I really want a divorce. Is divorce really not easy?

You really want a divorce, so divorce is easy. At least you have made up your mind, and the rest are just objective questions. You want a divorce, but you are hesitant. You want to liberate yourself and care about other people's eyes, so divorce is not easy.

The seven-year itch is just an excuse, just an excuse that people feel tired and want to get rid of. Seven years is enough time to turn love into affection, not to mention that you have a six-year-old son. Do you really think that love is the support of marriage? You are wrong, that's just Joe's role in love. It is the family that really supports and maintains marriage. Love makes you know each other, but family ties keep you together. If all you want is love, how many seven-year itch will you have after ending this marriage?

You say that he still loves you very much and is very kind to you, but these "good" are just "no feelings" and "cohabitation" in your opinion. So what do you want and how do you feel? Sweet talk? Is it like being in love every day? Some people won't say "I love you" or even say it, but they will practice it bit by bit because they know that the people they love will understand him. What about you? You naturally accept his kindness to you, but instead of being grateful, you are tired of this life. Marriage needs mutual management, mutual care, mutual understanding, mutual trust and gratitude, so as to support each other.

He loves you, perhaps as a lover, but more as a relative. Because you are his wife and the mother of his children, you have been together for seven years. You don't love him anymore What is your so-called "love"? You said you were miserable in this marriage, and you just wanted to go crazy. So do you want to go over there and save this marriage that is on the verge of breaking up? Besides complaining and wanting to give up, have you missed a good time? Have you ever wondered why you fell in love with him and why you married him?

Many people say that life with oil, salt, sauce and vinegar will kill love. However, how many people have thought that family ties are sublimated in such a trivial life. Did your man cheat you in your marriage? Lack of respect for you? Is it bad for you? Must you worry about your livelihood? If he loves you, I don't think these are problems. It seems to me that you are tired of this dull marriage life. Have you ever thought about how to tap the ordinary happiness in marriage? Have you thought about how to make life full of passion? You need to communicate with each other and exchange ideas. One premise is time. You need to balance your work and spare time. I envy the family of a friend of mine. She has a younger brother who is five years younger than her (just entered junior high school) and a pair of loving parents. Her parents will chat and walk together after dinner. On some special days, my father will send flowers and presents to my mother, and they will also go out to eat. I still remember that she once told me what her father said-the biggest victim of parents' divorce is their children. Indeed, your six-year-old son needs a sound family. And children, isn't that the bond between you? Why not try to make some compensation when there is no divorce? As long as you take the first step, everything will be much easier. What I want to tell you is just to make you have no regrets about your choice.

Secondly, we don't talk about all kinds of contradictions and conflicts during divorce, but what are you going to do about the inevitable situation after divorce? Do you have the courage to face other people's accusations? Have you thought about how to appease your family? You're not going to fight for custody of your son. Do you have the financial strength to survive on your own? You said that if you didn't leave him, you would have a longer depressed life. What happened after you left? How happy would you be? Have you ever planned a free single life? You said that there is a vacancy in the future, but your heart has a chance to revive. Did your heart die because of the boredom of life? Aren't you grateful for the ordinary happiness of a family of three? From beginning to end, you only mentioned your son once, only your pain. Do you love your son? Is it hard to be a mother?

Finally, I want to send you a sentence: the best gift parents can always give their children is to love each other.

It's been a long time since I answered the question so seriously. It must have touched me. Maybe my words are a little sharp, but I definitely mean well. Please tell me your thoughts and decisions.