There is a saying in the countryside: What does "a family of four, the loser dies" mean?

What I'm talking about here is bad things, which will affect the foundation of family life stability. Once a family member is infected with these bad "ethos" or bad "habits", then the family will not be happy and will easily fall apart. First, the first push is gambling (drugs):

This kind of example is very common in rural areas. Although the two former gamblers in our village have passed away, they still left many jokes. It's like saying that people are idle and saying: I don't want to live after playing cards in the wheat field. Because they are gambling friends, they used to play cards when harvesting wheat. As a result, when others harvested wheat that year, their own wheat was not harvested because of rainy days. They all have wives and children, but they all left. Great, then they sold the rented house to gamble ... think about it, they didn't repent until they died, just saying that gambling was too harmful.

Second, "lazy" people:

Farmers are hardworking, and if they don't, they won't live a happy life. There is a young couple in the village. The man is an only child and there are five sisters on it. Both husband and wife are young by their parents, have sisters to help them, and have some money, so they are lazy. My parents have opened a canteen for more than ten years, and they have all eaten it up and gone. Others buy goods to sell. They eat whatever they like for their own taste. Just like cooked beef. Eat a lot at a time, hardly buy, and eat both. They don't do farm work at home, they just hang out. When parents see that they can't do it, they let them go out to make money and then send money to help them. Later, the woman ran away and the man came back ... Cold turned the beautiful life into a joke.

Third, crows and thieves:

Although such people are not guilty to death, they are also very annoying people in the countryside. A few years ago, this happened in a nearby village. Men take stealing chickens and touching dogs as "pleasure" and think that no one else knows. As a result, someone was caught stealing and invited to a special place for dinner. Think about what kind of daughter-in-law a man like him can marry. Before long, my wife ran away with someone. Isn't it just family destruction? This kind of thing must not be contaminated. This is really a bad habit. People have hands and feet. Why can't they work hard to make money?

Fourth, irresponsible people:

People have the responsibility from the moment they are born, giving us the responsibility of life. This kind of thing is particularly particular in rural areas, and there are many sayings. For example, if you don't honor your parents, then your children will be taught by example and feel that it is "natural" not to honor their parents. Then when the problem comes, it will form a vicious circle in family relations-the next generation dripping from the eaves. This kind of family relationship is a bit paradoxical, which is bad for parents and good for children-as a result, children don't honor the elderly. In such a family, it is only a matter of time before the loser dies.

Life is not easy, do it and cherish it!