"Foolish people are blessed by foolishness." Those who know how to act stupid in these three things will naturally be blessed.

In daily life, we see some people who are not pretty or have an outstanding figure, but they can marry a man with good conditions. Some people are honest and dull, do not know how to take advantage of opportunities, and do not specialize in interpersonal relationships, but in the end, they achieve a great career and live a life that others envy. As the saying goes, "Foolish people are blessed by fools", this is the kind of people they are talking about.

When we say a person is stupid, we specifically mean that his behavior is not in line with the public's thinking. He has done everything that others can't think of and cannot do, and he has become an "alien" in his life. Some people will make fun of them, but in fact, this kind of "silliness" is a state of life, and it is the source of blessing.

People who know how to act stupid on these three things are the wisest people. Stop making fun of their "foolishness".

Interpersonal relationships are a very profound knowledge. We have to contact and deal with all kinds of people every day, and it is inevitable that there will be disputes. When you have an argument with someone, it's wise to play dumb.

An unpleasant scene happened in the market over the weekend.

A mother who was riding a scooter to carry her child to buy groceries accidentally bumped into the scooter in front of her in a crowded market. As a result, the fender of the rear wheel of the other scooter was broken. .

The other party looked back, got out of the car and caught Bao Ma. Bao's mother kept saying "I'm sorry, I'm sorry", but the other party was still very angry, so she opened her mouth to curse.

Mommy saw that she had apologized, so why was she still unwilling to forgive her? Bao's mother was also furious. Regardless of her child's face, she started scolding each other in public, which attracted a lot of onlookers. The two almost started to fight, but luckily they were pulled away and they were able to get along peacefully.

In this matter, Bao's mother obviously suffered a loss. She didn't know how to stop the loss in time, because first of all, she was in the wrong. When someone insults someone, if she can pretend to be stupid and say nothing, or apologize and turn around Just leave, then the other party will not hold on to you, let alone add fuel to the fire of the other party and worsen the matter because of your counterattack.

When arguing with others, those who know how to play dumb can avoid a dispute and keep themselves safe from harm. Sometimes, impulse is the devil. It can lower the other person's mood appropriately, and your own safety will be guaranteed.

When couples get along for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be conflicts. The reason why the relationship between husband and wife in many families becomes bad is largely because each other wants to be stronger. There is a saying that goes well, "Family is not a place for reasoning, but a place for love." There is no need for a husband and wife to be competitive, so what if they win? You lose your partner's patience and trust in you, and the relationship begins to slowly deteriorate.

My cousin is a person with extremely high emotional intelligence. He is a businessman. Although his wife has always taken care of the business, he is only responsible for socializing. Many times, when his wife is not around, he feels that something is wrong with him and he feels unsure of himself.

My cousin and his wife get along very well and they know how to respect each other.

When she is away from home, her wife will act as a good helper and give all the credit to her cousin. Outsiders would really think this is her cousin's ability. When at home, his cousin will become very doting on his wife, helping her to beat her back, cooking and washing dishes, and is proficient in everything. In his words, families don’t need to be reasonable. Sometimes they need to act stupid. This is a powerful tool to resolve conflicts. Many times, when conflicts arise, as long as you apologize playfully, tell jokes to your wife, and dispel her anger, you can avoid a family "war". Why not do this?

When couples get along, it is a very high level to know how to play dumb when encountering conflicts. It can regulate the emotions of both parties and avoid tit-for-tat. Every time conflicts are triggered, the relationship will not end. It will last a long time.

There are people outside the world, and there is a sky outside the world. What I mean is don’t think that you are the best one. In fact, there are many people who are better than you. No matter how powerful a smart person is, he will hide his strength, not expose it too much, and become the person who makes a fortune in silence.

They are "stupid" on the surface. When someone compares with them, they deliberately pretend to have an attitude that it has nothing to do with themselves, and do not blindly follow the trend, follow the crowd, or make comparisons. As the saying goes, "People are more annoying than others." Why let yourself fall into the endless abyss? Sometimes pretending to be confused is a good way, at least you don't have to live in the eyes of others.

Foolish people have foolish blessings. If they live happily every day, they will naturally be in a cheerful mood and not suffer from diseases. This is the highest realm of life.