What is the character of girls who don't send friends? Why can't I catch up with girls in my circle of friends?

Friends circle is an important way for us to get to know each other after adding girls' WeChat, but not all girls will open friends circle, and some girls don't even send friends circle. How should a girl who doesn't send a circle of friends chase after this?

First, the character of girls who don't send friends.

An extrovert always wants to share happy things with friends, so he often shows his life in a circle of friends and wants others to know more about himself. And an introverted person, even if he has happy things, feels it by himself, seldom shares it, and communicates with his close friends at most, which leads them to make few friends, even no friends, and they don't want others to know themselves too well.

Therefore, the girl does not send a circle of friends, which proves that her personality is still relatively introverted. Because of this, in their emotional world, she also longs for someone to love herself. So such a girl is relatively easy to chase, so how to chase?

Second, how to catch up with girls who can't make friends?

1. Ask girls directly to break the deadlock.

Don't think that girls have nothing to talk about without a circle of friends. Just ask girls why they don't send friends as usual. Many brothers here feel that this will expose their needs and want to seduce girls through their circle of friends. Wechat doesn't add girls? Doesn't the other person know that you want to seduce her?

At this time, you can directly ask: "How do you feel if you don't send a circle of friends? Talking to you feels that you are quite cheerful. Why do you share so little in your circle of friends? "

This kind of inquiry is better than finding a topic, right? Only by breaking the embarrassing situation of not knowing what to talk about can we establish a good impression with girls in the follow-up chat.

2, according to the girl's answer, witty response.

When we throw out the question why girls don't send friends, we will start to consider how girls will answer this question. Generally speaking, there are several situations:

1) I usually have nothing to record, so my circle of friends is rarely updated.

2) I usually post my own news in Weibo (other platforms).

3) There are too many acquaintances on WeChat and I don't want to show my life.

In the reply, the girl can agree with the girl's point of view: "I seldom send friends, but I like to send Weibo", and then transfer the topic to Weibo, chat with the girl about current events and life feelings, and establish contact around the topic of self-change.

For girls, say, "am I less dynamic?" I think it's ok. "You can reply:" You really don't have much dynamic. A person I know sends several friends a day. I don't know that he thinks he is a hawker doing WeChat business. " Talk to girls about the wonderful friends.

Another situation is that girls will ask, "am I cheerful?" I feel quite introverted. Here, I can say, "Maybe you are slow, I remember the last time we chatted …" I took the girl's words first, and then led the topic to the last chat. I mainly want to change the topic and talk about what girls are interested in during the chat.

3. Throw out points of interest and guide girls to reply.

Since you can't learn about girls through their circle of friends, you can only actively attract girls' attention, but of course you can't expose your needs, so those "What are you doing?" "Good morning" "Do you like xx?" This kind of opening should not appear.

If you carefully observe girls, you will find that they especially like to share: selfies (photos)+sensational words. In fact, in the female thinking mode, it is "sharing+feeling". At this time, sharing some practical programs close to life will be particularly easy to close the distance between two people. For example:

I passed by the milk tea you mentioned today, and there was a long queue. It's very popular. (with photos of tea shops and queues)

Today, I really feel autumn. Look at the leaves of maple, they are really beautiful (with photos of maple).

I saw the movie you mentioned last time, and it was very good. What else can I share? Recent drama shortage! I like what you said last time. (Attach a screenshot of the movie clip you watched)

In sharing, you can also emphasize your common ground and recognition of her, and she is easy to provide more information enthusiastically. It is easier to establish a sense of familiarity between the two sides. When you feel familiar to a certain extent, the invitation will be logical.

I used to be very introverted, and I would blush when talking to girls, let alone talking about my girlfriend. Turns out I'm 25 and still single. Later, I told my friends that I wanted to be an expert in picking up girls, and no one believed me. After seven years of change, now more than 100 girls around me, one after another, have been singing every night. I wrote a book about my years of experience in picking up girls. If you want to improve yourself through learning and change, you can go to Weibo to search and find e-books. How much essence you can learn from me depends on your efforts. I wish all brothers can get off the bill smoothly.