"I'm afraid she won't be angry when she gets married." The groom changed the wine for his father-in-law. What happened to the wedding?

Looking for a partner depends not only on a person's best conditions, but also on a person's lowest character. The lowest value of character is not worth being together. Marriage is the biggest bet in a woman's life, but the result will gradually show up in her life. After seeing his lowest character, even if he loses, he won't lose too badly. -Zhou

Good conduct is the first criterion for choosing a spouse. Ordinary people generally have no great evil, only small evil, but sometimes, it is this humble "small evil" that will break up a marriage.

As the ancients said, if a man loses his education, it is stupid, and if a woman loses her education, it is rude. Words and deeds will reflect your upbringing and personality, but also reflect the degree to which you cherish your partner.

Why do many people pay more attention to each other's personality when choosing a spouse? Marriage is a lifetime thing, and it goes without saying that it is well thought out. People who are noble in character and will not be easily influenced by others will make their partners trust more easily than those who are wretched and narrow-minded, thus having a sense of security.

When people are in love, it is easy to show their advantages and subconsciously cover up their shortcomings. But even so, we should keep a clear head. Some innocuous little mistakes do not involve principles and can be tolerated and forgiven. However, things that run counter to the normal three views and expose obvious defects in personality can not be ignored.

That's why Zhou emphasized that a person should learn to identify the lowest point of his partner's personality, and only the lowest point can truly reflect his attitude and level of communication with others.

Zhao Jiahong, a 26-year-old netizen, has a clearer understanding of marriage after experiencing the storm at the wedding. Although the final wedding turned into tragedy, she broke up with the groom, but if fate comes again, she will still make the same choice.

His wedding to her satisfied her vanity.

Zhao Jiahong, like other young girls, also hopes that the love with her lover will finally blossom and bear fruit and get a happy ending. And her fiance, Liu Jun, undoubtedly satisfied all her imaginations of perfect love.

Liu Jun is not a rich second generation, but with his education and intelligence, he earns six figures every month in this city. There are graduate students in his company who want to go in every year. Being a lover with such an excellent man greatly satisfies the girl's vanity.

Although she and the man were introduced by menstruation, they liked it the first time they met. Liu Jun, in particular, liked this girl's eye-opening beauty and exquisite figure, and almost fell in love with her at first sight.

It can be said that during the period of love, Liu Jun was almost perfect, and everything was girl-centered, and there was no slack in riding the horse. Until the beautiful wedding was held according to the girl's wishes, she was absolutely satisfied with the man who was going to marry herself.

If nothing else, let's say that this wedding cost nearly 500 thousand. It can be said that men are quite sincere. In front of many good sisters, girls feel twice as proud.

Egged on by others, he did a stupid thing.

To tell the truth, Zhao Jiahong's parents are very anxious about this marriage. They got married in a hurry within three months of knowing each other. They feel that their daughter doesn't seem to have made an overall investigation of the future son-in-law's character, and it's a bit hasty to get married by herself. But obviously, girls in love don't listen to advice.

At the wedding, the bride and groom will naturally propose a toast to the guests. The bride's father is allergic to alcohol, which she told the groom in advance, and before the wedding, the groom also promised not to pour wine on his father-in-law. However, the bad thing is toasting.

A bunch of good friends of the groom have long threatened to see how he made a fool of himself at the groom's wedding. The bride's father has been drinking juice at the banquet, which is the "wine" prepared for the next toast, and the juice prepared by the family in advance.

But the groom's buddy only knows the juice for his father-in-law, and he doesn't know the reason behind it. So, a few people took Liu Jun aside and quietly encouraged their good friends to give their father-in-law a scare, or they were afraid of their wives, which would make their families look down upon them in the future.

Egged on by his partners, Liu Jun forgot the bride's advice. He thought it was just a glass of wine, nothing serious happened, and it was not out of line. Moreover, he will lose face if he admits his wife's cowardice in front of his buddies. He boasted to everyone: "It's just a glass of wine. My father-in-law is not so stingy. Besides, I'm afraid she won't be angry when she gets married. "

Unexpectedly, my father-in-law picked up the glass stolen by the groom again. After a gulp, he was admitted to the hospital. Encouraged by others, the groom did a stupid thing at the wedding.

A deliberate "mistake" turned the wedding into a tragedy.

The bride's father learned afterwards that he was drinking wine. Although there was only half a cup, he drank too fast to spit it out. At that time, he felt unwell, had some difficulty breathing and was red and swollen all over. Although he was sent to the hospital in time and his condition improved, he was still physically tortured.

The groom played a boring joke with his buddy, which caused great disaster. When he knew that he was in trouble, his nerves, which were slightly paralyzed by alcohol, began to wake up, and the bride just coldly dumped him after figuring out the ins and outs of the matter: "See you at the Civil Affairs Bureau tomorrow!"

Zhao Jiahong never imagined that the man he regarded as a male god would be too stupid to stand the temptation of others' words. She explicitly warned her father not to drink, but he just thought it was okay to drink a little.

Although the man showed great sincerity and kept apologizing to the bride, she did not want to hear a word. As the bride's father was sent to the hospital in time, a beautiful wedding came to an abrupt end. The wedding turned into a tragedy.

A person with a sound personality will not value face more than the safety of others' lives.

People who are all adults have turned a happy marriage into a full stop. Although the main fault lies in Liu Jun, he should not make fun of his father-in-law, nor should he be encouraged by others just to anger the bride, but the girl, as the other party of the parties, should also think carefully about whether she has made a comprehensive consideration of her other half's character and disposition.

However, I still support the girl's final domineering decision. Because no one with a sound personality will value his face more than the safety of his family's life. Even if there is only a slight possibility, we will not easily try to hurt someone else's body, let alone that person is the father of our partner.

It can only be said that the kind of "little evil" that exists in a man makes him take the prevention of others as a joke, preferring to blur the final consequences and consciously reduce the prediction of this risk. Isn't it terrible to be a pillow person with such a person?

Men think that as long as they get married, women will accept all the good and bad, so they are all wet. When the lowest point of a partner's personality touches the principle, girls can stop loss in time and retreat early, just like Zhao Jiahong.