What words must not be said when chatting with friends?

In this world, each of us has different ways of living and different standards of making friends. As a result, some people have many friends, while others have few friends. However, no matter how many friends you have, it depends not only on your own strength, but also on the word "fate", that is, you should collect more predestined friends and indulge those who are deeply predestined.

Of course, the relationship between friends needs careful maintenance. Especially when your friends chat or get together, please respect your friends and protect their face. No matter how good this relationship is, some things can't be nonsense, especially the following three points. Otherwise, over time, friends will be smothered and fed up, and they will turn away, refuse others and even go their separate ways.

Don't say these three things when chatting with friends, no matter how good the relationship is.

First of all, don't lie. Tell the truth, be sincere to your friends, and tell the truth in order to make bosom friends. You must be honest with your partner, be loyal to your partner, and tell the truth to maintain trust. After all, no matter how clever a lie is, it will be exposed one day. After all, you will see the heart for a long time, and love will see the truth for a long time. Therefore, when you chat with your good friends or attend a party, you don't need to tell the truth with a lie, let alone a lie that goes against your intention. Otherwise, others will think that you are hypocritical and unreliable, and you will naturally gradually destroy this relationship.

Of course, everyone has their own secrets. In life, I also have my own difficulties. Many times, when you meet someone, you don't have to complain or say anything to others. Otherwise, others will think that we are too naive, too responsible and too unbearable. Besides, people's hearts are changeable, even the best friends are no exception.

Second, don't talk big. What is a big topic? That's something I can't do, something I can't achieve for the time being, but I can't help telling others. This is a big topic. It can be said that people who speak loudly will make people feel that you are frivolous, illusory, trustworthy and easy to lose. Even if you say it later, others will think it's false and don't want to hear it from you. In this way, even the best friends will gradually alienate. Therefore, in daily communication with friends, you can't make promises easily, and don't rush to express your opinions. Please think twice before you act. I will help you after reaching an agreement with my friends.

It is undeniable that friends sometimes need a little humor, and sometimes they are joking. This can adjust the atmosphere of getting along. But there is a limit to everything, especially in public places, parties and chats. It is difficult to show off your wealth, compare with others, expose your shortcomings and hurt others' jokes. Otherwise, it will do harm to others.

Third, don't talk. In life, there is a person around us who always likes to talk empty talk and play old plays, which makes people feel: I don't know if what he said is false or not, and I don't know what he thinks. Sometimes, although he was listening, he didn't say anything wrong, but he didn't feel from the heart, so people benefited from it, at least nothing. For example, borrowing money from friends, some people refused very well, saying: I see, let me have a look. This is a bit ambiguous, saying that this is empty talk and an episode. Therefore, for good friends, don't talk empty words. Otherwise, there will be more empty talk and friends will gradually become empty. Don't say these three things when chatting with friends, no matter how good the relationship is.

In this life, the word "righteousness" becomes a good person first, and the word "sincerity" is expensive to make friends! Therefore, whenever we are with good friends, we must try to avoid lying, bragging and empty talk. In this way, the friendship between friends can last forever. Friends, right?