Those things in wechat group

The use efficiency of WeChat has surpassed telephone, email and other communication tools, and the function of WeChat group has greatly changed the social relations and communication methods between people. In the foreseeable future, with the development of information technology, especially terminals, and the acceleration of social rhythm, WeChat group will take more and more responsibilities in people's work and life under the background of emerging infectious diseases around the world, which also requires us to have a relatively profound understanding of the problems existing in WeChat group, so that users and managers can have a good and healthy attitude towards this important social tool.

First, the structural characteristics of WeChat group:

1, composition: WeChat group is composed of group owner and group members, and its connection methods are: tree structure, chain structure, ring structure, etc. , directly or indirectly related to individuals. This structure makes the group present a loose and compact combination; Freedom is associated with constraints; A social platform that integrates democracy and supervision.

2. How to speak: Every participant in the WeChat group has the right to speak freely. No one has the function of modifying or blocking the speech of group members, and everyone's speech is open to everyone. This way gives the speaker a higher authority, which can increase the speaker's sense of participation and existence and meet the needs of a large number of users.

3. Management mode: Group owners have almost only one right, that is, kicking people. This single and rude way puts a great test on the management of group owners, and it is not easy to manage WeChat group well.

Second, who is talking about what? ：

The content published in the WeChat group is rich and colorful, which can be summarized as follows:

1. News or events: Because groups are generally composed of people with certain attributes, it is acceptable for most people to publish some news or events that everyone cares about. Although it is fragmented information, it has also been searched, and WeChat group is a convenient place to obtain information.

2. Comment or discussion: This is also one of the important functions of the group, brainstorming. This kind of comment is easy to get out of control or quarrel because it is off the screen, which is a certain test for participants.

3, relaxed or funny: small videos, small paragraphs, small pictures, spoofs, relax the mood, give everyone a soothing mood, as long as the scale is well grasped, it is still relatively popular.

4. Selling or bringing goods: mostly women. It is acceptable if it does not involve illegal activities, does not sell screens and does not disturb the market order.

5. Show or show: in order to show yourself to many people or someone, get the recognition or love of the display object; At the same time, it can also meet the needs that some people can't meet in their daily lives. This kind of display can make everyone's interaction more colorful, and also play a therapeutic role in some people's psychology. This function is the basis of the existence of group chat.

The "performer" must control the angle, such as a peacock showing its feathers. If the angle is not well controlled, exposing your private parts to the camera will be quite "stupid".

6. Rumors or troubles: people who are dissatisfied with society, well-known, ignorant, groceries, saboteurs, cults, etc. Publishing bad information is also convenient and efficient in the group. It can be said rudely that the WeChat group is the most active place for the above-mentioned bad guys. None of us may have zero tolerance for this, and we don't need to explain it.

7. Other categories: pandering to leaders or elders, lurking to monitor information, pursuing or seducing the opposite sex, making friends with powerful people, increasing pressure, looking for business opportunities and so on.

Third, what should a group owner look like? ：

I divide group owners into three categories:

1. Qualified group owners: seriously and moderately participate in discussions, do not participate in arguments, properly mediate disputes, bring red envelopes with hair during the Chinese New Year holidays, listen to the opinions of most people if you have ideas, and take the initiative to pay for parties. There are all kinds of unqualified group owners, and the qualified group owners are basically the same.

2. Arrogant group owner: Arrogant group owner means that everyone is willing to obey. For example, among administrative personnel, the group owner has the highest status; Among businessmen, group owners have the richest money or the widest connections; The group owners in the alumni group of engineering universities are all divorced beauties.

3. Idiot group owner: can't tolerate different opinions; Most people who publish information can't understand what they don't know; Treat the group as your own personal show; Have a good personal relationship as the basis for supporting one party; Allow some people to post bad information to please them; Use the group platform to make illegal profits; Kicking people around as private territory; Wait a minute.

Fourth, how are good group members tempered?

As a participant in a group, everyone has the obligation to maintain a good atmosphere in the group and contribute to the all-round construction of the group, with the goal of prosperity and durability. A good team member should have the following qualities:

1, actively participate in the discussion and don't dive: participation is the greatest respect for all members of the group.

2. Propagandize positive information and opinions: do a good job in safeguarding national unity and social harmony bit by bit.

3, high pattern: do not dominate the screen, do not try to be brave, do not show off wealth, do not show off wealth, do not engage in small groups, do not crowd out the weak.

4. Abide by group rules, respect group friends, make no trouble, and don't laugh at others.

5, what should not be said, what occasion to say, what depth to say first.

6. Resolutely resist bad information, especially information that disturbs social order, such as public knowledge. Politeness is taken away with the rhythm. I usually refer to the movie "Nine Products Sesame Officer" by Master Xing.

Do it!

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