What kind of experience does it always look like?

This is a particularly bad experience. Walking in the street, I was called aunt when I was obviously my sister, which I had to endure. To make matters worse, I was obviously looking at a girl older than me and was called my sister. Yes, I'm called Sister, but I'm still unhappy. Is it better to be a big sister, or do you look older, but you are actually very young. It's not a problem to be eighteen years younger than me?

I remember hearing a joke. A student goes to school, gets off at the station and takes a taxi to school. The driver gave him a look. "Why, go to school to see the children?" . I think people at that time must be particularly embarrassed. Obviously, when they were students, they were their parents. If I tell the driver on the spot, no, I'm still a student, will the driver be embarrassed? What kind of dialogue will there be to ease the embarrassing atmosphere in the car?

Getting old is really a particularly distressing thing. Few people can casually say that they have "become a little anxious" like Li. Many people don't want to say "you are a little old" from others even if they look very old. But nowadays, addressing in society is a particularly embarrassing thing. I remember waiting for the bus at the station one day when I went to Beijing. A girl suddenly came up to me and asked me, "Sister, do you know ..." Looking at her, did she really say that she was younger than me? I don't think so. No matter what I look like, I hope I can look younger. Who doesn't want to look like a girl of 18 years old, and I'm only 18 years old? Why do you call me sister? I think that girl is in her twenties. Call me sister because I am old or she is too young.

People want to look younger. No one wants to walk in the crowd, but they think they are just twenty and in their early thirties. I prefer people to call me "big sister" and "big brother" in Northeast China. Whether it is because you are so young or a kind of honorific title without any emotional color, it will make people feel more comfortable, or you really don't know how to call it, which makes your classmates much better.