How to break through the conventional thinking mode?

If you stick to the conventional work concept, you will always be the most ordinary employee, and you may even lose this qualification in the end, so everything depends on starting over.

Li Wei is a very good young man. He behaves appropriately, but somehow, his life always hits a wall. Let's talk about finding a job first. Nowadays, it is generally difficult for college students to find jobs, so many students have been looking for jobs since their senior year. Large-scale job fairs are generally arranged in March and April every year. The young man thinks that finding a job is after graduation. So when the students interviewed everywhere, he still held the sage book; When the students signed the contract, he was still busy preparing his graduation thesis; When I got my diploma in September, I began to look for a job, but there was no good company to recruit, so I had to go to a small company.

Li Wei's love is full of twists and turns. He fell in love with a female colleague of the company, and was about to confess to her when a well-informed colleague told him a message: This girl doesn't like flowers, so it's better to give her a small farewell gift! The young man hesitated, but decided to send red roses. The reason is simple: according to the convention, courtship should be accompanied by flowers. As a result, the girl reluctantly accepted the flowers, but she didn't come to work for a few days because of the rash. It turns out that she has a serious pollen allergy. Of course, the good things of the two will also go away.

The young man's mistake is that he should not think according to the so-called convention, because nothing in the world is static. If you form the habit of obeying the rules and stick to the established routine, you will become a victim of the habit.

With the continuous development of the market economy and the increasingly fierce competition, many companies have accelerated the pace of work in order to adapt to the changes in the market and gradually lost the happiness and comfort that life itself should have. Therefore, in order to find the inherent happiness of life in such a fast-paced work, you need to carefully weigh and grasp between work and life and change your concept of work. Because after all, work is for a better life.

Work is an indispensable part of our life, so we should treat it with a clear concept. If you just regard work as a job to make a living, as a means to make a living; Then, you won't attach importance to it, like it and then love it with the right attitude. But if you can see it in your mind as a way to deepen and broaden your experience, a way and method to fully reflect your survival value; Then, you will value it from the heart, like it, love it, and find a lot of fun from the work itself.

Because this kind of work has brought you far beyond the connotation of the work itself. In other words, work is not just work, it has become a way of life and survival, and it is a wise choice in your life. It will become a part of life and build a rich and meaningful life for you. Indeed, the change of work concept has provided us with new opportunities and challenges. Adapt to change, seize opportunities in change, and you will be in an invincible position. It is not a positive attitude to respond to changes with constancy.

With the continuous improvement of people's understanding, a new idea and concept about work is getting stronger and stronger. People think that work should not only be a means to make a living, or a means to make money, support a family or win an enviable social status, but also a means to provide us with rich experience. This change in concept has brought great and even radical changes to our whole society. Moreover, this change of labor concept will have a great impact on the whole human history. Only cowards are afraid of change, and only complacent people shrink from it. Successful people look for opportunities for success in change. Only by finding opportunities can you change the world, and in the process of changing the world, can you change yourself and move towards a higher realm of life. Only when you work for your ideal, can work, life and entertainment be integrated, and you can truly find your own life value.

People often lose their creativity because of certain rules. Therefore, nothing can be done without rules. But it's not good to be too rigid. At some point, we should be good at changing the rules that people follow, so as to create a brilliant life.

A philosopher said, "Only change is eternal." As time goes on, the world will inevitably change. When the environment changes, we must reflect on ourselves: have I changed? Why are some people in shine on you Better than Blue? The reason why the waves behind the Yangtze River push the waves ahead is that they have developed and changed in the new relationship. In the new environment, they have irreplaceable advantages. If you don't change, you can't live comfortably in society.

Once upon a time, there was a scholar who behaved himself in everything he did, liked to quote classics and believed that the old adage could not be violated. One day, his house caught fire, and his sister-in-law gasped and said to him, "Quick, quick! Call your brother to put out the fire. He is playing chess at Li Shifu's house next door. " The scholar left the gate and said to himself, "Sister-in-law told me to hurry up. Didn't the sage book say' haste makes waste'? How can I be fast! " So he walked slowly to Master Wang's house. Seeing my brother playing chess happily, he stood silently watching chess. At the end of the game, he said, "Brother, there is a fire at home. My sister-in-law told you to go back and put out the fire immediately!" " "

The younger brother trembled with anger and scolded, "You have been here for so long, why didn't you say so earlier?" The scholar pointed to the words on the chessboard and said, "Brother, don't you see that it clearly says' Watching Chess without Words'!" His brother saw that he was still pretending to be gentle and raised his fist to hit him, but he shrank back. When he saw his brother retract his fist, he put his face together and said, "Brother, you can fight!" " ! The chessboard doesn't clearly say' Hands up, no regrets'. Why did you put your hand back again? "

The scholar in the story is very funny, which is what we often call a nerd. This kind of person doesn't think about how to do things, but only follows the rules, and the result is either a joke or trouble. In a word, nothing is easy to do.

There is nothing wrong with people who follow the rules, but their attitudes and methods may not be able to adapt to the complicated and changeable reality. In the face of fierce competition, it is not feasible to always think about the past, so we should look at the present more. Because of innovation ability, we have core competitiveness. Most people who achieve great things have unconventional characteristics. They can find shortcomings from what others think is almost the golden rule, and then carefully analyze and correct them, thus gaining enviable opportunities. This kind of person should be an example for us to learn from.

Robert Kliger, a professor specializing in sports psychology at Stanford University, pointed out in his book Changing the Rules of the Game: "In the field of sports, many players create good results because they break the traditional way of competition." Excellent athletes generally have this feature of "changing the rules of the game". According to Robert Clegg's conclusion, breaking through the traditional mindset can create unexpected miracles. Therefore, if you want to change your destiny, you must break through the traditional thinking and avoid the proper way of doing things!