Xu Yan’s hunting routine reveals the truth about the relationship between men and women in the world of mortals

It is easy to trick a woman into bed these days, but it is much harder to coax her out of bed. It is even more difficult for a man who has slept with Xu Yan!

Since the Xu Yan incident became popular on the Internet, some people saw it as a vivid picture of officialdom. There were all kinds of insults about her and several men on the Internet, which was unbearable to watch.

If it is just a curse, I am afraid it will be useless. Just like the book "Jin Ping Mei", different readers will have different moods after reading it. Looking at "Jin Ping Mei", there are "Those who have a heart of compassion, those who have a heart of awe, those who have a heart of joy, and those who have a heart of imitation." Those who have a heart of compassion are Bodhisattvas; those who have a heart of awe. , a gentleman is a gentleman; a person who is happy is a villain; a person who is imitative is a beast.

There are many people on the Internet who sympathize with Xu Yan and have compassion.

If you don’t learn a lesson and just laugh at her or him, one day you may become the butt of other people’s jokes!

No girl is born a bad learner.

Children from poor families may know better about struggle. When Xu Yan was admitted to university, she also wanted to escape from farming and change her destiny.

I think back then, when she graduated from college, she might have longed for a romantic love, hoping to have a good man who would take good care of her, be devoted to her, enter into marriage together hand in hand, and then have children. A woman, living the life of an ordinary woman. Maybe the reality is too cruel, or maybe you are unwilling to go down another path. Want to use unfair means to achieve counterattack and take the shortcut to "success".

People who have met Xu Yan said that she is average-to-upper-looking, which is correct: if she is as good-looking as a duck, she might have a boyfriend when she is in college, or she will be after work. A handsome and rich young man is pursuing her; if she looks ugly, like Zhu Jiu Mei, will any man fall in love with her?

She comes from a poor family, has no connections and no resources; the auxiliary police salary is not high, the work is hard and tiring, and there is no hope of promotion, so she can only hang around. For a girl who is unwilling to accept her fate and wants to succeed, what can she do?

Even if you want to start your own business, you lack funds, experience, and connections. How can you make money?

To take a step back, even if you want to get married, how can you find a high-quality man to marry you?

So I had to think of another solution.

Perhaps she saw through the man's face at a certain moment and learned the hard way before deciding to embark on the path of precise hunting. Manage a man and strive for development. While you are young, grab a handful and then find a way to clear yourself.

This is different from ordinary extramarital affairs. Because in an extramarital affair, love must come first. And she combines love and sex into one, only to "use" men as a means of making money.

This is also a process of gambling with men. The first man she hunted was the director of a certain police station. They were together for 10 months, and they took 1 million in three installments on the pretext that "she was pregnant and her mother was very angry when she found out and asked for an explanation and compensation."

If Xu Yan’s first unreasonable request had been flatly rejected, maybe she wouldn’t have slipped further.

Unfortunately, she did not expect that she would win the first game. The man obeyed obediently, and she won the game, and won so easily. Maybe she laughed out loud after getting the money.

After this experience, can the man she likes run away?

After reading the verdict, you can accurately see the tactics of her hunting target:

Her tactics are also very simple: seducing a man with status and wife, and then having sex with her one after another. Two months later, he told the other person that he was pregnant, and that the mother would go to work to make trouble, or tell the other person's wife and children about it. Once the other party is afraid, he has to give money to keep his mouth shut.

First, he is a married man in the system and has power in his hands. He is also a well-known figure in the local area. Whether it is the director of the police station, the principal of a primary school, or the deputy director of the health center. They are all local powerful figures.

People within the system have better face. There is also a strong dependence on the unit.

The central government's anti-corruption campaign is so strong now that once something goes wrong, the unit may not be able to stay, and not only will it lose its official title, but it may also lose its job. That's why these men were afraid, and that's why Xu Yan was manipulated to the point of seven inches.

If you look for those tough, black and white owners, you might have put a sack in the dark.

