Why are many men more nosy and nosy than women now?

Say: gossip about women is good for health. Psychological theory: women pay the most attention when chatting gossip. ..... Wait, who says only women are interested in gossip? In Pride and Prejudice, the most classic sentence is that old Mr. Bennett said to Elizabeth, "The joy of life lies in watching our neighbors' jokes and then showing them ours." Professor David in the United States found that one-fifth to two-thirds of people talk about the length of others behind their backs every day. Commonly known as gossip. Just like when joking, people occasionally say: the so-called husband is the last person who knows his family's dirty laundry. The so-called wife is the first person to know the neighbor's dirty laundry. Many people used to think that gossip was a woman's specialty, but in fact it was just the opposite. Scientists have found that men are more eager than women to talk about other people's trifles behind their backs. The "gossip" between men is the embodiment of more status. Many white-collar workers may have experienced it. Sometimes, a regular departmental meeting with a serious opening will eventually become a lively hip-hop gossip meeting. Gossiping about people will make everyone very affectionate. Gossip shows a person's life experience and conveys his position in this small circle. Usually, the more leaders in the circle, the more open gossip. At every gossip meeting, most of the most distinguished people blow wildly from a corner, and other junior players follow him with hungry eyes. Then when the juniors go out, they pass on the gossip they hear to people younger than themselves. Visible, in the body, gossip, but also pay attention to identity. Gossip also pays attention to the reliability of sources. Gossip spread by people of higher status seems more credible. Occasionally, someone will smile and say to me, "I had dinner with someone yesterday and talked about you!" " "I get nervous occasionally, but then I relax. What did they say about me? Of course not. I don't have to ask. In fact, a person can smile and announce to you the people and things that gossip about you behind your back. This is his implicit hint: I praised you behind your back! Especially when this person's ability is not bad and his status is not low. If you are funny, you should smile at him; If you are kitsch, smile at him with surprise and joy. A person can talk about you behind your back. This means that someone cares about you. If you want to get along in this world, you'd better show it. Excerpted from the new book "Men's Small Thoughts, Women's Small Calculations"