, my ex-husband asked me if I had a boyfriend. Why should I avoid him? I shook my head and denied that I was going to remarry.

Seeing his relief, I suddenly felt that he still cared about me. I am glad that my persistence is worthwhile, and I shed tears unconsciously.

I am such a person who likes to make excuses for others. Once again, I believe that our original love is not fake. He was just confused for a moment. Since he broke up, since he still cares about me, then we still have a future.

I wanted to hear his apology, but he didn't. He seems to be hesitant, too, and he doesn't know what he is thinking.

I told him cruelly, in fact, I have several companions, and I am not a boyfriend yet. But I've been with them for a long time. I change one every day, compare it slowly and choose a better one than you. ...

I was just angry with him on purpose and pretended not to care. He was a little disappointed after listening, nodded and smiled and blessed me, and expressed his understanding of my choice.

I was even more disappointed when I saw his disappointment. I was just testing him on purpose, but he didn't beg me. Since he blessed me, I had no choice but to accept it. I suddenly hate myself. My ex-husband is willing to get back together. Why don't I seize the opportunity?

Perhaps, he just cares about me instead of loving me, and his heart suddenly turns cold.

I can't be sad anymore. Leave a step. That's the space for liberation. Leave it to the future. The courage I finally accumulated is gone, and I dare not have illusions about love.

During those days, I worked overtime every day and tried to enrich my life. When no one was around, I would cry quietly. One night six months ago, I was working late and something happened.

There are many concrete slabs on the roadside. Riding a battery car back to the dormitory, I couldn't see the road clearly and ran into it. I gritted my teeth and stood up. I fell down without taking a few steps, and my brain was stunned. I only remember vaguely hearing someone ask me, call quickly. What's your husband's phone number? ...

How can I have a husband? Does he still care if I live or die? The wound doesn't hurt, but the heart hurts.

When I woke up, my ex-husband stood next to me with red eyes. I was punched in the left face, leaving a scar forever, and my chin was punched through. ...

I am not beautiful, and the scars left by those two wounds are even more shocking. But I am not sad, but calm.

I have lost the person I love most, even if it is beautiful, what's the use? The biggest wound is in the heart, not in the face.

I will never forget the day when I was discharged from the hospital. He cried and hugged me and slapped himself several times. He said it was all his fault that made me like this. He said that he never forgot me, took care of me all his life and never failed.

Is this a test of love?

At first, my face value was acceptable. He said that I was not good-looking, and I was annoyed. Later, I got two scars on my face and neck, but he said I was beautiful and would take care of me all my life.

I didn't refuse his hug that day, and I cried worse than him. We have known each other for more than ten years and had many romantic memories. Hugging for the first time in three years, just like the sunshine dispelled the haze, I got through it. I have no regrets, as long as he still loves me …

5. People who can't be saved in marriage, divorce to save the above cases temporarily, a woman has experienced all kinds of ups and downs, and finally waited for the dawn. From the perspective of love and family, she has repaired the broken family with persistence. Perhaps it is a complete regret, and her husband remembered the debt in his feelings, which is better for her.

In many cases of remarriage, people with similar experiences are very common. Among them, the probability of persistent women saving men is very high. On the contrary, the probability of persistent men saving women is much lower, less than one-third of that of women.

From this perspective, among those who divorce because of extramarital affairs, there is a high probability that men will eventually change their minds. As long as you really realize that you are wrong, it only takes a moment to turn around.

At the same time, it just shows that in marriage, husband and wife live in harmony, women are the happiest, but they can't live in harmony, and women are the most painful. If life is rough, men are romantic and women are the most lonely.

This case tells us that people who can't get it back during marriage can get it back after divorce, and it is also possible to change it in another way. Maybe their feelings will be better after they die.

But you have to make sure that you really have deep feelings for each other. Your lover is just rhetoric, and you can use time to heal the wounds of your feelings. Don't take it back if you can't do it.

As for whether it is worth saving, it is a question of conformity, so just face it calmly. I don't suggest this kind of redemption, but emotional things can't be said. Some people don't know what's wrong with it, but suddenly turn around and regret it, and they will go to double indemnity. It is true that after a few couples get divorced, the relationship between husband and wife is better.