How to judge that the other party is not raised?

I believe everyone knows that there are many interesting online buzzwords circulating in our present life, and their meanings are not the same. Just like the word "fish farming" I said, I believe many people have some doubts. Let's explore together!

First of all, let's analyze the meaning of the word "fish farming".

In the normal language environment, "fish farming" simply refers to some fish lovers who like to keep their favorite fish in a fish tank at home, and of course there are fish lovers who like to raise fish because of geomantic omen.

Today we are talking about "fish farming", which is about the communication and feelings between people. We all know that there will be many jokes on the Internet saying that "playing hard to get" and "refusing to welcome" in feelings are the same as "raising fish".

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First, the other party never takes the initiative.

In some people's love, only one party is always active, while the other party is very passive. There are only two situations in this situation, or the other person doesn't love you, and I don't know under what circumstances I chose to be with you. Another situation is that you are treated as a spare tire. If the other person really wants to fall in love with you seriously, he will never let you pay unilaterally, and if you don't take the initiative to find him at ordinary times, he will come to talk to you first, even if the topic of chatting between two people is coming to an end, he will try to find you something else.

Second, the other party only enjoys not paying.

There are also some people in love who only enjoy the kindness given by each other, whether it is snacks or other things, they will always come. They can even confidently ask each other to spend money for themselves. They don't feel guilty about spending each other's money to buy things for themselves, and even take it for granted. And they never want to return anything to you, and they don't want to return anything to you, because in TA's eyes, you are a spare tire.

Third, the other party is unwilling to disclose the relationship.

Couples are happy to disclose their relationship after falling in love. If they show their love online, they will have a feeling of telling the whole world that this person is me, so even boys who usually look cold will make some loving remarks in the circle of friends like a little fool after falling in love. If the person you love doesn't want to disclose your relationship, it means that the other person doesn't want your relationship to be known by other people in his circle of friends, and this other person is probably his real object, and you just exist as his spare tire.

Here, I still suggest that if you meet a "fish farmer", both men and women should stay away as soon as possible, stop losses in time, and don't have too much contact with such people, otherwise they will only get deeper and deeper.