Second, he must be rich, but not too rich. Men who are too rich cannot reach her and look down on her. She can only find the kind of man who is a little rich but not too rich. It is easier to slosh with a half bucket of water. She asks for around 100,000 every time. Although Guanyun is a poor place, it does not seem to be difficult for powerful leaders. Even though their wallets are not big, they can still spend money!

?Third, if you have power, it is best to have some gray income. If his income is transparent, then his wife and family will know everything about it, and it may not be so easy for him to take it out. If these men's money is not so bright, even if they fall out in the future, he will not dare to say anything. Some men may have received money after being blackmailed without their wives knowing about it.

This is why so many people online question the source of these people’s money. Where did the money come from?

Third, these men must be lustful, otherwise Xu Yan will have no chance. Flies don't bite seamless eggs. Only a man who can't walk away from a young and pretty woman is worthy of her chasing and hunting. Since it was a small place, maybe Xu Yan knew everything about the man's family, and maybe even what kind of person his wife was.

Many people on the Internet say that the men she screwed over have no sense of family responsibility. It's impossible to think about it carefully. People in the system may cherish their family more, so Xu Yancai is easier to deal with. And they were completely afraid to say anything. They thought it was just for fun, and some even wanted to keep the red flag at home and colorful flags fluttering outside. With this kind of romantic encounter coming to your doorstep, why not do it?

I didn’t expect to suffer the loss of being dumb. The mute could only eat Coptis chinensis, and could not tell her sufferings; she did not dare to call the police, so she had to use money to eliminate the disaster. Xu Yanxiao took the money and left.

She was found out because of another incident. One of her thoughts was that Liu was being investigated and when she explained the whereabouts of the money, she told Xu Yan. So the police checked her bank transfer records. As a result, they pulled out the carrot and brought out the mud, and a whole series of men were completely exposed.

Through this incident, we can see the truth about the relationship between men and women in the world:

You think that when you have power, women will throw themselves into their arms, but in fact, it may be a trap. bureau. Usually called a honey trap. What's the plan? It's nothing more than coveting your money and power. As an auxiliary police officer, it is extremely difficult for Xu Yan to transform into a real people's policeman, so she just needs to work hard on money and ideas.

Some people say that men are animals that think with their lower bodies. So when faced with beautiful women who come to your door, do you need to stay awake? Especially men who hold power are a wake-up call. If you have poor concentration, you are likely to be hunted. If the concentration is poor, it will be difficult to escape from the pomegranate skirt.

The most important bargaining chip in Xu Yan's hands is these men's careers, families, and even children. These cards can be played, and Zhang Zhang will kill them. Nothing can be done yet.

These are all critical points, and she grasps them accurately and powerfully. She even knew how much money their family had when they were in love. These people became her cash machines. There is nothing you can do but submit obediently.

Therefore, the huge risks hidden behind extramarital affairs are difficult to predict.

In an extramarital affair, a man has a serious intention of having fun. Xu Yan has found so many men, but no one can pat her chest and say to her: "If you get pregnant, give birth to the child, and I will divorce you and marry you!" (This may not be Xu Yan's wish). Rather spend money to eliminate disasters. It shows that men don’t take this relationship seriously at all.

Xu Yan worked hard as an auxiliary police officer, and it seemed that no man took the initiative to change her to a more relaxed job and make plans for her future. Everyone seems to have a tacit understanding and is heading towards a theme.

Perhaps in the hearts and around these men, in addition to Xu Yan, there are also Zhang Yan, Zhou Yan, etc.

As a woman, once you take this step, there may be no way out.

Because at this moment, your view of yourself changes and your way of thinking about problems changes. It is possible to think that there is no problem that cannot be solved in the last bed; if there is, then go to bed a few more times.

Likewise, men’s views on you have also changed. In their eyes, you become a different kind of woman. It is very likely that they will gossip about you behind your back as a way to show off. You will sink deeper and deeper without realizing it until you can't extricate yourself. The public is very interested in romantic affairs, and all kinds of gossip, gossip, and even embellished news will make you unable to hold your head up. For unmarried girls, it may be extremely difficult to quit. Until one day it crashes.

Recognize the truth about the relationship between men and women, and hope that all sentient beings in the world will not be trapped by love, hurt by sex, and not laughed at by the world!